# How come instant honesty/openess won't affect me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 2, 2009, 3:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112 "2009-09-02T15:33:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Vampire\_Kitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b782af/32.png) [@Vampire\_Kitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vampire_Kitty)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2009, 3:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/1 "2009-09-02T15:33:20Z")
I am wondering if anyone can answer this question and calm my fears about me ‘blurting out all my secrets’ when I am wearing these? Surely if they can affect people standing a metre or so away, they will have no trouble affecting me, since it is ME they are on. Any help would be greatly appriciated 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2009, 6:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/2 "2009-09-02T18:22:36Z")
Actually they probably will affect you, but with repeated use, you’ll be less affected by them. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2009, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/3 "2009-09-02T18:23:23Z")
The first couple of time they might effect you, but after those first couple you’ll develop a tolerance to the self effects. If you’re worried, apply them well away from your nose. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 2, 2009, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/4 "2009-09-02T21:05:16Z")
LOL They probably will effect you. I remember when I first used IH I was quite the blabber mouth LOL IO not so much but it makes me upbeat and happy most of the time despite it smelling like feet to me. Everyone else loves the smell when I wear it though LOL I dont apply IO close to bedtime though. It makes my mind to busy and I have weird dreams and wake up frequently. Easy to combat by not apply it 3 or 4 hours before bed or just washing it off before bed. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Vampire\_Kitty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b782af/32.png) [@Vampire\_Kitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vampire_Kitty)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 12:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/5 "2009-09-03T00:15:33Z")
Doesn’t that mean it is permanantly altering your brain chemistry? Isn’t that dangerous? ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/6 "2009-09-03T03:11:29Z")
Apply it away from your face and you won’t have such strong self-effects as you might think. Try the back of your hair, or if you’re wearing a skirt or shorts, the backs of your knees. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [September 3, 2009, 8:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/7 "2009-09-03T08:11:39Z")
I don’t feel a thing even if I apply it inches from my face. Of course I’m normally tight lipped and mones don’t change my essential nature. The only way to get secrets out of me is either sexual favors or large amounts 'o cash. Although Jack Daniels does seem to loosen lips a little but lying is just as likely as truth. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 4, 2009, 9:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/8 "2009-09-04T09:00:55Z")
> [@Vampire\_Kitty](#): > > Doesn’t that mean it is permanantly altering your brain chemistry? Isn’t that dangerous? No the neurotransmitters in your brain are made to send signals. In the case of pheromones they send the signal to the emotion centers of the brain. People exposed to pheromones are reacting to a emotion that they feel. Your olfactory sense is much like your visual or your auditory senses in this way. You watch a funny movie, what you see and hear travels to your brain to be processed then to your emotion center and you laugh but it does not permanently alter your brain. When the stimuli is gone your transmitters stop firing. You remember your feelings though but that occurs elsewhere in the brain. For instance when you think back on the movie you may laugh at something you remember. Its not exactly the same as seeing it the first time but the feeling lingers. With certain pheromones it seems that if you give off a friendly fun vibe because of them people effected will remember that feeling. Or with IH if they feel connected and a good rapport with you the next time they see you they pull that emotion back up. Again the feeling lingers. You come in contact with pheromones everyday of your life. Unless you never go outside or are around people. They dont change you or others they just influence emotional response. With [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) your just controlling the signals you send and when you send them. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mudskipper](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9e8a1a/32.png) [@mudskipper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mudskipper)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2009, 9:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-come-instant-honesty-openess-wont-affect-me/32112/9 "2009-09-15T09:45:55Z")
lol, i get really bad headaches at the end of the day when i apply IO! but IH rocks for me 🙂