# hiya **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 18, 2009, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669 "2009-08-18T19:51:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![origano983](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ba9def/32.png) [@origano983](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/origano983)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/1 "2009-08-18T19:51:34Z")
hi,i’m an engineering student,i’m tall, spectacled, long face and really slim my parents make me eat 4 helpings when i go home in summers.i’ve had my fair share of girlfriends over the years. but i’ve never reached to sex. i just dont know how to bring the subject up. we go out, we talk about stuff, we return, nothing. like how do i say it, “i want to have sex?” like this?none of my girlfriends(only 3 actually, i’m making it sound as if i had plenty) ever approached on this subject. i think girls never do. help me in this, please.will any [pheromone](https://a314.com/) help in this? steve, please send me gc. i want to try something first before putting so much money into it, ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 8:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/2 "2009-08-18T20:00:35Z")
Well, sex is a touchy subject and for that to happen you and your GF have to be really deep into the relationship and comfortable with one another. Plus, it also depends on if she wants to remain a virgin (if she’s one) until marriage and various factors. So how involved were the two of you? Girls see sex completely different than us guys do, us guys (most of them at least) just want to have sex while girls have to be turned on to having sex, along with having that attraction for that person as well. So various factors come into play, so please let us know how your relationship with your past GF’s were like. TUTH can help increase the “heat,” but it seems like you probably needed that deep connection IH can give you. Basically IH helps to deepen relationships, makes you appear more trustworthy, and also helps people feel comfortable around you. A very important factor when in a relationship where you want it to go further. > [@origano983](#): > > hi,i’m an engineering student,i’m tall, spectacled, long face and really slim my parents make me eat 4 helpings when i go home in summers.i’ve had my fair share of girlfriends over the years. but i’ve never reached to sex. i just dont know how to bring the subject up. we go out, we talk about stuff, we return, nothing. like how do i say it, “i want to have sex?” like this?none of my girlfriends(only 3 actually, i’m making it sound as if i had plenty) ever approached on this subject. i think girls never do. help me in this, please.will any pheromone help in this? steve, please send me gc. i want to try something first before putting so much money into it, ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 8:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/3 "2009-08-18T20:44:43Z")
Hi Origano, Welcome to the forum 🙂 Talking about sex is never easy, especially if it’s in a relationship where you haven’t reached that level yet. It’s a little easier to talk about once sex is something you have shared with that person. I personally think that you don’t really have to always bring up sex as the topic of conversation, often the relationship naturally leads there without talking about it. I think that Miko is right about IH, that will help you with communication, making it more intimate and open. Depending on your girlfriends age and personality you could also add a sexy or sexual phero… TUTH is very sexual, so if she is abit younger than you or quite shy it might intimidate her, but Ammo is buffered with social phero’s so it shouldn’t have that effect. Another one you might want to consider is [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) with is a great phero. It’s great for giving you an attractive, mature and suave vibe, and it makes women feel comfortable and potected by you…and that’s sexy for a girl 😉 We love to feel protected 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 9:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/4 "2009-08-18T21:20:09Z")
Yes, IG is also very romantic. Just ask Xiphoid how Androsterone makes her feel, it really helps the ladies feel good when a guy wears it. Especially paired with some good socials, and a zap or two of TUTH after getting her comfortable of course. Oh, so to not confuse you Androsterone is what IG is primarily made of. 🙂 > [@Xiphoid](#): > > Hi Origano, > > Welcome to the forum 🙂 > Talking about sex is never easy, especially if it’s in a relationship where you haven’t reached that level yet. It’s a little easier to talk about once sex is something you have shared with that person. I personally think that you don’t really have to always bring up sex as the topic of conversation, often the relationship naturally leads there without talking about it. > > I think that Miko is right about IH, that will help you with communication, making it more intimate and open. Depending on your girlfriends age and personality you could also add a sexy or sexual phero… TUTH is very sexual, so if she is abit younger than you or quite shy it might intimidate her, but Ammo is buffered with social phero’s so it shouldn’t have that effect. > > Another one you might want to consider is Instant Gentleman with is a great phero. It’s great for giving you an attractive, mature and suave vibe, and it makes women feel comfortable and potected by you…and that’s sexy for a girl 😉 We love to feel protected 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/5 "2009-08-18T22:49:40Z")
