# Hmm do you think this is a hit or a coincidence?

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**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 17, 2011, 9:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792 "2011-06-17T09:44:09Z")\
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**Author:** ![missleroux](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/missleroux/32/2370_2.png) [@missleroux](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missleroux)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2011, 9:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/1 "2011-06-17T09:44:09Z")

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We work together, but in different areas of the building, and we used to just make brief small talk. today he came over to my part of the building on business and i was standing by the door he entered. He is a security guard and I saw him playing with his keys, Jokingly I said “wow that is a big key you have there” and I asked what for he said the vault, actually my bedroom and we laughed. Later on in the conversation he winked at me out of nowhere. I was confused because there wasn’t a fit moment for him to be winking. Later on I walk up to get something from the sec. desk as I am walking over there he is staring into my eyes viciously, I was actually beginning to get intimidated. He was just holding my gaze intensely. He had an almost intimidating expression on his face too, like he was concentrating very hard ha ha I don’t really know how to describe it.. Then we chatted a lot. He usually isn’t very open with me. I wonder if maybe it was because I told him how I found it difficult to break into the group there (since i am new there) and he is just being nice now. I am confused.. He has a long-term girlfriend i believe he is happy with. He has never shown any interest in me until now. I am wondering if maybe he was just trying to make me feel better since our heartfelt conversation about me being shy and wanting to get to know my co-workers better or if the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) got to him lol. Do you think this is a clear enough example to really make anything out of? I was using a product with high anol and a low amount of cops in it

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**Author:** ![missleroux](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/missleroux/32/2370_2.png) [@missleroux](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missleroux)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2011, 9:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/2 "2011-06-17T09:53:56Z")

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Tisha posted some link to a site about body language in one of her threads and I just found this, so now I am even more confused! lol.. maybe I turned my anol in anon again \>..\< I put my product 3 drops, 1 spread behind each earlobe, 1 spread on the caroid pulse points and 1 all over my chest. So I don’t see how this could be.. I worked my way up too.

"  
Eye contact longer than normal can have several different meanings.  
Eye contact often increases significantly when we are listening, and especially when we are paying close attention to what the other person is saying. Less eye contact is used when talking, particularly by people who are visual thinkers as they stare into the distance or upwards as they ‘see’ what they are talking about.  
We also look more at people we like and like people who look at us more. When done with doe eyes and smiles, it is a sign of attraction. Lovers will stare into each others eyes for a long period. Attraction is also indicated by looking back and forth between the two eyes, as if we are desperately trying to determine if they are interested in us too.  
An attraction signal that is more commonly used by women is to hold the other person’s gaze for about three seconds, Then look down for a second or two and then look back up again (to see if they have taken the bait). If the other person is still looking at them, they are rewarded with a coy smile or a slight widening of the eyes (‘Yes, this message is for you!’).  
**When done without blinking, contracted pupils and an immobile face, this can indicate domination, aggression and use of power. In such circumstances a staring competition can ensue, with the first person to look away admitting defeat.**  
Prolonged eye contact can be disconcerting. A trick to reduce stress from this is to look at the bridge of their nose. They will think you are still looking in their eyes."

I wasn’t the first to look away eithier, so we definitely did have a staring contest until I asked him “what is the matter” and he smiled and told me he was sad the Canucks lost the stanly cup and ect..

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2011, 10:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/3 "2011-06-17T10:27:17Z")

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I would say he is flirting with you and its a hit. People do flirt even when married or involved with others. Its always good to keep a certain amount of sexual tension with most acquaintances, minus family of course even if you dont plan or want to act on it. You dont know what his relationship is like for sure. Maybe he is ready to move on. I am not saying encourage him but by mildly flirting and creating that mild tension you leave the door open for him to pursue if he wants to.

I think learning body language along with the mones will really help improve your situation to. We communicate with all of our senses.

Here is another BL move I like to increase sexual tension. Now if you come across a single guy that you like, he seems open and interested and you are chatting and want him to make a move do this … Maintain eye contact while talking then when you know he can see you, run your eyes down his chest and glance at his crotch a second then go back to eye contact. Dont stare at his crotch, thats for later in the relationship. We are going for a quick look like guys do when they glance at your boobs. Its works LOL

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Mareet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7feea3/32.png) [@Mareet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mareet)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 2:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/4 "2011-06-21T14:52:29Z")

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It sounds a bit like he found himself flirting and attracted to you, but wasn’t the most aware of how he appeared (maybe too wrapped up in you?), hence not curbing the staring or realizing he was acting a bit weird. Sounds like a hit to me though!

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**Author:** ![missleroux](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/missleroux/32/2370_2.png) [@missleroux](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missleroux)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/5 "2011-06-21T20:01:55Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> I would say he is flirting with you and its a hit. People do flirt even when married or involved with others. Its always good to keep a certain amount of sexual tension with most acquaintances, minus family of course even if you dont plan or want to act on it. You dont know what his relationship is like for sure. Maybe he is ready to move on. I am not saying encourage him but by mildly flirting and creating that mild tension you leave the door open for him to pursue if he wants to.
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> I think learning body language along with the mones will really help improve your situation to. We communicate with all of our senses.
> 
> Here is another BL move I like to increase sexual tension. Now if you come across a single guy that you like, he seems open and interested and you are chatting and want him to make a move do this … Maintain eye contact while talking then when you know he can see you, run your eyes down his chest and glance at his crotch a second then go back to eye contact. Dont stare at his crotch, thats for later in the relationship. We are going for a quick look like guys do when they glance at your boobs. Its works LOL
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> Tisha

Haha thanks, that is a good suggestion. Hopefully it won’t creep anyone out though

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**Author:** ![missleroux](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/missleroux/32/2370_2.png) [@missleroux](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/missleroux)\
**Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 8:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hmm-do-you-think-this-is-a-hit-or-a-coincidence/50792/6 "2011-06-21T20:04:19Z")

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> [@Mareet](#):
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> It sounds a bit like he found himself flirting and attracted to you, but wasn’t the most aware of how he appeared (maybe too wrapped up in you?), hence not curbing the staring or realizing he was acting a bit weird. Sounds like a hit to me though!

haha awe that is sweet of you to say! I hope it’s true just for the sole fact that it would be totally exciting to see a reaction like that come from pheromones. maybe the gentleman I am into will react the same. He already loves me but I think it would be funny to drive him wild with some mones on.