# Hitting the wife **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 9, 2009, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891 "2009-03-09T21:20:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jaymezrus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@jaymezrus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jaymezrus)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/1 "2009-03-09T21:20:59Z")
I saw that I was supposed to get my first order in tomorrow. I am getting very anxious now and can’t wait. I had it sent to my work (against policy - but who cares) and am wondering. Should I just not wear anything for the ride home & save things for a start tomorrow or should I turn up the heat? What do you guys think? My order should consist of: A314 Turn Up The Heat Instant Shine [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) I was thinking of maybe one shot of TUTH and one of IS. Go home and see how it works or what it might do. Thanks in advance for anyone’s advice. ---
**Author:** ![d23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/d23/32/1465_2.png) [@d23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/d23)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/2 "2009-03-09T21:37:27Z")
Ok firstly i know everyone says this but you should try out each product one spray two spray etc etc until you find your sweet spot it really does help or you’ll be waiting for hits that you might not get straight away as you havent found your sweet spot! Another thing to remember is that people you spend a lot of time with may have no significant effect as they are used to your usual phero signature you may need to use a certain phero for a little while before you see hits. And thirdly i would spend what time you have left before you get your order just noticing how people react to you normally (pheroless) as this will make it easier for you to spot hits as a lot of people complain saying the mones dont work when they dont even know how to look for hits! d23 ---
**Author:** ![Bonecrkr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/9d8465/32.png) [@Bonecrkr](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bonecrkr)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/3 "2009-03-09T22:06:00Z")
You are carpooling home with the wife? I’d spritz on a spray or two of [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) just before picking her up. > [@jaymezrus](#): > > I saw that I was supposed to get my first order in tomorrow. I am getting very anxious now and can’t wait. I had it sent to my work (against policy - but who cares) and am wondering. Should I just not wear anything for the ride home & save things for a start tomorrow or should I turn up the heat? What do you guys think? > > My order should consist of: > A314 > Turn Up The Heat > Instant Shine > Instant Honesty > > I was thinking of maybe one shot of TUTH and one of IS. Go home and see how it works or what it might do. > > Thanks in advance for anyone’s advice. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/4 "2009-03-09T22:13:35Z")
Not married but in reading the forum, wives and sudden changes in pheromone signatures have a mixed record at best. Look for posts by Bosshank and check his signature threads. Be sure to read Tisha’s post “What [Pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can and can’t do” at the bottom of my post. Lastly skim through the journals and read a few by married guys. A little planning ahead can make a big difference in how successful you will be using these on someone you know. ---
**Author:** ![jaymezrus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@jaymezrus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jaymezrus)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2009, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/5 "2009-03-10T12:27:09Z")
First off, thanks for the replies. > [@](#): > > You are carpooling home with the wife? Nope, just going home after work. Just wondering if I should try it out on the way home > [@](#): > > Ok firstly i know everyone says this but you should try out each product one spray two spray etc etc until you find your sweet spot it really does help or you’ll be waiting for hits that you might not get straight away as you havent found your sweet spot! I know about the 1, 2, 3, sprays until you find your sweet spot. Also about trying them one at a time for a week too. > [@](#): > > Another thing to remember is that people you spend a lot of time with may have no significant effect as they are used to your usual phero signature you may need to use a certain phero for a little while before you see hits. I understand that my wife may not give me hits right at first. Was just wanting to see her reaction when I came home with the pheros on and it being something different. > [@](#): > > And thirdly i would spend what time you have left before you get your order just noticing how people react to you normally (pheroless) as this will make it easier for you to spot hits as a lot of people complain saying the mones dont work when they dont even know how to look for hits! I am an observer of how people react to me and others. Have always been. For the past 2-3 months I have been observing pretty hard at how people react to me and how my reactions are to them. Since I have been reading the forum (about 2 - 3 weeks) I have really watched how people react to me normally. So I believe I have a good base to go on and to know if I get hits or not. Hoping so at least. > [@](#): > > Not