# How do they attract guys/girls to you specifically? **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [March 31, 2007, 1:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833 "2007-03-31T01:56:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![acyzaak](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/4bbf92/32.png) [@acyzaak](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/acyzaak)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 1:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/1 "2007-03-31T01:56:11Z")
Hey guys. Just a little question i have on the pheromone attraction theory. If you are wearing [pheromones](https://a314.com/) - instead of turning on women to you specifically - won’t they simply be attracted and turned on in general? as in what makes them attracted to you alone? if a girl is in the proximity with her boyfriend, won’t she just get turned on and get more attracted to him instead? 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/2 "2007-03-31T04:11:09Z")
This has been covered MANY times. If you get a good vibe from person A (wearing pheromones) while standing near them. Walk away that vibe wains. Get closer the vibe comes back. Whala! The [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) vibe is the person who’s wearing them. ---
**Author:** ![7aji88](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/7aji88/32/1287_2.png) [@7aji88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/7aji88)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/3 "2007-03-31T04:17:09Z")
I think it’s like what steveo said, you have like circle around you and when people get out of it and come back, they will notice that thing about you. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2007, 12:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/4 "2007-03-31T12:24:21Z")
if the pheromone signiture you wear screams _loud and proud_ lol _and you are congruent with that signiture_, i have faith they will imediately put it together. i wear mixes that scream sexy alpha fem and i dont _give anyone a chance_ to steal it. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2007, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/5 "2007-04-10T15:12:12Z")
that’s hotttt ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 6:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/6 "2007-04-11T06:44:35Z")
acyaak ive noticed this with my mates gf she may give me looks like shit u r doin fine etc but she cant do anythin about it due to her bf there ( not that i would anyway 😉 ) but yea instead of givin me attention i have noticed they will be a lot more touchy feely to there boyfriend like as if she wanted me to compete with it. Thats what i think anyway 😛 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/7 "2007-04-11T14:38:28Z")
> [@Helix](#): > > acyaak ive noticed this with my mates gf she may give me looks like shit u r doin fine etc but she cant do anythin about it due to her bf there ( not that i would anyway 😉 ) but yea instead of givin me attention i have noticed they will be a lot more touchy feely to there boyfriend like as if she wanted me to compete with it. Thats what i think anyway 😛 Good point Helix, Also something to consider is that by not competing you are displaying higher value, which in essence furthers the affects of your pheromone signature. ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/8 "2007-04-11T16:46:53Z")
ah yea true 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 4:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/9 "2007-04-11T16:50:56Z")
actually, a girls P O V - by not competing, she is thinking "ive given him a chance to show _anything._ efforts here are _wasted"_ i dont know about someones method ,_lol_, but thats how a girl thinks 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/10 "2007-04-11T16:57:29Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > that’s hotttt thats how you work the pheromones. i dont flatter myself to think anyone thinks im some celebrity with perfect features all tight and rich, that would be total _insanity_. what you do with these mixes is play the part the same as you would do with clothing… if your dressed like a cowboy, you better have the attitude that goes with it. if your dressed like your going to an opera, better get a little class. if you wear a sexy mix, dont hide- speak up - chest out - smilin, winkin, laughin , radiating sexxay. this way they dont think “cant be him/her…” 😃 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 5:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/11 "2007-04-11T17:30:20Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > actually, a girls P O V - > > by not competing, she is thinking > "ive given him a chance to show _anything._ efforts here are _wasted"_ > > i dont know about someones method ,_lol_, but thats how a girl thinks 😉 I disagree! If you were to hit on your friends GF, while your friend is present you would be displaying massive DLV. I guess I’m picky, but my friends are much more valuable to me than some random girl regardless of how attractive they are. She can think what she wants, but it wouldn’t mean anything to me anyway. She already didn’t meet my standards by DLV towards my friend anyway. ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/12 "2007-04-11T17:33:10Z")
