# Hispanic Women.....

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 13, 2008, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865 "2008-06-13T04:17:52Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/41 "2008-06-15T00:30:42Z")

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> [@](#):
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> BTW, “whipped men”, male emasculation? I think it’s a sort of a pop-feminism thing. Making fun of men is socially acceptable.

Hell I don’t know where you come from but its not acceptable here.

How do men have it harder, Life is only as hard as you make it. If someone treats you like we described above then I say don’t stand for it. There should be equal respect among people both male and female. A person is only going to give you respect if you earn it. You not going to earn it whining or saying “Yes Dear”.

You don’t have to be a thug or treat women badly you just have to stick up for yourself. “wet noodles” don’t they just keep taking it.

Oh I wanted to add there is nothing wrong with being a gentlemen or soft as long as you command the respect you deserve.  
Tisha

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/42 "2008-06-15T00:39:15Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> Hell I dont know where you come from but its not acceptable here.

It seems to me now days women have more emotional freedom than men. Like it’s more OK for a woman to be tough, but it’s not OK for a man to be soft or express his emotions, or walk away from a confrontational situation without looking like a wimp or like he’s lost something.

BTW, I don’t let people push me around, but I do like avoiding conflicts. Sometimes perhaps I avoid too many conflicts, though, with people.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/43 "2008-06-15T00:55:27Z")

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I am not in any way implying that you personally or any man on this forum is a wet noodle.

I understand where your coming from but there is a huge difference in what we are describing. There is nothing wrong with walking away from confrontation. That shows strength not being a wimp.

But if the confrontation is with someone they just can walk away from they have to draw a line to preserve their self respect. They don’t have to fight or be mean or a brut to do it. They just need to speak up. If she doesn’t give him the respect and kindness he deserves then he shouldn’t give any back.

No one likes confortation, it sucks, its uncomfortable, sometimes even scary but in the words of Kenny Rogers LOL “sometimes you gotta fight when your a man”

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/44 "2008-06-15T01:22:13Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> I am not in any way implying that you personally or any man on this forum is a wet noodle.

I know Tisha, you seem like a very fair, open-minded person. I’d never suspect you thought that, honest.

I’m just wondering if women when they say they are attracted to alphas and turned off by wet noodles, don’t mean they are secreting lusting after arrogant jerks that like living dangerously? Tom Cruise, anybody? He plays a dick in every movie just about, that has to be slapped around to the point he becomes barely a decent human being. And lo and behold, we get a look behind the curtain and we figure out, he’s not much of an actor really, because he’s like that in real life too 🙂

I think every man needs a little bit of an en edgey/risky side, but it doesn’t have to dominate your whole personality. I’d rather seek out people who like me for who I am without having to change. Maybe that makes it tougher, who knows…

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 1:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/45 "2008-06-15T01:53:39Z")

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Oh goddess, I cant stand Tom Cruise, I am not a violent person but I think if I saw him in person I would smack him up side the head, Then I would grab Katy and shake some sense into her. LOL Brad Pitt would get one to 😃

It all comes back to what I always preach really, Balance, Its not really that Alpha men are so attractive, they are balanced. They don’t take shit if someone tries to dish it out but they don’t treat others shitty unless its deserved. Its hard to explain.

Alphas are the dominant leaders but they also balance that leadership with being the protector. I think many men misunderstand exactly what a alpha is. Its not the biggest baddest bad boy in the bunch. Its the man with self respect and confidence the one who See’s wrong and says hey knock that shit off. They know when to use there aggressiveness and when to hold it back. They are not arrogant jerks who live dangerously those are Bad Boys which is different from the alpha male.

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/46 "2008-06-15T02:12:42Z")

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Hm… it seems like this discussion has strayed far from Hispanic Women…

I think standing up for stuff you care about is important, but I’m not so sure defending your own ego is all that admirable. If somebody wants to try and hurt my feelings, I should be smart enough to walk away or tune them out, right (that would be an adult response)? I also think people need to pick their fights very carefully, even if it is stuff they care about. It’s one thing to defend stuff you believe in, but sometimes people won’t be convinced by logical or emotional arguements: they are just bullies. In that case sometimes the best thing to do is try and isolate them, I guess- make sure they don’t at least influence other people.

