# How i feel for those who have known me here in this forum & my depressing day **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [July 24, 2008, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207 "2008-07-24T15:37:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/1 "2008-07-24T15:37:18Z")
Hello to all here in Pherotalk, i make this thread to just tell how i feel for those who have known me here in this forum for some months & my depressing day that i had yesterday. Ok firstly i feel like i have a second family here with all my buddies & friends that have been helping me with their advices & opinions & i truly appreciate all that very much šŸ™‚ You guys & ladies are like a family to me not only just friends. I wanted to say this out for some time. To **Mockingbird, Eldros, K24, mark-in-dallas, Lady Tisha, Bella, Djac, Kitten, denec, renny, zeph, Phya, bond007, tmoz, jamesbonded, Mohammad Shah, Jasx69, Daedelus76** & a few others that have helped me this past few months that i joined in this forum to until now, thank you very much šŸ™‚ I regard all of you as family šŸ™‚ Ok i have decided to show my real picture of myself that i have taken with lady C in my avatar so no more wizard cat šŸ™„ Yeah PhatSounds real picture of himself šŸ™‚ Feel free to say your comments about my picture there šŸ™‚ Well for your information, Lady C is attached already but considered me as a good friend of hers. And regarding the depressing day that happened to me yesterday, well i donā€™t wish to talk more about it & will cancelled my day 20 report as iā€™m hurt bad emotionally & physically. Well my Phero combo doesnā€™t work as good as the previous combo that i noticed. I will say just a bit of what happened to denec as he was right on what he have said on Day 19 HOT report. Denec you are right on what you have said in my Day 19 HOT report. You are right to be curious about why she donā€™t have a phone well i went to see her again yesterday & happened to meet her friend Lady C later so while i was chatting with Lady C, i asked her if Lady S have a phone & she told yes she got a phone by that time i felt i have been screwed ā˜¹ I asked lady C again if she is sure & she said yes. My big thanks for that opinion of yours my friend that make me realised what a fool i have been. I donā€™t wish to talk more about it further. So Day 20 report will be cancelled & iā€™m sorry for this. So enough of that, my point is i just feel that i have a second family here & i appreciate that. Thank you everyone who have helped me so far šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Wrlprchnx](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wrlprchnx/32/1360_2.png) [@Wrlprchnx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wrlprchnx)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 4:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/2 "2008-07-24T16:45:05Z")
Donā€™t worry too much man, unless youā€™ve had specifically bad feedback from Lady S it could very well be that at the time you first asked for her number she wasnā€™t 100% about you yetā€¦ or even that she doesnā€™t give out her number (I have ran into girls like that). Reading your Day 19 report I gotta say that it sure seems like Lady S was still showing interest AFTER you asked for her numberā€¦ and came back for seconds after leaving for a bit. Donā€™t get your hopes down too low man! ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 5:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/3 "2008-07-24T17:22:11Z")
Phatsounds, Do not be too hard on yourself! Spray yourself with some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)!! I am sorry I wish I was not right. If anything you will grow from it. If i can offer some other advice, best place to really meet women is not from clubs. I really do not know what it is like where you live, since I have never been to singapore. But try other places like bookstores, coffee shops, malls, anywhere else but clubs. ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 6:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/4 "2008-07-24T18:10:42Z")
Hey Phatsounds, thank you for being an important part of this forum and the big phero phamily we have here! Iā€™m very happy that you have decided to share your face with us (Lady Cā€™s face too šŸ™‚ ). We all have bad days. Better days are always ahead! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/5 "2008-07-24T18:45:48Z")
Hang in there Phatsounds - we have probably all been through something similar and really feel for you ā€¦ You will find someone who will be as interested in you as you are in them ā€¦ sometimes it just takes longer than we would like it to. In the meantime you are always welcome to hang out here with us ā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Daedelus76](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb8c5e/32.png) [@Daedelus76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Daedelus76)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/6 "2008-07-24T19:44:27Z")