yea i wouldnt do that lol i alrdy have my mates cousin hittin on his gf and that isnt a pretty sight. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 5:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/13 "2007-04-11T17:55:04Z")
> [@steveo](#): > > I disagree! If you were to hit on your friends GF, while your friend is present you would be displaying massive DLV. > > I guess I’m picky, but my friends are much more valuable to me than some random girl regardless of how attractive they are. She can think what she wants, but it wouldn’t mean anything to me anyway. She already didn’t meet my standards by DLV towards my friend anyway. hmmm, i dont see where i posted that you ought to _hit on her_, but we see in things where our head is at i guess… also, i noticed you added “while your friend is present”… whats the difference? its ok to hit on her if he is NOT there??? 😃 you slay me. other than that, sometimes we meet people for the first time because someone we know is dating them. it _doesnt_ make you a bad person for thinking they are groovy 🙂 worrying if what you are doing displays the wrong thing is a pretty tangled web, a girl will go for the one with less issues anyway. being yourself usually is the straightest line between 2 points 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/14 "2007-04-11T18:25:47Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > hmmm, > i dont see where i posted that you ought to _hit on her_, but we see in things where our head is at i guess… > also, i noticed you added “while your friend is present”… > whats the difference? its ok to hit on her if he is NOT there??? 😃 > you slay me. Just a choice of words. No I wouldn’t hit on my friends girlfriend regardless. If they broke up that’s a different story. > > other than that, sometimes we meet people for the first time because someone we know is dating them. > > it _doesnt_ make you a bad person for thinking they are groovy 🙂 There is nothing wrong about thinking about it, but taking actions to make it so is not cool. > > worrying if what you are doing displays the wrong thing is a pretty tangled web, a girl will go for the one with less issues anyway. Come on Lor, you’re pulling at strings on this one! You mean to tell me it’s OK for your friends to hit on your man or vice-a-versa? I don’t believe you would succumb to that nonsense. You have much more credibility than that. Being yourself is one thing, but you can’t honestly expect me to believe people don’t know when they are hitting on someone? > > being yourself usually is the straightest line between 2 points 😉 Being yourself is all I subscribe too! I think that it stands evident as far as my posts go. I am who I am and you either like it or you don’t. By being myself that just means I have high values for myself and people I associate with, which means that you don’t go after your friends girlfriend. I guess it’s the same thing with my pink and sparkly friend I have talked about before. I respect her and myself enough that the times I have worn pheromones around her (an admitted mistake) even though she attempted to escalate I refused. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 6:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/15 "2007-04-11T18:57:55Z")
> [@](#): > > Come on Lor, you’re pulling at strings on this one! You mean to tell me it’s OK for your friends to hit on your man or vice-a-versa? I don’t believe you would succumb to that nonsense. You have much more credibility than that. Being yourself is one thing, but you can’t honestly expect me to believe people don’t know when they are hitting on someone? again, i never said it was okay to hit on anyone. as a matter of fact, i really wish you would outline where i said hit on your friends gal ! 🙄 i havent heard one person say it feels natural to analyze whether moves are DLV or not 😃 so ,if in being yourself means that you are showing interest in someone as a person _big deal_. thats really what gals subscribe to. but if your showing interest in screwing them, thats just being a doggy. your the “gross” friend, because you would do that to your buddy. i dont have friends that would hit on my ex; if they did, its up to my ex to respond. if i have to say or do anything, he was never mine. and THAT _doesnt_ make him evil. it _doesnt_ make my friend evil,either. **cant help how you feel**. you CAN help who you screw 😉 i actually had that situation come up once. the outcome was what brought me to where i am today on this topic 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/16 "2007-04-11T19:03:28Z")
amen …8 chars ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/17 "2007-04-12T12:54:55Z")
please marry me steveo and lor? lol ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 1:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/18 "2007-04-12T13:17:22Z")
> [@Helix](#): > > please marry me steveo and lor? lol laugh NOW, mua hahahaha… by the time your ready to be married, it will be an oldfasioned thing to do ! 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 2:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/19 "2007-04-12T14:29:54Z")
hehe true 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2007, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-they-attract-guys-girls-to-you-specifically/2833/20 "2007-04-13T03:34:25Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > laugh NOW, mua hahahaha… > > by the time your ready to be married, it will be an oldfasioned thing to do ! > > 😛 You mean it’s not already an old fashioned thing to do?