# How honest are you about pheromone use? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 11, 2007, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056 "2007-04-11T00:00:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Honeythief](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/honeythief/32/350_2.png) [@Honeythief](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Honeythief)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/1 "2007-04-11T00:00:28Z")
I’m wondering about how honest other people here are about what they’re wafting in front of their friends and targets (not very honest, I suspect, or at least not offering the information straight away). I have absolutely no problem with maniuplating people in this manner - I don’t see it as any different from wearing a sexy perfume (Boudoir is my sig scent) or wearing an attractive outfit - but I wouldn’t lie about it either. How much do you feel compelled to disclose? My husband knows that I am planning to experiment with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), but he has asked me not to tell him if/when I do so. We both want to see what the real effect is, and he is happy for me to keep my girlie stuff private from him anyway. But I couldn’t have done anything that might affect him without at least warning him first. I feel no such compunction about friends, colleagues, or strangers on the street! What’s your take? - Honeythief ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/2 "2007-04-11T01:57:20Z")
I have never told a man that I have been involved with about my [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) usage…that is my little secret. 😃 My current love knows that I wear a lot of different perfumes, and he tells me which scents he prefers, but he doesn’t ask questions beyond that. Only a couple of my friends know, but they are not physically around me much, so they are not often my targets. I feel like my pheromone usage is a personal thing…and it’s really more fun if they don’t know about it…😮 ---
**Author:** ![bmthint](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bmthint/32/1283_2.png) [@bmthint](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bmthint)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 2:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/3 "2007-04-11T02:16:57Z")
a similar post was made in the mens section: [Do you tell people about your pheromone usage?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/do-you-tell-people-about-your-pheromone-usage/2543) ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 2:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/4 "2007-04-11T02:25:13Z")
im a bigmouth. if someone makes a comment on the scent, i let the cat out of the bag. its usually when im wearing the chocolate scented stuff 🙄 im not opposed to keeping it a secret, but since i dont have anyone close to hide it from, its a nonissue. i think pheromones are becomming socially acceptable anyway.😉 ---
**Author:** ![alseides](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alseides/32/1039_2.png) [@alseides](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/alseides)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/5 "2007-04-11T02:47:32Z")
Despite the fact that I carry the stuff around in my purse (mostly just the to-go sized bottles) and my friends have a habit of going through and finding them, I have only told two people that I use pheromones. 🙂 A few of my friends have even caught me posting on these forums - one yesterday, for example, my MX134 post - and he was just like “…What’s a pheromone?” I shrugged, and that was that. I agree that it is definitely more fun for me if no one else knows about them. The two girls I told are not around me physically often, and they know how to keep secrets. One of them refers to Shine as “my happy spray”, that’s about it. I think that if my friends knew about my pheromones, they would constantly be watching their behavior, wondering if I was influencing them somehow, and that would throw the results. I know that if any of my friends said I was a test subject for her pheromones, I would be paying very close attention to my behavior… and that’s no fun at all 😛 ---
**Author:** ![saraunne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/saraunne/32/193_2.png) [@saraunne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/saraunne)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 4:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/6 "2007-04-11T04:29:23Z")
I tell quite a lot. Sometimes wearing pheromones, especially Shine, I tell just about any one I know who walks by the room. If I’m in an odd mood, I’ll do so while dancing around them. Some think I’m crazy. No one wants to try it… now that I think about it, I’m sure it’s the approach. 😃 They’re all girls, too. A few have shown curiosity about how my nights went, but they aren’t interested enough to actually take the plunge. Now with random strangers, I don’t. I might might might tell my target guy if he asks, and if we see each other again. I’ve tried Love Potion #3 on him (but without much intent to it) and he said I smelled fantastic (candy grape scent, to me). But the last thing I wanted to do was freak out the guy and say, “Oh thanks, it’s a love potion. I wore it especially for you.” Haven’t tried pheromones on him yet, but his interest seems to be pretty solid, so now we’ll see. And then I’ll find out if I tell him or not. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/b2d939/32.png) [@Oldman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/7 "2007-04-11T05:34:00Z")
I just wanna have sex…stinking, sticky, messy, smelly, grunting sex, with my wife…However…I would enjoy experiencing seeing a young healthy woman slobbering on herself because she cant stand not jumping on me and really working me over…nope…I don’t tell anyone…ever… 😮 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 9:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/8 "2007-04-11T09:11:47Z")