Hi and welcome! Don’t ask someone for sex, that is the worst thing you could do. First, get to know her and let her know you and feel comfortable with you. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) can help with that. When she is ready to take it to the next level, you will know it, it will happen naturally. Turn Up The Heat can be used at that time, to help give things a little “boost” ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2009, 11:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/6 "2009-08-18T23:02:45Z")
Hi, welcome to the forums. Don’t ask or talk about sex, it kills sexual tension. Pheros will help, but you need to TOUCH HER to get her charged up. Touching her in a smooth and sophisticated way of course, not grabbing her. Gentle, teasing touches and kisses will get her charged up while wondering if you’re going to make a move or not, creating sexual tension until she finally jumps you just to resolve the tension. ---
**Author:** ![origano983](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ba9def/32.png) [@origano983](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/origano983)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/7 "2009-08-19T09:04:12Z")
thanks tezza for the concrete advice.we do a little playing but never in sexual places, u know what i mean. just the hand, some kisses.do i have to get tmy hand to “those” areas if i want sex.its been nearly 6 months in our relationship. i thinks its long enough, dont you guys??one of my friend gave me the advice of going to a romantic movie.i’ll do that when i get the gc. ill buy turn up the heat. ---
**Author:** ![origano983](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/ba9def/32.png) [@origano983](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/origano983)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/8 "2009-08-19T09:11:13Z")
Thanks to to mikoto and xiphoid for the great insight.he tell me how much tuth costs, and where do i buy it? ---
**Author:** ![Datarule](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/50afbb/32.png) [@Datarule](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Datarule)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 9:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/9 "2009-08-19T09:15:53Z")
here is a little zen for you “to have sex, first forget about sex” believe it or not, without pheromone help girls can sometime see “SEX” written on a guy’s forehead, and the expectation of sex is probably what stopping you from going further, just enjoy the moment and go with the flow, like Tezza23 says be playful, explore each other’s body (sound sexual I know), play with her hair, nibble at the neckline, stare into her eyes, a little tongue kissing, massage her gum with your tongue, mix it up, don’t go for the “sensitive” area first, it’s a turn off, she’ll let you know when the time is right. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/10 "2009-08-19T10:12:39Z")
> [@origano983](#): > > Thanks to to mikoto and xiphoid for the great insight.he tell me how much tuth costs, and where do i buy it? O, you can get the TUTH in the Smartmones online store, there’s a link in the top right corner 🙂 I might be wrong, but I think a togo bottle of TUTH is $9.95 I would say though, don’t just get the TUTH. Don’t forget the social phero’s. Many guys make the mistake in jumping straight to the sexual phero’s thinking that’s going to be the best way to “sealing the deal”… Women think differently to men, and very often you’ll be more successful with using the social phero’s either on their own or together with a sexy or sexual one. Women love to talk, and we are also far more likely to want to get intimate with a guy that we feel comfortable and have a sense of closeness with than we are with someone who is sending us vibes that scream “do me now”… That vibe works well for ONS’s, nightclubs etc, but I don’t think it would work for your situation. It sounds to me like your girlfriend is unsure herself about sex. Maybe she’s shy, maybe she’s inexperienced and hoping you’ll make the move, I don’t know, but if nothing has happend after 6 months then I’d say it’s quite likely it’s one or more of those. If you want to take it further with a girl like that you need to make her feel special, and comfortable as well as aroused 🙂 I think Tezza gave you some great advice. Try taking the kisses and touching just a little bit further & see how she reacts. If she doesn’t back away, go a little bit further. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2009, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/11 "2009-08-19T11:24:27Z")
Women are strange (from a man’s perspective!) in that they can find certain touches sexual when a man wouldn’t expect it. Like gently stroking the back of the neck, or hair pulling (not hard! but sort of firm). I remember one woman who had lovely curly hair that I just loved to play with and… well, anyway. _cough_ Back on topic! Even stroking parts of the body that are not normally touched, like the inside of the elbows can be effective. What the heck is sexual about the inside of your elbow?! I don’t know, but I do know you can drive a woman wild without getting anywhere near her naughty bits. I think Xiphoid has it, this woman may be feeling TOO MUCH sexual tension, you need to get her more relaxed and comfortable with you. A woman needs tension and comfort at the same time, and about equal amounts of both. Social pheros like IO and IH, Shine (useful anywhere), and maybe IG. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2009, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hiya/31669/12 "2009-08-20T17:10:47Z")
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