# Hi :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 2, 2010, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013 "2010-11-02T01:11:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![JenniiferxT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@JenniiferxT](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JenniiferxT)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/1 "2010-11-02T01:11:56Z")
Greetings to you all, I have somehow managed to stumble upon [pheromones](https://a314.com/) again as it is a subject that has, for me, engendered both intrigue and skepticism in the past although I have never used them personally. I am pursuing a B.S. in Biology and so I am very inclined to a scientific approach. I’m really quite interested in starting some of my own mixes using the experimental lines as I’m looking for some very specific results. To give you a little background info, I am extremely shy sometimes terrified of socializing, especially with women. I have been told by most that I am extremely attractive (I am 19 years at 110lbs, slender but curvy with graceful features, palest skin with dark eyes and long dark silky hair), sometimes to the point of almost always being the most attractive in the room. To this notion I find myself both embarrassed and resentful..most men are predatory in nature when I truly need a friend or protector and most women hate me openly probably misinterpreting my shyness for snubbing them. I have not developed my skills of small talk at all and so I find interacting with the general public to be tiresome and taxing at best. So the first problem I need to tackle is something that will ease communication with women in social situations such as at school, class, or doctor’s visits. I am so phobic of talking to waitresses and receptionists! I don’t know why.. Can anyone suggest a starting point, or a specific mix that I might try for this? I really look forward to hearing from you all. ---
**Author:** ![JenniiferxT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@JenniiferxT](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JenniiferxT)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/2 "2010-11-02T01:13:13Z")
O and thanks in advance 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/3 "2010-11-02T01:16:53Z")
Welcome Jennifer. Starting point, nol. Alpha and beta isomers. Commercial products available here, io and ih. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/4 "2010-11-02T01:22:55Z")
Hi Jeniifer and welcome to the forum! So excellent that you can stop in and chat! Intrigue and a healthy dose of skeptical is great to have around here! Now, your posts will be very informative and laden in acute observations, I can tell!!! Can’t wait to see what your mixes produce. However, for most people starting out on their mone adventures, its recommended to try out some of the commercial lines to see how these mones affect you and others. From your post, I would suggest Instant SHINE and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). I’ve used both and HIGHLY recommend these. Istant Shine, I see as a smile in a bottle on yourself and others around you. The Instant Openness will lower some of the social barriers and insecurities we put up in our social interactions with others. But, this will also apply to those taking in the IO from your phero cloud. For your scientific side, I suggest you read **[THIS](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-skin-is-a-pheromone-mixing-canvas/34388)** I was glad I did!!! The MX and P’s are experimental lines that need users to report effects. I’m sure someone with your studies would be most welcome to test out these lines and post your observations! Take a walk over to the Women’s aisle, the women there won’t hate you! I promise!!! They will welcome you with open arms! And if they don’t…PM me who’s causing you grief and I’ll take care of it!!! 😉 Hope those work out with Social interactions!!! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![JAYCEE1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/b4bc9f/32.png) [@JAYCEE1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JAYCEE1)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/5 "2010-11-02T01:26:18Z")
Welcome! I’m glad you found us. For help with your shyness, you might try CTTM2. None of the products on here will work magic, but they can make it easier for you to overcome your obstacles. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2010, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/6 "2010-11-02T01:53:26Z")
Hi Jennifer, welcome to the forum! And I do understand where you’re coming from, about being misunderstood. I was very shy for a long time. The guys have made some great suggestions. If you want to bring out the protectiveness in a guy, definitely try Instant Sexiness/B. It will enhance your soft personality in a nice way. To help with social anxiety, try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), which will relax you and those around, and conversation will flow more easily. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and will tend to open up to you more. To lift up your spirits as well as the spirits of those around you, definitely check out Instant Shine. It will give you a happy glow that others will want to be around. I hope this helps, and just ask if you have any questions. And please come join us in the womens section, where there are lots of nice gals who would love to get to know you. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2010, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/7 "2010-11-03T00:14:04Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Jennifer! That’s my mom’s name btw. What you are going through is what a good amount of us ladies go through and seeing that things are getting worse with society of course certain social situations will get worse. Some of us grow out of it and learn to be comfortable in our own skin and have learned to decipher between the bad guys and the good ones or at least the ones that are safe to hang out because we have met so many a -holes you eventually learn to spot them a mile away. You are young and you will learn much eventually just don’t ever make people make you feel bad or less of a person because of their own insecurities. The [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) suggestions you received will definitely help you. See you around the women’s section. Your gc was issued. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2010, 1:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/43013/8 "2010-11-03T13:39:54Z")
> [@JenniiferxT](#): > > Greetings to you all, > > I have somehow managed to stumble upon pheromones again as it is a subject that has, for me, engendered both intrigue and skepticism in the past although I have never used them personally. I am pursuing a B.S. in Biology and so I am very inclined to a scientific approach. I’m really quite interested in starting some of my own mixes using the experimental lines as I’m looking for some very specific results. > > To give you a little background info, I am extremely shy sometimes terrified of socializing, especially with women. I have been told by most that I am extremely attractive (I am 19 years at 110lbs, slender but curvy with graceful features, palest skin with dark eyes and long dark silky hair), sometimes to the point of almost always being the most attractive in the room. To this notion I find myself both embarrassed and resentful..most men are predatory in nature when I truly need a friend or protector and most women hate me openly probably misinterpreting my shyness for snubbing them. I have not developed my skills of small talk at all and so I find interacting with the general public to be tiresome and taxing at best. So the first problem I need to tackle is something that will ease communication with women in social situations such as at school, class, or doctor’s visits. I am so phobic of talking to waitresses and receptionists! I don’t know why.. > > Can anyone suggest a starting point, or a specific mix that I might try for this? I really look forward to hearing from you all. Welcome to pherotalk, YOU young lady are exactly what we’re looking for! I like that you have an interest in creating your own mixes and that you’re a science student, this makes you an ideal person for being a long time contributor to the forums so I hope you have a positive experience with your mones and decide to stick around for a while. That said, for personal use I think your ideal mix would be Instant Sexiness B, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine. These would not only be easy to work with your natural personality but would create a sense of connection, warm friendliness and help bring out a nurturing protective side in men. For the scientist side of you, I suggest going through “sweet spot” testing for most female oriented and unisex products first, testing each as a stand alone and reporting your results in the ladies forum. That would include Instant Sexiness A-Angelina Jolie Vibe Instant Sexiness B-Marilyn Monreo vibe [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)-Fun and Chatty CTTM2-half way mix between IO and IH Instant Honesty-Deep connection and rapport Instant Shine-Warm, likable, youthful and charismatic And then possibly MX300-Alpha Female business mix Any other ladies experimental mixes the female members could give you more info on Once you’ve familiarized yourself with those products you should have a good base of knowledge to consider making your own mixes with the experimones and putatives. One last bit of advice, Your interest in science is great but a lot of times effects can be subtle and not as obvious as portrayed in movies and TV so I suggest picking up a book or two on body language. Get a baseline for how people react to you..both strangers and friends/family you see regularly so you can better spot subtle changes in behavior. Again, hope to hear from your experiences soon.