# Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 28, 2008, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359 "2008-11-28T20:33:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Rider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/dc4da7/32.png) [@Rider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rider)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/1 "2008-11-28T20:33:08Z")
Hi everyone, I am a consultant 33, male, living in Dallas, regular to slim constitution. My personality is more on the “nice and shy” side. I just received my first order: Alpha 314 and Turn on the Heat. I thought about Alpha 314 Because building confidence is way too important in the business, as in most. Any extra help on this department is welcome. I tried Alpha 314 it right away, 4 drops (later I found this might be too much for start) first just on me, as I imagined it must have some kind of effect even just on myself. What I found out so far in this simple test is that it DOES create a good atmosphere and a positive mood on me. Now I will try it outside… I am trying Turn on the Heat because I just began dating a girl; she is a 29 y.o. hot Latina girl… I know the nice guy part on me is well perceived by her… however she likes sexier, strong guys. So I plan to use Turn on the Heat when dating her to enhance my sexy side and to provoke her wild side 😉 , any recommendations will be appreciated!! Thanks guys! ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 8:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/2 "2008-11-28T20:40:00Z")
Hi Rider, welcome to the forum. I’m sure both products will be good for you. You will need to tell us more about yourself to qualify for your gift certificate. What is your personality like? Are you laid back, shy or outgoing? Are you in a relationship or are you just looking to date? Tell us about yourself so we can make solid suggestions. Also, TUTH isn’t meant for average everyday use, make sure to read up on when it is appropriate to use. Looking forward to your reply… ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/3 "2008-11-28T20:56:09Z")
Hello Rider Good to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 Ok i see you bought A314 & TUTH well congrats there 🙂 I suggest you be careful with your dosage of TUTH as it is not for everyday use like my buddy Robbie have said there. Ok like my buddy have said, tell us more about your goals on using pheros here plus tell us about your personality so that we can help you there 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Rider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/dc4da7/32.png) [@Rider](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rider)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/4 "2008-11-28T21:16:47Z")
Thanks for your comments Robbie, just updated the thread! > [@Robbie](#): > > Hi Rider, welcome to the forum. > > I’m sure both products will be good for you. You will need to tell us more about yourself to qualify for your gift certificate. What is your personality like? Are you laid back, shy or outgoing? Are you in a relationship or are you just looking to date? > > Tell us about yourself so we can make solid suggestions. Also, TUTH isn’t meant for average everyday use, make sure to read up on when it is appropriate to use. > > Looking forward to your reply… ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/5 "2008-11-28T22:18:18Z")
Thanks for the additional info, Rider. Being shy, Instant Shine would serve you well, it will add to your confidence level, and people will perceive you as more confident as well. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) gets people to open up to you and works really well with A314 (as does the Shine). Instant Honesty also get people talking, but the conversations will be on a deeper level. Read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for additional tips. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/6 "2008-11-28T22:55:39Z")
Ok thanks rider for adding the extra info there, i have read about your situation there & i agreed with my buddy Robbie on his recommendation of Instant Shine & [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) to you there as these two pheros will be helpful to you there 🙂 Instant Shine will help you boost up your confidence & breaking down the shyness there & yes use A314 with some Instant Openness in a combo for better results & the combo suits well in a work environment 😃 I also suggest you use TUTH with Instant Honesty as it will spice up your relationship to an intimate level 🙂 See you & good luck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/23359/7 "2008-11-29T03:06:05Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Based in the info you gave I think you made good choices. I do agree with Robbie and Phat . Round out your mone arsenal by adding something social. IO and Ishine are both great. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Have fun Tisha