Hello Phat, nice picture. Bad days are bound to happen and the important thing is to not dwell on them too much, to not make them more important than they are, and to realize that just because you have a bad day or feel bad, doesnā€™t make you a bad person (quite the contrary, Phat)- in more complicated language, having a bad day doesnā€™t have to define you. So, maybe take some time off from having too many expectations and do something you enjoy, without pushing yourself to any goal. Good luck from your friend Daedelus. šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![damu33](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/damu33/32/1545_2.png) [@damu33](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/damu33)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 8:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/7 "2008-07-24T20:34:29Z")
Keep your head up man! No days are the same, you could be down today then on top of the world tomorrow! ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 9:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/8 "2008-07-24T21:30:30Z")
Nice pic Phats! I knew you were a cutie! šŸ™‚ Everybody has bad days, sweetheart. Thereā€™s always tommorrow. Keep your chin up and remember what I said about keeping the door openā€¦you never know when someone great will wander inā€¦and ya donā€™t wanna miss it by closing yourself off. Thereā€™s a girl out there for you, Phats, it just takes time to find the right one. Open heart, open mindā€¦thatā€™s the ticket. šŸ˜‰ Hugs and kisses, Bella ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/9 "2008-07-24T21:46:58Z")
donā€™t give up so easily. Many ladies are cautious in giving out tel number to avoid stalking. The harder to get , the more satisfaction you get in return. if she can easily gives out tel number to you, she would have easily given it to others. I donā€™t think you like girls who can easily given out numbers to others. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/10 "2008-07-24T22:49:56Z")
Hmm. That does suck PS. But Iā€™ll say this, there was another guy in the club looking at you and the ladies thinking to himself, damn I wish I was him. There always was, and always will be. ---
**Author:** ![BlackGregg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f17d59/32.png) [@BlackGregg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlackGregg)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/11 "2008-07-24T23:10:37Z")
I dont give bitches my phone number ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/12 "2008-07-24T23:33:47Z")
My thanks to all who replied to my thread & for your good advices šŸ˜ƒ Thank you again šŸ™‚ Denec i know you wish you were not right about what you said but it turned out right so nothing else can be said now šŸ™„ Ok BlackGregg, iā€™m not sure what you mean there by saying that comment but i take it as an insult šŸ˜  You mean you donā€™t give b\*\*\*\*\*\* your phone number, what do you mean by that? If you are saying that you are a playa guy that get any chick whenever you want, then what do you need pheros for btw? ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/13 "2008-07-24T23:36:27Z")
phatā€¦ dont let anything a she does get u downā€¦ everyone has an off day, but think of all the positive things that happened.. and dont focus on the negative. Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; and let those be well-tried before u give them ur confidence. just dont let those who arnt let u down bro šŸ™‚ > [@](#): > > You mean you donā€™t give b\*\*\*\*\*\* your phone number, what do you mean by that? phat hes not trying to insult uā€¦ hes saying, he doesnā€™t give the girls he meets his phone numbersā€¦ that doesnā€™t mean he gets all the girls in the that world. its just his preferenceā€¦ not a boast bond ---
**Author:** ![BlackGregg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f17d59/32.png) [@BlackGregg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlackGregg)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/14 "2008-07-24T23:38:54Z")
> [@PhatSounds](#): > > My thanks to all who replied to my thread & for your good advices šŸ˜ƒ Thank you again šŸ™‚ Denec i know you wish you were not right about what you said but it turned out right so nothing else can be said now šŸ™„ > > Ok BlackGregg, iā€™m not sure what you mean there by saying that comment but i take it as an insult šŸ˜  You mean you donā€™t give b\*\*\*\*\*\* your phone number, what do you mean by that? > > If you are saying that you are a playa guy that get any chick whenever you want, then what do you need pheros for btw? it means what it says, i donā€™t give bitches my phone number ,cause when a female asks for your phone number, shes not interested or shes insecure what you should of said was haha nice meeting you instead of giving her your number. I can if i wanted to, but i see pheros as a hobby i like experimenting, you got a problem with that? edit: thx for clearing that up bond, smooth as always. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/15 "2008-07-24T23:48:24Z")
> [@bond007](#): > > phatā€¦ dont let anything a she does get u downā€¦ everyone has an off day, but think of all the positive things that happened.. and dont focus on the negative. > > Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; > and let those be well-tried before u give them ur confidence. just dont let those who arnt let u down bro šŸ™‚ > > phat hes not trying to insult uā€¦ hes saying, he doesnā€™t give the girls he meets his phone numbersā€¦ that doesnā€™t mean he gets all the girls in the that world. its just his preferenceā€¦ not a boast > > bond Yes buddy i understand what you mean there & you are right on what you have said there šŸ™‚ That was some useful advices you have given there, thanks šŸ˜ƒ Oh i see thanks for explaining to me buddy about what he meant, well it did sound like a boost which is insulting, ok i get the picture now šŸ™„ ---