My husband knows I am buying them because he is paying for them 😃 He thinks its perfume that does something but if he asks I will tell him. My 2 best friends and a few people I am close to at work know. If they outright ask me or want to talk about it I will but I dont really announce it or push it on anyone. Oh My mother knows when I have certain ones on because she kept noticing something different about me so I finally had to tell her and she thinks its cool. She says “give me a spray of that shiny stuff your dad is getting on my last raw nerve” LOL They have been married 50 years and Instant shine is her favorite. Other then that I pretty much keep it to myself which is fine by me. I think if I met someone who was open minded and would benefit from one of the products I would maybe suggest it to them but only if they asked my advice. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Helix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/helix/32/1270_2.png) [@Helix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Helix)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 10:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/9 "2007-04-11T10:37:20Z")
i wouldnt bother telling its like asking them what type of shampoo do u use or somthin lol id just say normal cologne from overseas or somthing like that 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 10:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/10 "2007-04-11T10:53:51Z")
I’ve told a couple of guy friends of mine but no target of mine knows about them… ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/11 "2007-04-11T14:44:23Z")
My husband knows and I make concoctions for some of my male and female friends. IMO as with all things you can never reveal all of your secrets. Wearing mones or anything else. You’ve got to keep some type of edge in this world. ---
**Author:** ![chirimoya](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chirimoya/32/1538_2.png) [@chirimoya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chirimoya)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 3:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/12 "2007-04-11T15:39:48Z")
I couldn’t agree more with countesszero. You have to keep some things to yourself. I do not talk about my pheromone use, but it doesn’t mean I wouldn’t, with the right person. In the same way I feel no need to divulge when I wear sexy lingerie, or if I do Kegel exercises, of if I’ve had therapy, what my investments are, or if I do anything else to, as countesszero so aptly put it, keep some edge about myself, I feel no need to divulge my pheromone use. I would not lie about it if asked outright, but that hasn’t even come on the radar. ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2007, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/13 "2007-04-11T16:02:00Z")
Very well said Chirimoya. ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/14 "2007-04-12T06:24:02Z")
I have only told my sisters. 🙂 xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 8:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/15 "2007-04-12T08:37:19Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > My husband knows I am buying them because he is paying for them 😃 He thinks its perfume that does something but if he asks I will tell him. > > My 2 best friends and a few people I am close to at work know. If they outright ask me or want to talk about it I will but I dont really announce it or push it on anyone. > > Oh My mother knows when I have certain ones on because she kept noticing something different about me so I finally had to tell her and she thinks its cool. She says “give me a spray of that shiny stuff your dad is getting on my last raw nerve” LOL They have been married 50 years and Instant shine is her favorite. > > Other then that I pretty much keep it to myself which is fine by me. I think if I met someone who was open minded and would benefit from one of the products I would maybe suggest it to them but only if they asked my advice. > > Tisha Gheee.. wished I had husband like yours!!😛 ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/16 "2007-04-12T08:39:00Z")
> [@jpballerina](#): > > I have only told my sisters. 🙂 > > xoxo > jp That doesn’t count!!😛 ---
**Author:** ![Tommy\_Fever](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/b19c9b/32.png) [@Tommy\_Fever](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommy_Fever)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2007, 10:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/17 "2007-04-12T10:23:43Z")
i tell everyone. spread the mones! ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2007, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/18 "2007-04-14T22:11:11Z")
I haven’t really told anyone for a variety of reasons, one being that after all, I’m _testing_ this stuff (especially the MX and Putatives), so telling someone would be affecting the observed results. If someone does wonder what I’m doing, I say I’m testing/checking out colognes/fragrances. ---
**Author:** ![noblelady](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/noblelady/32/2391_2.png) [@noblelady](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noblelady)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2007, 4:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/19 "2007-04-18T04:32:29Z")
My hubby knows some of it, (he does pay when _I_ buy) 😉 but I want to try some sexier stuff on him soon ~for fun 😛 that I \*won’t _prepare him for_ my 18 year old daughter uses my [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Sexiness when she wants a bit of a boost, (though Lord knows she realllly doesn’t need it-she’s fairly breathtaking anyway!!🙄 ) and one co worker who also likes a bit of an edge (we’re both in business/sales/training reps etc) has been interested in Instant Shine and the “Business Mix”🙂 - btw dh woke me up in the middle of the night the other night…_ **fun** _-I had the last of my Instant sexiness right at the nape of my neck, where he couldn’t miss inhaling it- 😃😛 ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2007, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056/20 "2007-04-18T05:11:33Z")
> [@noblelady](#): > > My hubby knows some of it, (he does pay when _I_ buy) 😉 > but I want to try some sexier stuff on him soon ~for fun 😛 > that I \*won’t _prepare him for_ > > my 18 year old daughter uses my Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness when she wants a bit of a boost, (though Lord knows she realllly doesn’t need it-she’s fairly breathtaking anyway!!🙄 ) > > and one co worker who also likes a bit of an edge (we’re both in business/sales/training reps etc) has been interested in Instant Shine and the “Business Mix”🙂 > > - btw dh woke me up in the middle of the night the other night…_ **fun** _-I had the last of my Instant sexiness right at the nape of my neck, where he couldn’t miss inhaling it- 😃😛 I guess she’s like her mother too!😛 [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-honest-are-you-about-pheromone-use/3056.md?page=2)