# Hi **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 13, 2009, 12:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836 "2009-01-13T12:36:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![harrydal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7ea924/32.png) [@harrydal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/harrydal)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 12:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/1 "2009-01-13T12:36:37Z")
Hi my name is Harry (male,28) and and i’m from Trinidad in the Caribbean and i saw this site and its like the only working Phero site ever well…um … i know i’m not soo very attractive and some say i’m scary like a white version of Flava flav and i’ve tried a spray from one of my friend who uses my email to buy items 🙂 and i was getting a good responds i think the name is Shine i really want to know whats the best option for me to get attention and good responds from girls as you know i’m shy too and all i really do is work so i never had any real time to go out and have fun (i dont know how to have fun) i would just like for girls to be good/normal to talk with me and Yes im single for the longest time and a V\*\*\*in and i feel shame when i see all my friends have girls and i cant even talk to one as when i sprayed my friend Shine on me and i went to the shop 2 girls passed me by and said ‘Hi good day’ and i was like OHH my god this is the best day of my life i would like to know more info on which pheros to get and help me out better Thankyou From Harry ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 12:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/2 "2009-01-13T12:52:27Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum, Harry, I suggest you try IO, Shine and AMMO. IO is to make giurls want to talk to you. It is an ice breakers and makes you more approachable. Shine will give you the confidence. It is also the mood lifter. It makes you and the people around you in good mood. AMMO will make the girls attracted to you. It gives you an edge to win over the girls. It can also exually attract the girls. Good luck and have fun ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 1:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/3 "2009-01-13T13:39:05Z")
Hello Harry and welcome to the forum. I am sorry to hear that your social situation has you feeling down. On the flip side there is no shame in still being a virgin. If you have not found the right girl yet then the time has just not been right. The good thing is that with all the work you do you are getting yourself established and girls find that attractive in and of itself. But let’s see if we can’t come up with a strategy for you go to out, start meeting some girls and hopefully find the the right one. I think the recommendations JB has given you are the right ones product-wise. The [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) ('none based) will let the ladies know you are interested. But because it is bablanced you can wear it to work if cologne is appropriate for work. The IShine which you have already had good experiences with creates a feeling of happiness around you. IO will help you generate some of those intial conversations. I know what you mean about not being the most attractive guy out there. I can be a little scary looking too. My big recommendation is to smile. People tend to mirror what others are doing aorund them and if you smile they will often smile too. The other thing to remember is that while you have had good experiences with the IShine, you need to remember that these products are not magic. They create the suggestion of sexual interest. They cret the suggestion of a happy enivronment, They create the suggestion of a nice conversation. But you will have to then act within the realm of that suggestion. You will need to smile and overcome that shyness enough to say hello and get a conversation started. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 3:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/4 "2009-01-13T15:49:03Z")
Welcome to the forum Harry! Wow!!! The guys gave awesome advice. I mirror their recommendation and just want to add that [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a great mood lifter for not only those around you but also yourself, aaannndddd, it can also be a confidence booster too! And the Instant Openess can help you (and those around you) feel more open to communicate and chat with each other and get those first interactions going. They are great for diminishing personal space too, meaning that people will gravitate closer to you (assuming your body language says it’s ok for them to do that). Boss is right (as usual 🙄) when he says you need to smile. If you act like you’re the biggest catch in the world (as I’m sure you are 😉), then that’s attractive in it’s own right and people will be drawn to that. I’d like you to try a little experiment for me, pretty please! Just try it for a couple of days, smile at EVERYONE (especially the ladies), hold your head up high, and walk like you think you’re a sex god, and see what kind of responses you get. You may feel a little silly, but believe me, people around you won’t be thinking that! If you “fake it” long enough, eventually, you’ll evolve into that and will no longer have to “fake it”. Good luck, and let me know how that experiment goes. ~River ---
**Author:** ![harrydal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7ea924/32.png) [@harrydal](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/harrydal)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 12:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/5 "2009-01-14T00:50:06Z")
Thanks for that Great reply and i’ll totally look into that [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/),shine and AMMO and see what happens this forum is the best in the world .. totally Helpful and nice and that GC will go into some good use with these Phero products THANK YOU 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/24836/6 "2009-01-14T03:14:59Z")
Hello Harry, Welcome to Pherotalk. My name is Tisha and I am a hostess/ mone guru here on pherotalk. I am glad you decided to join us. Well obviously you should get a bottle of Ishine as that one already has worked a little for you in the short time you used it. It just gets better to. AMMO for general attraction and interest. IO to help open you and others up more. IFM to increase affection and calm and ease. That is just in case you really are scary looking which I doubt. 😉 As River mentioned smiling is great. Making eye contact. Standing up straigh and tall. These all project confidence and confidence is attractive to women. I know your shy but these are easy things you can do that will help you. I have a body language link in my signature below check that out for more tips. If you need help of have questions just let me know. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha