Hi, Sharee!
Welcome on board.
Men´s products work great, so i guess women´s will work good too although i ´ve never used them.
Pagodeiro and XPX have already given you some great advice. Althoug i don´t know much about you, I would like to suggest you some things to read, if you have not alredy done it:
LADIES: A mini compilation of your personal experiences!
What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated
How do I know if I am getting hits !!
After reading this threads, and all of the stikies in women´s section, you will get some basic knowledge that, combined with users advice, will allow you to know what products you should get first and what to expect from them.
However, you won´t really know whats going on before you try, so get yourself a gift certificate and choose some toys. You´ll have lots of fun.
Hope this helps.
Talk to you soon.