# Hope this helps... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 20, 2007, 2:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786 "2007-11-20T14:11:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![big\_guns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f07891/32.png) [@big\_guns](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/big_guns)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2007, 2:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/1 "2007-11-20T14:11:10Z")
This stuff is unbelievable. I’m not one to bare all, but here goes. First I would like to tell you a little about myself and my situation. I’ve been married for over 18 years, got married a couple weeks after I turned 20. My wife was 18. Before we got married we had a lot of sex, sometimes twice a day, several days in a row. We were first physically attracted to the other and afterwards we grew to love each other for our personalities. Anyway, we got married and as the old saying goes, “what decreases a woman’s sex drive? Wedding cake” LOL… well not much to laugh at. It was like it just stopped. I’ve dealt with the ups and downs for 18 years…Until now. We’ve had a pretty rough year with family issues and I was ready to call it quits, hell I’m to old to put up that crap. In the past 18 years I’ve been pursued by other women and turned them away, I never cheated on my wife. I tried just about everything, read every book. Nothing worked to spark any interest from my wife for sex. We’re both health oriented people, I’m a bodybuilder (big guns) HA HA and she’s into fitness and exercises regularly. I think I’m a pretty good looking guy. LOL… so it isn’t a physical rejection that was keeping her away. I have wit and a keen sense of humor, usually the guy everyone wants to talk to at a party. So what is keeping her away? I don’t know. She has a low self esteem, don’t know why either. I try to build her up and tell her how pretty she is. All the usual complements, I do mean them, they come from the heart. Well, I stumbled across the Phero Talk web site, got to reading and decided this may just be what I need to save my marriage. Being skeptical, I decided I would order one product to see if it did work. I bought Turn Up The Heat. I ordered it Thursday and it came Friday, WOW that was fast. Before I knew it had arrived, my wife and daughter thought it would be a good idea to go eat, my wife doesn’t cook on the weekends and my daughter wanted to go see this guy at work. We go eat mexican food. Get home and there’s a package on the desk, wife ask “what is this?” “I don’t know” I replied, “must be another supplement” I buy a lot of supplements online so this isn’t unusual. I look at the label and think to my self “oh shit, she almost found it” it was from ARR. I take the package back to my office, open it up and I see my order of TUTH. I got a little nervous thinking well this is it, I hope it works. Open it and smell the contents, not to bad kinda seems like cologne I own. Put a half ass spray on my chest, wait a few minutes and go back into the living room. Nothing different going on, kinda of disappointed. I start smelling a funky smell. Thinking oh crap this smells like a mexican ditch digger. (Figured out later it was the mexican food restaurant smell in my clothes) LOL…We go to bed and my wife is a little more touchy feely tonight. Fall asleep. The next morning I get up usually allot earlier than everyone else, I don’t sleep real well. Bad back. I think well let’s try this again, I spray one good shot on my chest, get something to eat, mess around the house a bit, then get back into bed. Fall back asleep. My wife and I wake up about the same time and she is wanting me to “rub her back” that’s the signal that we’re fixin’ to get it on. I rub her back and she’s rubbing me like never before. She puts her head on my stomach and really likes it there. She “rubs” me for a long time. The sex this morning was unbelievable. We go on about our day. That night I ask her if she wants to watch a movie, we do, but before we lay down on the couch together, I go get me a shot of TUTH. All night she was playing with her hair, touching me, touching herself, being more relaxed than ever before. After the movie we go to bed, she’s still touching me, but for the first time I ever remember I resist her advances, we fall asleep. Next morning, I do as I did the pervious morning and slip back into bed, same outcome. Now I’m thinking, it’s just the weekend, this has happened before, but not this intense and not in a very long time. So, as an experiment, I decided lets go for three in a row. Now this hasn’t happen ever in our married life. I get home last night we have dinner together, just the two of us. Kids out somewhere. I go take a shower and I get a shot and a half of TUTH, one on chest the other on wrist and then to the back of the neck. We sit together for a little bit then she decides to go do something; I go “check on her” every now and then. Later we watched a little TV together. I thinking to myself this isn’t working, damnit. I start making my way to the bed room; it’s past my bed time. When I walk into the bedroom she’s already there getting ready for bed, this never happens. I brush my teeth and jump in bed; I make sure I leave my chest exposed even though it’s cold as hell in here. She gets into bed and starts rubbing me again, oh well here we go again. She is more excided than usual, WOW…….. I would try for four in a row, but I’ve got school tonight. It’s not about the sex, it’s more about just being with my wife, after years of rejection it’s good to just be with her again and her wanting me instead of just “doing it” to make me happy or just not mad at her. I just ordered A314 and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). I’m sure they’ll be just as good. There’s a couple in the P group I would like to try as well. We’ll see what happens. I hope I’ve explained my situation in a way that may help someone else in a similar situation. Good Luck and Thanks Phero Talk. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2007, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/2 "2007-11-20T17:04:41Z")