Perhaps that response is more Gregory Peck and less John Wayne. I mean, John Wayne used to kick everybody’s asses and a John Wayne movie wasn’t complete without somebody getting their ass kicked by the Duke 🙂 I guess I’m more of a Gregory Peck kind of guy.

I just never get why certain men feel like “he disrespected me… I need to hurt him” (literally or figuratively). My brother is really angry with this friend of his who insulted him and has been hurting his feelings, and feels deeply that he needs to “shame” him or embarrass him, but I told him he’d be wasting his breath or risking his safety, like arguing with a fool. He’d be better to move on and find people who will respect his friendship. Do you think I’m giving bad advice?

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**Author:** ![lakerman34](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lakerman34/32/1663_2.png) [@lakerman34](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lakerman34)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 2:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/47 "2008-06-15T02:15:29Z")

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HAHAHAHA can I get like some rep points for sparking a 5+pg. long convo? 😃

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 2:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/48 "2008-06-15T02:26:03Z")

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> [@lakerman34](#):
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> HAHAHAHA can I get like some rep points for sparking a 5+pg. long convo? 😃

I would but I can’t rep you at the moment, for some reason, sorry ☹ Make another good post and I’ll rep you back in the future.

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**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/49 "2008-06-15T04:48:41Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> It all comes back to what I always preach really, Balance, Its not really that Alpha men are so attractive, they are balanced. They don’t take shit if someone tries to dish it out but they don’t treat others shitty unless its deserved. Its hard to explain.
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> Alphas are the dominant leaders but they also balance that leadership with being the protector. I think many men misunderstand exactly what a alpha is. Its not the biggest baddest bad boy in the bunch. Its the man with self respect and confidence the one who See’s wrong and says hey knock that shit off. They know when to use there aggressiveness and when to hold it back. They are not arrogant jerks who live dangerously those are Bad Boys which is different from the alpha male.

Thanks, Tisha. 😉

> [@Daedelus76](#):
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> I’m just wondering if women when they say they are attracted to alphas and turned off by wet noodles, don’t mean they are secreting lusting after arrogant jerks that like living dangerously?

Daedelus, I’m not trying to cause drama here, but you seem to have a general low opinion of women. I see a trend here where you’re continually interpreting things involving women in the most negative light possible. I think you need to turn the switch on your personal biases down a bit before jumping to conclusions here. Not everyone is categorizable by the DSM-IV and not every woman secretly loves a-holes.

If you were following the conversation a few posts back, I have no idea how you could come to the conclusion that the implication was arrogant jerks = alphas, the anti-wet noodle.

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 7:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/50 "2008-06-15T07:47:33Z")

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> [@ariadne](#):
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> Daedelus, I’m not trying to cause drama here, but you seem to have a general low opinion of women.

Perhaps you are right… perhaps I do have some misgivings and I’ll credit you for being discerning (and your careful analysis deserves a boost in your reputation) It does seem to me many women now days want the impossible out of a man. Perhaps not all, not even most, but many. Much has been said in the past decades about the image women have been held up to, such as girls’ Barbie dolls, but very rarely has the same scrutiny been applied to a man’s image.

After what I wrote initially, I realized that I might have touched a nerve with some people, particularly you, in using admittedly overly-broad language- and for that language I must apologize. But I decided not to edit it out, and decided to risk having to try to explain myself later. And the “Wet Noodle” touched on a nerve in _me,_ since that is exactly how many people have percieved me in the past, focusing on my faults rather than any of my strengths, or even the childishness of their own thinking. I’m turning over a new leaf and trying to talk about honestly how I feel, after all, even if some people may not initially understand it. I’m willing to, of course, not hold a grudge, honestly, and why should I; we just have a difference of opinion and different life experiences to create those opinions and beliefs. I just wanted to get my side out there and be heard, you are free to disagree.