married but in reading the forum, wives and sudden changes in pheromone signatures have a mixed record at best. Look for posts by Bosshank and check his signature threads. Be sure to read Tisha’s post “What Pheromones can and can’t do” at the bottom of my post. Lastly skim through the journals and read a few by married guys. A little planning ahead can make a big difference in how successful you will be using these on someone you know. Wish I had a dollar for every hour I have read on this forum. I could buy my next go round of pheros. I have read Tisha’s post “What Pheromones can and can’t do” and many more. I have read a lot of Bosshank’s post and have been pointed to Diamond’s post too. To be honest, I am not expecting miracles, just some subtle changes that I can get an advantage with. With everything I have read about Pheros, I do believe they work. I am getting anxious again as I just had a call from FedEx saying my package will arrive this morning. EDIT: Just wanted to say that I agree with planning ahead. I did plan on that, however I wanted other people’s advice on what they thought would be best. I had planned on trying to work up to the TUTH especially around the ovulation period which will be in about a week, but… just like a kid with a new toy, it is exciting and I want to try it out. Thanks again to everyone. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/6 "2009-03-10T16:11:00Z")
Here is a recommendation: If your plan to try out TUTH is in about a week then for this week I would try IShine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). They should work great in the car to and from work but be aware: First, women do pick up on things and she is going to ask what is that scent (neroli). If she does not know you have ordered pheros you better have a good response ready. The next thing I will mention, and it is mentioned in my “Married Guys” thread is that sooner or later she is going to find out. If you have been … less than honest … that will come out too and will nto be greatly appreciated. So think this first part through carefully. I can be somewhat … verbally guarded … at home so my wife is kinda used to “Oh by the way…” Not that it is always appreciated but she is knda used to it. Once again, think through your own situation. Second, the social products do have self-effects. Those too will be heighted in the car. Just remeber that IShine makes people happy and more likely to talk also. And finally one note about TUTH. I would not wear it on the car ride in to work even buffered. Save it for the trip home. Buffer it with IShine or Instant Honesty. ---
**Author:** ![jaymezrus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e68b1a/32.png) [@jaymezrus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jaymezrus)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2009, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hitting-the-wife/26891/7 "2009-03-10T16:39:53Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Here is a recommendation: > > If your plan to try out TUTH is in about a week then for this week I would try IShine and Instant Honesty. They should work great in the car to and from work but be aware: > > First, women do pick up on things and she is going to ask what is that scent (neroli). If she does not know you have ordered pheros you better have a good response ready. The next thing I will mention, and it is mentioned in my “Married Guys” thread is that sooner or later she is going to find out. If you have been … less than honest … that will come out too and will nto be greatly appreciated. So think this first part through carefully. I can be somewhat … verbally guarded … at home so my wife is kinda used to “Oh by the way…” Not that it is always appreciated but she is knda used to it. Once again, think through your own situation. > > Second, the social products do have self-effects. Those too will be heighted in the car. Just remeber that IShine makes people happy and more likely to talk also. > > And finally one note about TUTH. I would not wear it on the car ride in to work even buffered. Save it for the trip home. Buffer it with IShine or Instant Honesty. Thanks for the reply. I do have a few good excuses… uh I mean responses. She has always wanted me to wear colognes, however for the past 9 years or so I haven’t. I just purchased a scent that she likes and any other scent that she smells is just something that I am trying out to see if she likes it. As with my [first post](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-confused-newbie/26622), you will understand why I bought TUTH. If she ever finds out and ask, she knows that I am doing what ever it is to keep & bring back that spark we once had. If it gives me an extra edge, then that is great. Once again, she wont be in the car with me. She will be home and I will be driving home after work. I was thinking of just spraying some on before the ride home so when I get there, I have it on. It would be better that way so I don’t pull up in the driveway and then spray it on. IShine and IH is what I might start out with. Then one day next week when the ovulation begins, I might go on with the TUTH. Anyways, I will start wearing my A314 to work once I get it. I wish [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) wasn’t out of stock as I need some Magic happening in my house. Have a wife and teenage daughter that are on the same cycle. Some calmness would work wonders for the atmosphere around my house right now. Thanks again for everything.