Hey Big Guns, welcome to the forum! Your story is great and I’m sure will inspire many other men in your situation. I might suggest Instant Honesty instead of A314 for the home front though, as being in a retationship for that long you probable don’t need to generate extra respect, but opening the door to deeper communication could be just the ticket. On the work front the A314 is a great choice though. The [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) will probably do wonders for you too. I have read postings where the general concensus is that it’s great for using during “that time of the month”, but I have found that it’s great to use all the time and I include it whenever I’m wearing any of my pheromones. For me, I see the exact results the name implies: It loosens and relaxes women up a bit. A magical little potion 😃 Come back and let us know how your doing, as you experiment further into the wonderful world of pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![big\_guns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f07891/32.png) [@big\_guns](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/big_guns)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2007, 6:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/3 "2007-11-20T18:29:13Z")
mark, thanks for the welcome and advice. I think I’ll be trying alot of these [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). Is there a pheromone for respect from your kids? LOL… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2007, 6:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/4 "2007-11-20T18:36:44Z")
A-314. Get’s respect from everybody. But I still enjoyed the joke 😃 You really have found a great source for [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) information, and this forum is filled with a great group of people to help you along the way. > [@big\_guns](#): > > mark, thanks for the welcome and advice. > > I think I’ll be trying alot of these pheromones. Is there a pheromone for respect from your kids? LOL… 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2007, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/5 "2007-11-21T01:47:58Z")
Hi Big Guns Welcome to the forum 🙂 That was a great experience you had with Turn Up The Heat 😃 Thanks so much for sharing it with everyone. Its a great testimony to what Turn Up The Heat can do when used in the correct situation Little word of warning though. Dont overdo it with the TUTH, 2 or 3 sprays works for you but some people think “hey maybe more would be even better”. Then they go and spary 5 or 6 and all hell breaks lose. More Androstenone which is what TUTH is basically is could put her in a fowl mood. Oh she will still be horny but she will be the horny bitch from hell. Take it from experience I have been exposed to, to much Androstenone more then once. I think you will also like A314. It has very little Androstenone in it. Its a high alpha mix respectful, trusting, mysterious. Sort of like James Bond 😛 Keep in mind that although it is a sexy product its not sexual. Its more of a power mix and you need to 'walk the walk ’ when wearing it to get the best results from it. According to Mharris who is the man who made the mix it does give the wearer more confidence and a sense of power which will help you project the aura needed to make this product work well. I think you would also enjoy [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Its a fun youthful mood enhancing mix. We look forward to your participation so please let us know how it go’s if you decide on more products. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![big\_guns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f07891/32.png) [@big\_guns](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/big_guns)\ **Post date:** [November 21, 2007, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/6 "2007-11-21T15:21:42Z")
Thanks for the welcome Tisha. I’ve only used up to 1½ shots of TUTH. I don’t want all the neighborhood cats following me around. LOL. I does seem that my wife’s aggressiveness is intensified by the more sprays, I may try 2 shots this weekend just to find out. Hopefully my A314 and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) show up before the weekend and I’ll try a combo or two. Thanks again for the welcome. I enjoy reading all of these post. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 22, 2007, 1:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hope-this-helps/6786/7 "2007-11-22T01:14:43Z")
Well Big boy oh boy. That’s a heckofa first post you got going there. Love to stick around and chat but I’m issuing GC’s and handling CS so I need to welcome you and say your GC is on the way.