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> If you were following the conversation a few posts back, I have no idea how you could come to the conclusion that the implication was arrogant jerks = alphas, the anti-wet noodle.

The discussion devolved from talking about Hispanic women, into discussing how androstenone levels suppossedly were indicative of an “alpha male”, which also has a very specific meaning in anthropology which is totally different from the meaning used in this thread: an alpha-male is a leader of an ape troop. In some ape species, the alpha-male doesn’t even have sexual exclusivity over any female in the troop, nor will a female ape necessarily breed with an alpha-male. The alpha-male just has a hegemony on the behaviors and movements of the troop; he tries to govern the troop.

Androstenone isn’t even very species-specific to humans; it’s a very common animal pheromone and all sorts of animals produce it, though of course it has pheromonal effects on humans. Androsterone seems to be more “human”; it sends the message that a man is a _man,_ and not just a male animal. And it is fairly species-specific to human males, as well.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/51 "2008-06-15T09:33:24Z")

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Holy Aphrodite

Your not a wet noodle at least I don’t see you as one.

Do you know the definition of wet noodle.

A man who lets a women rule his brain and actions. We are not talking about confrontations with other men or reacting to people not associated closely with you who are just being A holes. They don’t deserve the time of day and I agree there is nothing wimpy about walking away from those people. They are just not worth the time and effort.

The guys we are referring to as wet noodles are those who let there wives or SO rule everything they do. They have no say in anything.

No you cant have pheromones

No you cant go to the baseball game with the guys

No you cant pee right now.

not only that but they belittle them in public.

There is a difference between taking it and calmly walking away from it to avoid confrontation. Wet noodles dont even walk away they just sit there and take as if they agree.

Tisha

Sorry we hjacked you, Hugs ((((((Laker)))))) I can move this discussion to the lounge if you like and leave you parts untouched just let me know. Reps 😉

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**Author:** ![Electrix69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b2d939/32.png) [@Electrix69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Electrix69)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 11:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/52 "2008-06-15T11:21:46Z")

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I’m going to interject and offer you advice you can’t go wrong with following:

You’ll be much better off by _“sticking to your own flava.” 😮_

Having said that, good luck!

E69

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**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 2:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/53 "2008-06-15T14:52:55Z")

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> [@Daedelus76](#):
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> The discussion devolved from talking about Hispanic women, into discussing how androstenone levels suppossedly were indicative of an “alpha male”, which also has a very specific meaning in anthropology which is totally different from the meaning used in this thread:

But see, no one said that either. I said that _I_ was attracted to that. Here is my quote:

> [@ariadne](#):
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> I’m Latina and I’m insanely attracted to men with high alpha/dominant/-none signatures.

I thought it was rather obvious that this sentence was referring to just my tastes and not womankind as a whole. In fact it’s been my observation that women on average _ **do not** _ like this in their long term partners. Maybe for flings, yes, but not for settling down with. All the women I know have married men they could easily wrap around their finger.

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**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\
**Post date:** [June 15, 2008, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/54 "2008-06-15T18:32:14Z")

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Hm… I thought a “wet noodle” was a weak, ineffectual man who lets other people push him around in general (lit. a “limp dick”, pardon my French). I guess I learn something new every day. I’m more familiar with the term _henpecked._

And Ariadne, yes, I understand what you are saying now. It’s good you don’t prefer henpecked men, because I tend to find, um, “hennish” women to really strain my tolerance.

