# How can I tell if a woman staring at me is actually interested? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 3, 2010, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228 "2010-01-03T03:50:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![georgelucas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8baadc/32.png) [@georgelucas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/georgelucas)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/1 "2010-01-03T03:50:50Z")
Okay, so how can you tell the difference between a woman actually checking you out or if she is just looking at you. Since I’ve been wearing the mones, I’ve had random women looking at me but I’m not sure if they are interested or not. Short of straight up asking them if they are interested, which I might just do to find out, are there any other ways to know. There is the obvious vertical scan when they look you up and down, but I don’t think I noticed that. Is there anything else? ---
**Author:** ![georgelucas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/8baadc/32.png) [@georgelucas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/georgelucas)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 4:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/2 "2010-01-03T04:15:40Z")
> [@georgelucas](#): > > Okay, so how can you tell the difference between a woman actually checking you out or if she is just looking at you. Since I’ve been wearing the mones, I’ve had random women looking at me but I’m not sure if they are interested or not. Short of straight up asking them if they are interested, which I might just do to find out, are there any other ways to know. There is the obvious vertical scan when they look you up and down, but I don’t think I noticed that. Is there anything else? Oh yeah I should probably specify that when i mean random women are looking at me it means they are borderline staring at me. This only started happening after using the mones. ---
**Author:** ![apexi1100](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e68b1a/32.png) [@apexi1100](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/apexi1100)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 5:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/3 "2010-01-03T05:59:11Z")
There is a great sticky on that topic. It goes into all the different IOI’s. ---
**Author:** ![apexi1100](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/e68b1a/32.png) [@apexi1100](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/apexi1100)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 6:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/4 "2010-01-03T06:00:22Z")
> [@How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List"](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333): > > Multiple looks. Women have much better If you catch us looking at you more than once, it’s probably becuse we’re attracted and we can’t help it. You catching us looking at all. Women look at you fast. If you catch us looking at you, this may be because we’re attracted. Not always (I get horrified when I see someone catching me looking when I’m not actually interested), but often. You guys have muscle, but we have social muscles. WHen you catch us being less than discreet, we often mean it and/… There you go ---
**Author:** ![Lashe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/6de8d8/32.png) [@Lashe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lashe)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 6:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/5 "2010-01-03T06:17:30Z")
Well, aside from suggesting you take a look at the master list of IOIs sticky if you haven’t already, I would suggest… talking to them? You don’t have to straight up ask them, and personal interaction would probably give you a better idea. By random I assume you mean you have no existing personal connection with them. EDIT: If you did straight up ask them like you said, I can’t say how often you’d get a straight response. I’d probably be a bit embarrassed myself if a girl asked me that question. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 7:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-can-i-tell-if-a-woman-staring-at-me-is-actually-interested/35228/6 "2010-01-04T07:04:43Z")
Hi and Welcome Georgelucas I second the motion; study the master list of IOIs sticky. Just thought about these. Some of them you may already know or read. Just want to help.🙂 Staring or **gazing** at you intently; then when you look at her, she lowers her eyes. This prolonged staring or gazing is a strong signal of her interest in you. Just make sure she is not staring at the guy behind you. Wandering eyes, on the other hand, is a sign she is looking for better choice. - looking at you a second longer than you feel is appropriate - look at you out of the corner of her eye - repeated **glances** - look away after **glances** - looking at you, then down, then back at you one or two more times - **glancing** at you over her shoulder - **gazing** at your mouth - sparkle in her eyes Respectfully, MVKBUGATTI