# Hi **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 6, 2007, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891 "2007-10-06T16:25:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2007, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/1 "2007-10-06T16:25:46Z")
Hi Well I am new here, recently divorced after wife had an affair… I am a nice guy, reasonabley good looking, but I am honest with myself, I am 47 not 27, and it is a jungle out there… I am also a tad bursed and the confidance took a hit with the Ex’s affair as can be expected (he was 24) Tend to be a tad gun shy now, However once the Ice is broken and they open up a little I do fine… It is getting over the initial hump (no pin intended)… I guess I am looking for an leg up or an edge… as I start swimming in the big single pond again… I guess I am looking for something balanced for all social occasions, simple to use and generally all around good, if there is such a thing… you know confidant, trustworthy, sexy, open, avalable. Like an “all around cowboy” something that work well accross the board… if possable… Jim . ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2007, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/2 "2007-10-06T18:12:03Z")
Welcome. 1rst - read the sticky posts at the top of the men’s forum. Products you might want to try. Ammo tuth a314 [Raw Power](https://a314.com/product/raw-power/) The ammo and a314 can each be used to buffer the tuth or RP none doses. ---
**Author:** ![gitsmw](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/85e7bf/32.png) [@gitsmw](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gitsmw)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2007, 6:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/3 "2007-10-06T18:14:34Z")
Haha, I just realized that when you said: “I am also a tad bursed and the confidance took a hit with the Ex’s affair as can be expected ( **he** was 24)” that you meant the guy your wife cheated on you with was 24, not that your partner was a 24 year old man! That had me wondering 😛 At 47, Turn Up The Heat might be a good option for one on one interactions. But really, the best all around thing out there is Ammo. It has the right doses of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) to make you more attractive, more friendly, more alpha. You’ll notice your confidence goes up with Ammo as well. When you described what you want, you described Ammo to the dot! or however the saying goes. I also recommend getting into The Mystery Method. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2007, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/4 "2007-10-06T23:07:57Z")
Hi Jim Welcome to the forum. 🙂 I agree with GW and gits. I think some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) or A314 would be good for you to start with and then after you get a feel for those you may want to consider Raw power or Tuth. I would also consider at least 1 social mone like IO or Instant shine. Most of them come in the to-go bottle so you can test them out before you invest in a large bottle and find your favorites. If you have any questions just let us know and make sure you explore the stickies in the mens area. They will help you decide. Steveo will be around soon with info on your GC. Tish ---
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/5 "2007-10-07T01:09:36Z")
Hi thanks I will move to the male side I am reading as fast as I can! There is sooooo much to read however… Ok I am thinking Ammo-instant shine, and probably a light dab of A314.. that is from what I am reading anyway. What do you think? Jim P.S. Yes Ex was a she, Other dude was a punk but a he… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/6 "2007-10-07T01:17:35Z")
I think its some excellant choices. A314 gives you the Alpha Male, trust,respect aura. Its a good product for both going out and work. Ammo has a sexy edge to it but its also a Alpha mix. Instant shine is a mood enhancer. I find it makes people nicer and happy to be around you. I dont want to suggest you spend to much your first time buying but I would think about IO as well. You mentioned you need a ice breaker and IO can really get people talking to you alot. I have seen really good results with it. Sometimes it works so well I feel like just saying “Shut up already” LOL Its something to consider 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 1:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/7 "2007-10-07T01:33:42Z")
Tisha Well in for a dime in for a dollar, just ordered A314 [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Ammo (heavy 2x) Instant openess… ok how do I use this stuff for maximum effect… isn;t this like saturation bombing (of the senses) Jim ---
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/8 "2007-10-07T01:37:36Z")
Tisha, Well in for a dollar in for a dime… Hope this stuff really works… Just ordered Instant shine, Instant openness, Ammo (heavy 2x) and A314 (normal size)… Ok how do I use this sensory cocktail to miximum effect… what results should I expect if it work? Jim ---
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 1:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/9 "2007-10-07T01:52:00Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I think its some excellant choices. > > A314 gives you the Alpha Male, trust,respect aura. Its a good product for both going out and work. > > Ammo has a sexy edge to it but its also a Alpha mix. > > Instant shine is a mood enhancer. I find it makes people nicer and happy to be around you. > > I dont want to suggest you spend to much your first time buying but I would think about Instant Openness as well. You mentioned you need a ice breaker and IO can really get people talking to you alot. I have seen really good results with it. Sometimes it works so well I feel like just saying “Shut up already” LOL Its something to consider 🙂 Thanks T Well in for a dollar in for a dime… Hope this stuff really works… Just ordered [Instant shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), [Instant openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) (heavy 2x) and A314 (all normal size)… Ok my personallity is Pretty Alpha to start with, I am a fairly intense person and about as subtile as mack truck generally.. I am just shy at first… As a Lady how do I employ this sensory cocktail to maximum effect… What results should I expect if it works? What doasage and where do i put what in this cocktail… also should we go easy on the A314 so not to intimadating? Jim. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 8:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/10 "2007-10-07T08:43:02Z")