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**Author:** ![Badgered](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/5daacb/32.png) [@Badgered](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Badgered)\
**Post date:** [October 9, 2008, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/55 "2008-10-09T04:32:03Z")

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I know this is an old thread, but I was interested as there’s a Hispanic festival in Vegas this weekend (party on Fremont street) and I thought it might be a great place to experiment with TUTH, A314, and Ammo - maybe a touch of a ‘social’ like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), IO, IH… Not sure yet.  
Worth a try.  
I’ll report back. However, they tell me “what happens in Vegas…Stays in Vegas” so the report might have some vague bits… 😉

Thanks, in advance, to all for the advice above. Even though I wasn’t the original poster.

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**Author:** ![dafb](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dafb/32/2021_2.png) [@dafb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dafb)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 1:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/56 "2009-02-10T13:17:43Z")

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I agree with Gegogi ,He´s right ,hispanic or latin are more acurate to refer to culture than to a race .For example, we (Spaniards) are very similar to french , italians , portuguese even to most english people .I ´had been in all these countries and others like New zealand ,and they can´t tell where are you from unles they hear you talking.  
Anyway we are hispanic because we speak spanish and our culture is hispanic , and we also are latin or latino because we speak a latin language (many canadians are latinos as they speak french,even if they don´t know or they don´t like).  
Hispanic-american countries as well like Iberic-american(that includes Brazil also)and Latin-american (this ads Canada,Haiti and French Guyana)have a wide range of races:some have mainly indigenous population like Bolivia ,some others could be mainly european like Uruguay and Argentina ,others mainly african like Dominican Republic, half european -half african like Cuba and Brazil ,half indigenous-half european like Mexico ,30% of each like Colombia.  
I guess this is too much to tell about hispanic population,anyway, I understand after reading many of your post that pheromone affects in a positive way to black people ,and somewhat negative way to asian ,leaving european or caucasian in a medium range.But I have a question about indigenous american ,because is believed they originally are asian,so what about a pure mayan woman for example ,will she feel repulsion when smell pheros?

Check this if you wanna know more about hispanics:  
[Get to know the Hispanics around you](http://www.lrc.salemstate.edu/hispanics/race.htm)

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**Author:** ![Roninsamurai714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@Roninsamurai714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roninsamurai714)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/57 "2009-02-10T20:29:35Z")

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I live in southern california in a predominately Mexican populated area.

Sometimes i will test my mones out just for kicks to see what they can do.

I have had crazy success with the Latina’s by wearing 2 sprays of Ammo on my chest, along with 3 sprays of Instant Female magic on my neck. This combo has produced at least 20 phone numbers for me in various places - the supermarket, blockbuster video, even the gas station.

At least 3/4 of the women i have talked to have all said the same thing - “You SMELL SO GOOD”

Now i am a white guy, not extraordinarilly good looking. Just a normal dude out doing my thing.

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/58 "2009-02-10T21:05:43Z")

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> [@Roninsamurai714](#):
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> I live in southern california in a predominately Mexican populated area.
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> Sometimes i will test my mones out just for kicks to see what they can do.
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> I have had crazy success with the Latina’s by wearing 2 sprays of Ammo on my chest, along with 3 sprays of Instant Female magic on my neck. This combo has produced at least 20 phone numbers for me in various places - the supermarket, blockbuster video, even the gas station.
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> At least 3/4 of the women i have talked to have all said the same thing - “You SMELL SO GOOD”
> 
> Now i am a white guy, not extraordinarilly good looking. Just a normal dude out doing my thing.

Hey, another 714 dude! Awesome.

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**Author:** ![Roninsamurai714](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@Roninsamurai714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roninsamurai714)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/59 "2009-02-11T00:19:22Z")

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Hey Miko

Yup another Orange County (anaheim) guy here.

I just moved to Anaheim from Lake Forest.

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**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2009, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hispanic-women/13865/60 "2009-02-11T00:34:07Z")

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> [@Roninsamurai714](#):
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> Hey Miko
> 
> Yup another Orange County (anaheim) guy here.
> 
> I just moved to Anaheim from Lake Forest.

Anaheim here as well! And yes, you’re right about there being a lot of Latinos here ha, ha. I’m one of them!

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