# Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 24, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244 "2009-05-24T01:12:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![skyblusweetie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/8e7dd6/32.png) [@skyblusweetie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/skyblusweetie)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 1:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/1 "2009-05-24T01:12:08Z")
Hello! Age: 22 Sex: Female Located: Minnesota About me: I am a recent college graduate who is outgoing and shy - though not at the same time. I carry a lot of stress and am prone to worry. I am most interested in [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) that could help ease my stress. I just came on to check this out - my fiance told me about it! 🙂 I think the idea that pheromones could potentially relieve some of my stress (which I have a lot of) is really exciting. It would be great to be able to use some more natural means to help me stay focused and calm. I plan to check this all out more and do some research with my fiance. I look forward to learning more! ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/2 "2009-05-24T01:55:32Z")
Hello skyblu, I suggest you check out [The Womens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258)to get started, this will provide a great introduction to very best in womens products. I suggest you look further into the social products, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Honesty, Instant Shine. Now these won’t magically remove stress, but they can help you feel at ease around others, and them at ease around you! This in turn, helps to reduce tension, anxiety and stress in my experience. Can you tell us, what is the source of your stress and worry? Cheers and welcome to the forum 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/3 "2009-05-24T01:59:48Z")
Hello there, Are you only looking for pheromones that will help you with stress? I’m sure a lot of people could tell you what works best for them. I personally like spaceland. It helps me not to think so much, so I wont focus to much on negatives. Are you wanting help with work? Or maybe your love life aswell? nice meeting you! ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/4 "2009-05-24T02:27:07Z")
Hi skyblu great to have you here! Hmm, stress and worry. I’m guessing you mean outgoing with people u know well and shy in social situations in which you don’t know the people you’re with? Well i usually use instant honesty to help me in those situations. As for when you’re outgoing,… maybe you’d like to play around with some [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a or b to help build your confident even more! Have fun here 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2009, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/5 "2009-05-24T21:22:11Z")
I’m with Remmy on the instant honesty although for a different reason. Instant honesty seems to majorly drop my stress levels in general and promotes good snuggle sessions with my boyfriend as well as nice pleasant comfortable conversations.It’s less giddy than instant openness. Pheros definitely can help out with stress levels. Welcome on board and can you tell us more about your personality beyond the stress? 🙂 When are you outgoing and when do you feel shy? What triggers the shy reaction and what triggers the outgoing one? How would you describe your fiance` personality wise as this may affect which [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would be best to use with him. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2009, 2:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/29244/6 "2009-05-25T02:44:20Z")
Hi there, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Well mones are not really for self effects although they do cause them in a large number of users. Some just get reactions though and don’t feel a thing themselves. In testing we do talk a lot about self effects here because its all part of the process but I just want you to know this upfront so your not disappointed. In all likelihood you will be one of those whole feels the self effects of at least some of them if not all. Now I would suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A. This is a strong confident attractive mix. It has been reported to make the user feel confidence and more in control of there environment. Ishine for a feeling of well being and upliftment. It draws people to you with its warmth and charisma and makes them feel more happy and at ease. IH for increase comfort and rapport and a feeling of connection with others. Now we do have some advanced products for focus and calm but I strongly suggest you start with consumer mixes and see how they work out for you first. **Your GC is on its way.** If you need anything let me know. Tisha Hostess/Guide