Oh boy Big bottles 😉 Your gonna have some fun. Use one product at a time at first. This way you can get a feel for how it works for you and find your sweet spot for each product. Because you mentioned your faily intense already I think once each one has been tested out you should always add at least one spray of shine when you wear Ammo or A314. Go easy on both the Ammo and the A314 at first even though your 47. You dont look 47 by the way… anyways start with 1 spray/drop applied to a pulse point on your neck or a spot that heats up on your body (wrists, Inner elbows, exposed part of chest) Just so your prepared, sometimes it takes a few days of wearing a product to start to notice results. A little longer with people you know well because they need to register and adjust to your new mone signature and these new feeling they are suddenly getting. Now reactions differ slightly for each user but are in the same general range. IO is pretty easy to see. People will be more friendly and talkative. Shine makes people feel good, its sort of up lifting and they will associate theat feeling to you. A314 has been discribed by the guys as the James Bond effect. People will be helpful, respectful when you have it on. Thats why its great for work to. Depending on a womens personality the social cues can range from more eye contact, open body language, flirting, repeated quick glances to more direct hits such as staring, hovering around your area, bumping into you or getting in your space. The guys have a few great posts on how to pick up on these cues. Just do a search of the forum with the search feature at the top of the forum. Ammo is a bit more sexy. You should see more direct flirting . Now just some advice. Once you see some of these cues you have to make a effort. The mones can hook them and grab there attention but you need to real them in. Try to appear approuchable. If you see a girl displaying IOI’s then be sure to smile or hold eye contact for a minute. Even if your not really interested in her its good practice. Once you start reading the forum you will notice the patterns with each product and the kind of hits that are most often seen with them. Oh and after your 50th post, your posts will stop getting stuck in moderation. I know its a pain in the butt but we cant figure out what has been triggering it. If yours gets stuck dont worry steveo pops by to release them daily. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![MadisonTate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MadisonTate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadisonTate)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 9:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/11 "2007-10-07T09:21:49Z")
Jimmer, a big welcome from Tater. What type of woman are you trying to attract? Age range/ethnicity in particular? ---
**Author:** ![jimmerwi42](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jimmerwi42/32/991_2.png) [@jimmerwi42](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jimmerwi42)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2007, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/12 "2007-10-07T18:17:16Z")
> [@MadisonTate](#): > > Jimmer, a big welcome from Tater. > > What type of woman are you trying to attract? Age range/ethnicity in particular? Wow loaded question… Execlent question i didn;t think of this… Age, is easest, I am 47 (even if i don’t look like it) I would guess my targeted auidance would be to late 30’s to say 50 may go up or down a tad if special, The “power ally” (like baseball) being early-mid 40’s. Ethnicity, Cacuasian, Asain or Eur-Asain. Physicallity, i’ll toss that in cuz I think hormones play a role in how a woman is shaped… Ok think Meg Ryan… Medimum height 5-2 to 5-9 Medium to slim build (the power ally seems to be 5’ 5" - 5’-7" size 6-8)… I love leggs/butts (long and small being the ticket), boobs are nice, but not a requirment (34b is perfect). I would be describing your basic healthy jeans and T shirt country gal next door type look. Not big into make-up a little goes a long way, not into show ponies into go ponies! I guess you need to know what I am trying to project too… wow this is hard and a tough balance but here is my idea… Confidant but not arrogant or in your face, Slightly reserved but still very approachable Honest trustworthy open… Very sexy with a edge and a hint of playful mischeift if you can catch him 🙂. Ok Think maybe Tom Selic in quigly down under… Maybe a combanation of Sean Connery auora / mixed with Toby Keith playfulness. Does that make sense. My original Pic was me relaxed at home having fun, I will post my basic going out look. Or even better check out my pics on my myspace [MySpace.com - Jim - 47 - Male - UNION GROVE, Wisconsin - www.myspace.com/jimmer42](http://myspace.com/jimmer42) that will give you execlent idea of how I look, how I dress and my over all personality… That is why I was thinking mostly Ammo 2x a twist of A314, and a dash of Instant openness instant shine. now how to find the right combanation, and where to start that is the million dollar question. I know i need to experiment. But I don;t get alot of night out like the kids… If you had to pick an out of the gate recpiet for next saturday night what would you try, I am a relitive risk taker so what do you think off Ammo (double strenght) 2x, A314 1x, IO 2 IS 1 A note if it helps I know my testostorone is way down from my youth (have been tested) currently runs in the mid to lower range (getting old sucks) Ok you pro’s out there especally you ladies… how I pull this off… This was such a good question i will cross post it to my tread on men as well Jim ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 8, 2007, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/13 "2007-10-08T12:45:55Z")
> [@jimmerwi42](#): > > …I guess you need to know what I am trying to project too… wow this is hard and a tough balance but here is my idea… > > Confidant but not arrogant or in your face, > Slightly reserved but still very approachable > Honest trustworthy open… > Very sexy with a edge and a hint of playful mischeift if you can catch him 🙂. > > … > > That is why I was thinking mostly Ammo 2x a twist of A314, and a dash of Instant openness instant shine. now how to find the right combanation, and where to start that is the million dollar question. I know i need to experiment. But I don;t get alot of night out like the kids… > > If you had to pick an out of the gate recpiet for next saturday night what would you try, I am a relitive risk taker so what do you think off > Ammo (double strenght) 2x, A314 1x, IO 2 IS 1 You seem to be on the right track for the effect you’re looking for. Ideally you’ll try out the products one at a time to figure what they do on your unique body. Life comes at us fast though, and the mix you proposed doesn’t sound bad. You should go back later and do the individual testing though. You might want to pick up some none to supplement your mixes too. Perhaps tuth 2x since you have low testosterone. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/5891/14 "2007-10-09T04:37:30Z")
Thats a proper introduction from a real Cowboy, although I hate the Dallas Cowboys. I’m pretty sure they used witchcraft to win tonight. I’m sending your email GC and look for it in your email Welcome