# Hola! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 16, 2009, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360 "2009-10-16T17:28:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![RiverDreams](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RiverDreams](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RiverDreams)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 5:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/1 "2009-10-16T17:28:02Z")
Hello all, My name is Michelle and I stumbled upon a reference to Androtics while helping a friend put together a project at my university. I am 39, single (well committed but not sure I ever need to marry again), and have two amazing daughters that are growing like kudzo. We live in the Texas hill country and love being residents of the water sports capital of Texas. I manage an engineering firm and am working on my Master’s degree in Rhetoric/Composition. I am interested in experimenting with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) for two reasons: (1) I am very confident and outgoing, which makes it easy for me to settle into any group and meet people. However, I have heard **many** times from people I have dated that they were intimidated or nervous when they met me and were surprised when they came to know me and found that I am as warm and snuggly as any girl has a right to be. While this would not normally be an issue, I find that the men who do approach me are often … hmm well submissive and are attracted to my personality. I prefer a strong protective alpha male **any** day of the week. I am the strong link all day at the office, in my courses, and raising my girls. The last thing I want in my mate is to need to be the strong one with him **all** the time too. Though I don’t have a single problem with ripping his clothes off and using him to my heart’s content when the mood occurs. To that end, I was thinking that IS/B might help temper the vibe I put off to reflect my private side more accurately and ordered a to go bottle to see. (If I took IS/A I fear they would just drop and kneel on contact - while fun and amusing at times, I am weary of these types.) My SO is plenty Alpha but when we were discussing the impact of horomones, pheromones, and brain chemistry in relationships we agreed it would be an interesting experiment that could only be fun either way it worked out. The other reason we decided to experiment is that we both are strong believers in the idea that whatever energy/vibe you put off directly impacts what energy/vibes you receive back. If you are pissed when you wake up and are rude to everyone – people will return the favor and make your day worse. 🙂 Thus we were REALLY curious to see if using a pheromone with an opposite purpose would change up your responses. I was not sure what to try to play with this concept but ordered a to go IO to start with. We each plan to wear it the next time a truly bad mood arises and see what, if any, impact it has on our interactions with others. If anyone has any suggestions for other products we may try for these two experiments, I would be greatly interested. I am also trying to remember what product I saw a post on… it mentioned that I should be careful in its use because it could cause your manly man to be much rougher than normal in the bedroom (well or in our case, the living room, garage, bushes - whereever). Alpha or not my SO does fear hurting me and I prefer he let go of his self control from time to time and show me **everything** , so this pheromone sounds like a MUST have – whatever it was. I tried to read enough posts before writing in myself to use the correct abbreviations, etc. Hope I have not missed any and cluttered the screen more than neccessary. Namaste, Michelle ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 5:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/2 "2009-10-16T17:37:34Z")
Hi Michelle, Welcome to the forum. Apparently you have done some readings here. I will suggest SHine for feel good effect. It can lighten your mood during a bad mood say. People around you will also in lighter mood. IO will make you more approachable. They will feel you are more friendly and easy to approach. They will want to strike conversations with you. Sexiness is good to make your SO feel you are more attractive and sexier. GOod luck ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 5:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/3 "2009-10-16T17:45:59Z")
Hi River Dreams!! Welcome to the fourm I too am a dominant person and wished to attract others like me. You may want to try a mix of Instant sexiness A and Lust for me. This would raise your social value in a sexual context. I know you said you want to soften your appeal but sometimes your personality and your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) presence can be very different as I found with myself. When raising your social value, more dominant men will follow. I believe softening your appeal will attract the submissive types. just my 2 cents. Here is a really good summary of products and affects for woman, click [here](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-a-mini-compilation-of-your-personal-experiences/9383).🙂 Cheers! Daset ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [October 16, 2009, 10:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/4 "2009-10-16T22:58:24Z")
Hi Michelle! I’m so glad you’ve joined our forum. So much of what you’ve said has made me chuckle, because it describes me so well. This part, especially: [quote=“RiverDreams, post:1, topic:33360”] I am very confident and outgoing, which makes it easy for me to settle into any group and meet people. However, I have heard **many** times from people I have dated that they were intimidated or nervous when they met me and were surprised when they came to know me and found that I am as warm and snuggly as any girl has a right to be. While this would not normally be an issue, I find that the men who do approach me are often … hmm well submissive and are attracted to my personality. I prefer a strong protective alpha male **any** day of the week. I am the strong link all day at the office, in my courses, and raising my girls. The last thing I want in my mate is to need to be the strong one with him **all** the time too. Though I don’t have a single problem with ripping his clothes off and using him to my heart’s content when the mood occurs. [quote] IS/b might do what you’re wanting, and then again, it might not be the best fit. Go ahead and try it, just to see. Another one that is sort of similar, yet offers different effects is MX135. It is TAH heavy like IS/b, but it has the quality of making you the center of attention, and brings out the protective, possessive nature in men. I like this stuff, but cannot wear it every day. MX135 is chocolatini scented, MX235 is cookie scented, and MX335 is grapefruit, but they are the same mix otherwise. When it comes to Instant Sexiness I use A, exclusively. Another product that you might be interested in for your second experiment is Instant Shine. This is a feel good, mood lifter social phero that brightens up people’s attitudes and makes them more cheerful. Looking forward to hearing about your results. ---
**Author:** ![RiverDreams](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RiverDreams](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RiverDreams)\ **Post date:** [October 17, 2009, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/5 "2009-10-17T01:55:36Z")
Thank you for the insight. I believe IS and MX135 might have to be my next experiments. But alas, no testing until my man is back in town! Namaste ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 19, 2009, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/6 "2009-10-19T20:39:55Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![RiverDreams](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RiverDreams](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RiverDreams)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2009, 3:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hola/33360/7 "2009-10-30T15:07:10Z")
Ok, clearly IS/b was the wrong idea for the experiment. Though I have been greatly impressed with the results: Day 1: Wore IS/b with IO and IH to class (2 sprays of each 1 on wrist, 1 inside elbow). As you can imagine, after several weeks of a seminar course people have settled into where they prefer to sit and whatnot. Well, I walked in and took my normal seat and while waiting for my normal partners in crime to arrive – two gentlemen from class ended up taking up the seats beside me. While one was still his usual self, the other kept initiating conversation and I must say it really seemed to melt away his quiet exterior. He participated in the discourse throughout class where he is normally a silent type. Neither hit on me outright and both are more the shy types. It was fascinating to see results on day 1 and my honey tried IO and IH at the same time and said he would never do it again because the women at work already talk FAR to much about FAR too personal information. Day 2 (same mix): Let’s just say my mechanic replaced my distributor cap, rotor, brakes, and gave me a full tune up for $100 - and I know that for my Volvo the parts alone were more than that. Again, Mr. Softie didn’t outright flirt with me but he was not himself either. My honey put his foot down though and no more experiments that involve me going out without him. 😉 I was not expecting such visible, measureable, results. Fascinating! Now I really need to play with MX135 when it is available and my GC arrives, I smell an early Christmas gift for me! Namaste