# Hi! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 3, 2008, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837 "2008-02-03T06:20:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![land2634](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/958977/32.png) [@land2634](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/land2634)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 6:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/1 "2008-02-03T06:20:00Z")
Hi my name is Brandon, I am 21 from Texas. I am married, but my wife is still very shy. I have thought about trying [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) to help her loosen up and enjoy herself more. Any thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/2 "2008-02-03T06:27:43Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 Turn Up The Heat may be a bit overbearing for her. I would go with AMMO and Instant Honesty to start and work your way to Turn Up The Heat. Ammo is a sexy mix that attracts attention. It has Androstenone for arousal but It is buffered by to other 2 other pheromones to make it less intense. Turn Up The Heat is Androstenone in a neroli scent. It comes on strong and can be intimidating to some women plus your young so you probably dont need a whole lot of straight Androstenone. Instant Honesty opens up close intimate conversation and also will help her feel more comfortable. You may want to check out [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) as well, this gives a mature trusting comfortable vibe which may help her feel more at ease. Keep in mind they all come in a small to-go size so you can test them out before investing alot of money. If you are interested in pheromones for her to wear Instant Sexiness and Instant Openness will help her with confidence and having more fun. Instant sexiness is a strong confident sexy womens mix and one of the forum favorites. Instant Openness is a chatty outgoing fun mix that helps you ad those around you be more social. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/3 "2008-02-03T07:02:04Z")
Hi land! Since u wife is really shy, instant openness and instant honest are great. Openness promote a lot more conversation and your wife will benefit from it. Honesty will help deepen conversation a little, which will also build trust and confort between you and your wife! Tisha just gave a great explanation of the few most useful products! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![land2634](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/958977/32.png) [@land2634](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/land2634)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 7:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/4 "2008-02-03T07:03:58Z")
Awesome! I had no idea this stuff really worked until reading so many posts on this forum about what people actually use and experience. Amazing that for all the phony stuff out there, finally somewhere to get honest answers. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![kidzest](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kidzest/32/1613_2.png) [@kidzest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/kidzest)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/5 "2008-02-03T08:47:14Z")
You’re in good hands..! & in the warmest & helpful community in the phero world. Dats my confession..🙂 😃 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 10:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/6 "2008-02-03T10:55:24Z")
Hi Brandon and welcome to the community. Tisha has given you some good advice. We are both married for quite a while - and we pretty much agree from both the male and female perspective. Skip the Turn Up The Heat - worry about that in about 5-10 years. Like Tisha said, run with Ammo, Instant Honesty and maybe [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). Remember - as far as relationship goes caring and communication are key. Hence the IH. It will help deepen conversations. And women equate deep conversation to caring which in marriage will equate to affection which is the environment for romance. Hope this helps. Welcome again to the community. ---
**Author:** ![land2634](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/958977/32.png) [@land2634](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/land2634)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/7 "2008-02-03T17:13:18Z")
Awesome… I see what you’re saying. While we are very communicative toward one another and honest, it is definitely hard to break that “barrier” since we are both still very new at marriage. Thanks for the advice! ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 7:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/8 "2008-02-03T19:28:27Z")
Land, welcome to the forum. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is a definite comforter. Something to keep in mind is that because you are very close she will sense that there is something different about you right away so start slowly with these products. Tisha and Bosshank know their stuff so listen to what they tell you. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2008, 11:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hi/8837/9 "2008-02-03T23:30:22Z")
Hello again 🙂 😃 **Just popping back in to let you know that your GC will be in your email box in the next 48 hours 😃** Have fun Tisha