**Author:** ![bond007](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bond007/32/1076_2.png) [@bond007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bond007)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/16 "2008-07-24T23:48:33Z")
phatā€¦ dont think of pheros as being just to get with girlsā€¦ thats not completely the pointā€¦ there is testing, experimenting, gaining trust, work ethic, self improvement, self effectsā€¦ dont worryā€¦ some people dont need pheros to pick up women.. they r just well set just let it pass, and u will be just fineā€¦think of thisā€¦ after something happens that u didnt like or didnt think went well, ask ur self ā€œis this going to effect me a year from nowā€ an rememberā€¦androtics are not looking for success stories.. they do want to hear bout things that dont go right toā€¦ we all have posted reports about things that didnt go wellā€¦ iv got a report when i got slap in the face, because i got cocky and asked a chick i thought was nice a personal questionā€¦ just dont let it get u down šŸ™‚ bond ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/17 "2008-07-24T23:54:54Z")
> [@BlackGregg](#): > > it means what it says, i donā€™t give bitches my phone number ,cause when a female asks for your phone number, shes not interested or shes insecure what you should of said was haha nice meeting you instead of giving her your number. > > I can if i wanted to, but i see pheros as a hobby i like experimenting, you got a problem with that? > > edit: thx for clearing that up bond, smooth as always. Ok i get what you mean there thanks to my buddy bond007 explaination šŸ™‚ but the way you say it sound boastful thatā€™s all i would like to say. No i got no problem with that just thought that you insult me with your previous comment as i got a few guys insult me here before for no particular reason. ---
**Author:** ![BlackGregg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f17d59/32.png) [@BlackGregg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlackGregg)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 11:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/18 "2008-07-24T23:59:40Z")
are you depressed at the fact that she lied to you or shes not interested? you cant be getting so attached with ladies so quick, its a major turn off for them. but I have the key to the gate that you are trying to open. pm me. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/19 "2008-07-25T00:18:42Z")
> [@bond007](#): > > phatā€¦ dont think of pheros as being just to get with girlsā€¦ thats not completely the pointā€¦ there is testing, experimenting, gaining trust, work ethic, self improvement, self effectsā€¦ dont worryā€¦ some people dont need pheros to pick up women.. they r just well set > > just let it pass, and u will be just fineā€¦think of thisā€¦ after something happens that u didnt like or didnt think went well, ask ur self ā€œis this going to effect me a year from nowā€ > > an rememberā€¦Androtics are not looking for success stories.. they do want to hear bout things that dont go right toā€¦ we all have posted reports about things that didnt go wellā€¦ iv got a report when i got slap in the face, because i got cocky and asked a chick i thought was nice a personal questionā€¦ just dont let it get u down šŸ™‚ > > bond Yes of course buddy, i did not mean that pheros will be used just to get girls but the rest of the things that you have said as well šŸ™‚ Iā€™m well aware of that šŸ™‚ Pheros are like an enhancement to ourself from what i know now thanks to this forum for this info. Well for those people who donā€™t need pheros to pick up women well for my opinion, they just donā€™t know what they are missing there šŸ™„ Well i know i should let that day pass but for me this will take sometime. A wounded heart canā€™t be fixed instantly right buddy? But i will make sure it wonā€™t affect me in a year only for sometime. I understand fully what does Androtics is looking for. Well if there is a bad report about that phero, they will try to research a new & better one than that phero. Research has been on their aim all the time now. That is very much what i have learn from Androtics & their aim too through this forum which make me stay as a loyal consumer to it šŸ™‚ But unfortunately i canā€™t post Day 20 report as it is too depressing for me to post it so i will make a new report to make up for that which is hopefully soon šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/20 "2008-07-25T01:54:40Z")
Hey Phat, Sorry things didnt work out with Lady S. Sometimes in life you gotta kiss alot of ladies (or should I call them bitches šŸ™„ ) before you find your goddess. Try not to let it get you down. Think of it as a life experience. Bond is right, Use mones to enhance your life not just to attract others and the rest will follow on its own. Tisha [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207.md?page=2)