# HOLA **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 1, 2009, 9:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629 "2009-02-01T09:27:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![thenicest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b2d939/32.png) [@thenicest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thenicest)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 9:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/1 "2009-02-01T09:27:25Z")
Hi well ive been a member in here for a while and ive bought some products as well.. but didnt really know about the gift thing 😃 im a 19 year old male , from canada 🙂 and im here for several reasons: i heard about the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) 2 months ago and decided to gice these products a shot .. why? simply cuzz im a shy guy and i thought the pheromones would save my time and make the girls do the first move (whether in class or clubs)… but in time i knew my idea about pheromones wasn’t right ☹ ive bought (ammo, turn up the heat, a314) and been using them randomly (for clubbing) every weekend… but there’s no results at all ☹ in fact , i used to get more hits without them … so im here .. first to say hello, second to seek your help, and third to get to know some new people 🙂 hope to hear from you :o cheers ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 9:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/2 "2009-02-01T09:34:05Z")
Though you’ve been here for a while now, I’d just like to extend a warm welcome and wish you the best of look in the future. Now, on to business. First off, tell us a little about yourself personality-wise. Are you shy or outgoing? Do you have any little quirks? What makes you interesting? How have you been applying the pheromones, and in what amounts? This can make a large difference if you’re not entirely sure what to do with them. Give us a little information about what you applied, where you applied it on your body, and how much you applied. What were your targets like? You need to make sure when you’re wearing pheromones that you continue to act the way you normally act. Some become too conscious of the fact that they are wearing pheros and start to take the pheros effects for granted, expecting to not have to do as much work. Don’t fall into this trap! Keep up your game! Try a little harder than usual if you can! Be more observant. You have to keep in mind that the pheros give you and advantage, but you are the medium through which the pheros can create the beautiful social dynamics and tensions that arise when you play things right. You say that you have already come to understand this, but if you aren’t careful, you may still be subconsciously acting differently. Observe yourself and your actions. Become a master of both control and spontaneity. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/3 "2009-02-01T13:58:44Z")
Hi there, Welcome. For your case, I suggest IO, AMMO and Shine. Shine will counter your shyness. It boost your confidence in approaching girls. It lift your mood and the mood of the people around you. IO will open up girls and make them want to talk to you. This will make it easier for you to approach girls. AMMO will make them attracted to you. It is good for clubbing. It can have sexual attraction too. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/4 "2009-02-01T14:01:13Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! So you already have some of the products and played around with them a bit without success… Well, first off I noticed that you got no social phero’s…I’d say that might be mistake number one…Girls (especially young ones your age) tend to go for a more subtle sexy/attractive vibe which you’d get with combining say ammo with a social (e.g instant openness or instant shine)…if you rock up with something very sexual like TUTH they’ll run the opposite direction… you’ll be sending vibes that you’re only after sex and that’s not the best way to get us girls on the hook 🙂 Also…you need to experiment with dosage like vespero said. At 19 your natural phero production is still high, so you can easily OD and get the opposite effects from what you are after. Less is more where phero’s are concerned. I noticed that you have A314 there too…that is the phero that gives the alpha male vibe and gets you respect…_IF_ you can pull it off…i.e if you are shy or not naturally confident you wont be able to pull that vibe off and it wont work for you… From what you said…you used to get more hits witout phero’s…it sounds like you are either using the wrong phero in the wrong environment (TUTH is NOT for school…it’s for once you get to the bedroom), or that you are OD’ing and pushing people away…do a search and read a bit on congruence adn ghosting…that’ll explain it for you 🙂 So…my advice would be to get a social phero or two, lay off the TUTH (at least for now) and chat to the more experienced guys your won age here on the forum…learn from their mistakes…and yes, they’ll have plenty to mistakes to share, we all have 🙄 Hope that helps… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2009, 3:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/5 "2009-02-01T15:40:45Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and Guide here on PT. I am sure you know me if you have been here two months LOL 😉 OK first you made the common mistake most new guys make when they jump on all the masculine products. Yes they can attract but your putting the cart before the horse. Your shy, you need to draw them in and establish some comfort and connection before you arouse them. Most outgoing guys do this naturally but when your shy its harder so you go for the social comfort mones first and supplement those with the heavy masculine mones. Now I suggest with your GC you look at Ishine IH IO and IFM. You Know about the to-go bottles I am sure. IFM IO and IShine together can increase approaches from others. It establishes interest comfort attraction. Use them with a little AMMO and that sexy vibe can sneak in right under the radar and grab them. So you draw them in…make them feel good… then arouse them with the masculines Now if you need more in depth help you can Post in the men’s section or PM me by clicking on my user name for some mone and attraction guidance . Androtics also has a hot line you can call Steve and he will help you learn to use them. Both of us have been trained to help. What ever you feel most comfortable with. We don’t leave the users hanging, not understanding how they work. 😉 **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![thenicest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b2d939/32.png) [@thenicest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thenicest)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2009, 4:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/6 "2009-02-02T04:18:16Z")
thanx guys for welcoming me … be back to ur posts soon 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![thenicest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b2d939/32.png) [@thenicest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thenicest)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2009, 6:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/7 "2009-02-02T18:30:49Z")
and now we’re back 🙂 Vespero you say > [@](#): > > Are you shy or outgoing? Do you have any little quirks? What makes you interesting? well im (mostly) a shy person .. I dont think I have any quirks 😃 .. what makes me interesting? thats a good question 🙄 I guess I should ask my buddies this question … > [@](#): > > How have you been applying the pheromones, and in what amounts? well last weekend for example, I had two sprays of turn up the heat (neck and wrist) and one spray of ammo (chest) and two drops of a314 (chest and right arm) … Ive used them randomly and i guess that has been a problem 🙄 but thanx for your help 🙂 ==================================== Jamesbonded IO and shine will probably be my next move 😛 thnx ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2009, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/8 "2009-02-02T18:45:43Z")
I’ll say this, and keep it short. A 50 50 amount of Instant Honesty, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). AWESOME, especially with some -none thrown in. CTTM has both of these, so that’s like hitting two birds with one stone. On my wish list of products I want! ---
**Author:** ![thenicest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b2d939/32.png) [@thenicest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thenicest)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2009, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/25629/9 "2009-02-02T18:45:53Z")
Xiphoid your answer is really helpful … I’ll follow what you suggested 🙂 # Thank you soo much Tisha you were the first member I tried to conact in this site .. and you’re doing everyone in here a favor .. thnx alot 🙂