Hi Chris - Welcome to Pherotalk. :)If you work as a bouncer, can I take it that you have some degree of physical presence?If that is the case, you should take Pherojack’s advice and consider Ammo and one or other of the socials instead of the higher none/status products as the likes of TUTH/IJ or A314 can make you seem more intimmidating/standoffish. Ammo however is good because its none is balanced by equal proportions of the other main pheros, so it presents a social/sexy vibe that many women warm to. Combined with IS it can be steered in a happy/good to be around direction, or IO to promote flowing conversation, all of which can help to soften your presence somewhat.You might also want to consider IG, which is a smooth/suave status product that is much lighter in effect than A314. That too may be good at making people take a good look at you. 
I also second his scent choice - I far prefer World Edition to F21. You get it here: AMMUNITION Cologne for Men - TO GO! World Edition :: Archive & Alternative Versions :: Experimental Test Mixes :: Androtics Direct AMMUNITION FF22 “World Edition”. :: Archive & Alternative Versions :: Experimental Test Mixes :: Androtics Direct Also, have a read of the start of this thread for all the basics on phero choice and use: An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration