# How do pheromone targets know it's you?? **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [September 27, 2015, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990 "2015-09-27T05:32:49Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 5:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/1 "2015-09-27T05:32:49Z")
When a woman catches my [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) sig and becomes DIHL, how does she know it’s coming from me, and say.. Not the guy next to me or the one in front of me? Or anybody else in close proximity? ---
**Author:** ![phantom000000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/db5fbb/32.png) [@phantom000000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phantom000000)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/2 "2015-09-27T07:17:42Z")
I’ve been having the same issues in that regards. I’m never sure whether to look for an IOI or just go up and talk to them. I’d say best break the ice with a smile and quick compliment like, “cute _insert color/pattern_ dress, it’s very _insert adjective_(classy, dorky, bright, livid, etc.) it reminds me of blah blah blah.” And my guess is to Focus on her eyes and hands to see what they’re doing. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 2:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/3 "2015-09-27T14:19:48Z")
It happened to me a few times, especially when I’m in conversation with several persons, that the girl tries to focus on where the attack is coming from, looking slightly bewildered or confused, before finally locking-in on me as the source. Even when it’s not instantaneous, it seems to eventually get there most of the time. Altough I’d say that like 80% of times, the lock-in is somewhat instantaneous. But I don’t know much about the theory of it 🙂. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/4 "2015-09-27T19:14:55Z")
Oh sorry, I should have made myself more clear. I know the woman’s attention is focused on me and me only. I’m asking, how does she know (scientifically) that it’s coming from me and not someone else. Like if I was wearing bright red clothes, someone would be able to spot me. So how does the pheromone receptors and brain be able to ‘spot me’ out of the crowd?? It’s just a scientific question. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 7:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/5 "2015-09-27T19:20:58Z")
I feel like it must be similar to our sense of smell, how we could figure out from which person a bad odor is coming from.. But I’ve gotten DIHL from up to around 20-40 feet away. I imagine it would be almost impossible to distinguish from which person a bad odor is coming from from up to 40 feet away. ?? ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2015, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/6 "2015-09-27T20:47:35Z")
Its the way you dress that makes the difference. When you are the onliest person in a room wearing a suit and A314, people will notice you much faster than when you look like a tramp. In fact, it confuses people. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are more like a “sense”, similar to a salmon finding the river where they grew up, and bees/humans finding a certain home back after a long time. With pheromones you have some sort of familiar sense. Something that stimulates the brain into thinking about something wonderful. But because we don’t rely on smell anymore, that particular sense went into a more dormant state, but is still there. Having an overdose of stimuli however will give many people the DIHL situation, because they don’t know how to cope with that stimuli. However, when you have a lot of people around you, finding the target that emits those signals is difficult. And to cope with that fact, people don’t only rely on their smell, but also their other senses like their eyes and rely also on their previous experiences. So, when you are a good looking guy, and smell wonderful, girls will be more attracted to you than when you look like a tramp but smell wonderful. In fact, the eye also likes to see things. A nice example would be a woman who looked attractive, and also smelled really nice. Just the “attractive” part would have some men looking at them, but the smelling great part makes it for the “icing on the cake”. And if that “smell” includes pheromones, then it would get even better… ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [February 4, 2016, 5:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/7 "2016-02-04T17:04:10Z")
I see what you mean. However, with a certain special mix of mine, I have literally gotten DIHL from at least 90+% of women within a close proximity of me regardless of what I wore or looked like or acted like. I have literally worn suits with that mix and have worn raggedy clothes (after getting off work from a warehouse) with paint on them and rips and stains.. I have walked around with my head held high smiling and being friendly and have walked around with my hands in my pockets looking at the ground - all same results. I do believe the way one carries themselves is a factor, surely.. But I think people underrate the effectiveness of pheromones. Also, I’m sorry if I’m still not clear, but my question is purely scientific. As in what is the scientific cause to make a person ‘spot’ who the pheromones are coming from. When someone has a bad odor, we can smell specifically which direction it’s coming from. I suppose -mones are the same but instead off a conscious smell it’s more of a subconscious. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2016, 2:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/8 "2016-02-07T02:51:14Z")
I have used the same mix Jdub is talking about and have got the same results. I have always wondered the same thing. Say I was in a crowd of 20 and we are all in the elevator I always wondered how would someone know it came from you the signature and not from the person next to you. Or if my signature would hit everyone how they all would react. Would the woman in the front of the elevator get turned on and all of a sudden think it is the guy next to her even though I am standing in the back of the elevator. I live in a small town or I would surely test this theory. I would love to find someone in New York with a busy tall building and test this out. ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2016, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/9 "2016-06-06T18:25:57Z")
I’ve tested this on a crowded college campus, shopping malls, but generally it worked best in an environment where there was an decent amount of people. I’ve literally walked up to a crowd of women, ~10 and have them all Dihl with me simultaneously. I cannot describe how awkward that felt for me haha. Maybe I should invest in some spy glasses, the ones with cameras, and show ya’ll what I’m talking about. Justintime, I think you should expose yourself with this mix (or whichever works best for you for maximum Dihl) in a crowded place if you ever get a chance, for the sake of research, it would be great to hear your results. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2016, 8:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/10 "2016-06-07T08:13:55Z")
> [@justintime469](#): > > I have used the same mix Jdub is talking about and have got the same results. I have always wondered the same thing. Say I was in a crowd of 20 and we are all in the elevator I always wondered how would someone know it came from you the signature and not from the person next to you. Or if my signature would hit everyone how they all would react. Would the woman in the front of the elevator get turned on and all of a sudden think it is the guy next to her even though I am standing in the back of the elevator. > > I live in a small town or I would surely test this theory. I would love to find someone in New York with a busy tall building and test this out. I think the wearer will gave him/herself out in this case. A slight twitch, affirmative eye movement, suppressed smile, a nod… being the only one wearing pheromone, you will have a different reaction from others everytime your target/s started noticing the signal the pheromone is emitting. 🙂 Plus of course, the sillage effect. The vapor trail will eventually end up on you once an eye contact was made and the target decided that whatever they saw in your eye confirms their hunch. 🙂 I think it’s the same as finding the guy who farts or the guy with the BO. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2016, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/11 "2016-08-24T22:03:58Z")
I really like that last part Dee A, that made a lot of sense. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2016, 3:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/12 "2016-08-30T03:08:07Z")
Ok, I just posted on this and here is a shameless plug to my Journal where I’ve saved it for posterity. > [@Starting out with 'mones: Takin' it nice and slow... NOT!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/starting-out-with-mones-takin-it-nice-and-slow-not/42340/412): > > Here is a post that I put together for a new gal on the forum that I think you may enjoy: Welcome Ashley! Note this, because mones on their lonesome will not make the adorable go away or make the charismatic automagically be your vibe or feel to others. For example the IShine and IH, applied at the same time, different application points(One to each wrist or pulse points on the neck). The IShine, will be a feel of “comfortable to be around you” with your words, body language and attitude ste… BUT… Here it is copied because I’m a fairly nice guy… sometimes when I feel like it. It speaks to pheromonal targeting but giving a simile on how People KNOW it’s YOU! Here is a post that I put together for a new gal on the forum that I think you may enjoy, an excerpt anyways: I’ve also mentioned several times, people around you, which is men and women. I know you’ve mentioned men to feel at ease with you and step up. Keep in mind, these mones don’t discriminate as it’s a kind of mone cloud around you that will influence both sexes around you. You also leave a mone ‘wake’ behind you that many times will be attributed to you. ‘If there are many people around, how do people KNOW the mones are from me?’ You may ask. Here is an example, albeit, fairly rough, but, and that there is not designed as a pun, but, hey… there it is again. Imagine you’re in a room full of people. While there, you slowly get the scent of a nasty gas that someone let out. First, depending on the people you’re with, may slowly look around, trying to pinpoint the culprit. In some rooms of people, yelling outloud, Maaan, who let ONE out!??, would be more appropriate. In either case, once you’re attention has been grabbed by the scent and your mind is automatically looking for the origin, you’ll notice the direction, strength, and subtle facial and body hints from the offending human and his/her offending olfactory gift. You can just TELL this gal was the flatulence producer! ![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/2/2c00031f2941a65cb9a6fc45cd3af31ecc607a73.webp) In a similar way, when wearing mones, the people around you will be doing just that, except, in YOUR case, you’ll be showing off your best face, body language and attitude that says, Damn Straight, those mones are MINE! Be awesome and make it an awesome day! 1Alpha ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2017, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/13 "2017-03-20T17:19:05Z")
> [@Jdub](#): > > When a woman catches my pheromone sig and becomes DIHL, how does she know it’s coming from me, and say.. Not the guy next to me or the one in front of me? Or anybody else in close proximity? Just bumping thread to ask what mix were you using as someone asked me, I am assuming it was your Mix 1? Thanks in advance Jdub! ---
**Author:** ![Jdub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jdub/32/1399_2.png) [@Jdub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jdub)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2017, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-pheromone-targets-know-its-you/64990/14 "2017-03-23T02:28:40Z")
> [@justintime469](#): > > Just bumping thread to ask what mix were you using as someone asked me, I am assuming it was your Mix 1? Thanks in advance Jdub! Yep that’s the one. 🆒