# Hiya! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 21, 2009, 9:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350 "2009-02-21T21:01:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![krispyk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/94ad74/32.png) [@krispyk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/krispyk)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 9:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/1 "2009-02-21T21:01:17Z")
Hi everybody! Totally new to this so please be gentle with me! Am looking for some advice on whats going to be useful to me really. I am going away for a couple of days with a friend of mine to the coast. I have booked us seperate rooms and am looking to have good fun time with her. I think its clear that I have more than just interest in her than just being her friend and we get along really well and can be quite open and honest with each other. Just looking for some help and advice as to what products going to be right for me? Ultimate goal will be spending the night together ( in the same bed 😉 ) but i’ll settle for a bit of assistance in increasing her attraction towards me! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/2 "2009-02-21T21:08:42Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Glad to see you here. The big thing to remember is that these products are not magic. They give you and edge by amping up who you are but the real work for building any relationship will be up to you. Try reading the first thread in my signature block to get a realistic outlook on what to expect. Now to be in order to help you we need to know a little more about you. What kind of personality do you have? Outgoing? What is your relationship like with this girl? Plus once we know this Tisha will be able to send you a gift certificate you can use for your first purchase. Looking forward to your response. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2009, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/3 "2009-02-21T21:24:27Z")
Welcome. The reason for bosshank’s questions is that different people respond in different ways to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). The personalities of the wearer and the exposed person both have a big effect, as well as physiology, age, culture, etc. Looking forward to learning more about you. Perhaps we’ll have some suggestions of interest when we know a bit more. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2009, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/4 "2009-02-22T03:21:46Z")
welcome 🙂 liek the other two said, it would be more helpful if we knew more about you. however, i can still recommend you some pheros for you to try regardless. ammo would be a good one to use to increase attraction. many people usuallly get a very good reaction out of this one. if you are looking to take things to a next level and increase her attractino towards you, this is probably the phero that you are looking for. also, im not sure if you are just interested in her just for physical reasons, but if that’s so then maybe you shoudl give turn up the heat a try. ive used them on myself to get aroused and it worked pretty well. although u should make sure you dont over do it with this one because you might come off as only wanting to use her body. but yea, welcome 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2009, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/5 "2009-02-22T14:40:57Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 We do really need a tiny bit more info to help you out. How old are you if the first question. How old is the lady ? What kind of personality do you have ? Do you want mones for all day use or just for intimate encounters ? What kind of a single or aura do you want to project. Sexy safe reliable respected etc etc We can work with some different vibes to help you project any combo of vibes really. I don’t want to just suggest products without knowing some of this because this girl is important to you. That makes her important to me. Of course this will also get your qualified for a GC. I look forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![krispyk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/94ad74/32.png) [@krispyk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/krispyk)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2009, 5:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/6 "2009-02-22T17:24:55Z")
Thanks for all the good advice! I am 32 and she is 26. I am quite outgoing but not overconfident with it when I am in with people I am comfortable around. I get along really well with this girl and we have a fairly high level of trust and have probably told each other things that we havent shared with other people. I really like her and just need a little bit of assistance to push her out of friend zone and increase her attraction to me if possible! ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2009, 10:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/7 "2009-02-22T22:24:30Z")
Welcome to the forum, I am one of those guys that has been stuck in the friend zone many of times. I feel your pain. Here are some important questions we may need to know to help direct you. Do you feel that she may have feelings for you? Has there ever been any messing around between you guys before? Is there more than just comfort and friendship between you? In other words , do you think there is some sexual tension happening. I look forward to hearing more. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2009, 10:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/8 "2009-02-22T22:47:43Z")
> [@krispyk](#): > > Thanks for all the good advice! > > I am 32 and she is 26. I am quite outgoing but not overconfident with it when I am in with people I am comfortable around. > > I get along really well with this girl and we have a fairly high level of trust and have probably told each other things that we havent shared with other people. > > I really like her and just need a little bit of assistance to push her out of friend zone and increase her attraction to me if possible! It sounds as if you have already established some rapport and that is an important step. To spark her interest there are a couple of ways you could go. You might try a low dose of ammo. That will add a buffered anone component to your [pheromone](https://a314.com/) signature that will communicate sexual interest. Another possible approach is to use IG which will give you a comfortable, masculine aura. Then at an opportune moment, perhaps after exposing her on a couple of occassions, you could add in some anone in the form of tuth or ammo. You should consider what you know about her personality when you choose your approach. If she’s “wild and crazy” perhaps approach 1 might work better. If she’s sensible and likes security approach 2 might be preferred. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/9 "2009-02-23T04:11:48Z")
yeah i agree with gone with the wind’s suggestions. you should go with some ammo and maybe add in instant gentleman. i think instant honesty might be a good idea also. some turn up the heat to get things heated, and i think you would be set 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 10:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/10 "2009-02-23T10:44:47Z")
Hi Thanks for providing more info. I am gonna suggest AMMO over something like IG and I will tell you why. Your in the friends box and when your already in that position giving a trusting dependable masculine vibe will keep you there. While IG has its sexy qualities, dependable trusting safe can be sexy, its not sexual in any way. AMMO is sexy, its mildly arousing making it more sexual then IG. It says I am more then just your dependable friend. I am a masculine sexual being. It will arouse her more and make her stop thinking friend and start thinking possible mate. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 If you have any questions just ask. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![krispyk](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/94ad74/32.png) [@krispyk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/krispyk)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2009, 5:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/26350/11 "2009-02-23T17:46:54Z")
Thank you all for taking the time to reply! We do have a good rapport with each other and she is a bit of a wild girl at times but does respond very well when I am in sensible mode! We have never messed around with each other and when we first met she definitely showed alot of interest that was beyond lets just be friends. I was a bit shy then and didnt act at the time.