# How i feel for those who have known me here in this forum & my depressing day **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [July 24, 2008, 3:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207 "2008-07-24T15:37:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![BlackGregg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f17d59/32.png) [@BlackGregg](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlackGregg)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 2:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/21 "2008-07-25T02:31:20Z")
Yeah Phat And don’t think us men has it too, theres a lot of females out there who kiss a lot of men ( or should I call them dogs 🙄 ) before they find their kings. its all a process in life. BlacK ---
**Author:** ![SoulCreator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/soulcreator/32/236_2.png) [@SoulCreator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SoulCreator)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/22 "2008-07-25T03:10:06Z")
Hey phat, I’m sorry to hear about your crappy experience there, but here’s my 2 cents on the whole matter… Try not to let your success or failure with one woman determine your own self worth. So what if one girl you like happens pull some crap on you, believe it or not pick up artists deal with this sort of stuff _ALL_ the time, only they will keep pummeling through these “shit tests” or they’ll move on to the next girl. Man I bet at that club you were hanging out at when this whole crap went down there were probably dozens, if not hundreds of beautiful girls all waiting for a guy like you. Sometimes one of the most powerful things you could do for your own self worth is to just walk away and move on to the next beautiful thing down the way. ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/23 "2008-07-25T03:11:54Z")
hey Phat! LOL are you ok?? I was seriously getting worried when I read the title i thought something really terrible had happened 😛 I feel bad that things didn’t work out with you and Lady S, but hey look on the bright side you got many positives things ahead of you, just let go of the negativity now, one day you will be on top of the world and look back and laugh and say :" screw lady S, she’s not worth my time 😃". just hang in there buddy, at least you are trying, all good things come to those who tries, it just takes time, be patient 🙂 nice pic btw 😃 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/24 "2008-07-25T13:59:28Z")
My thanks to all who have just replied my thread especially Lady Tisha 🙂 Thank you for all your advices & K24 thanks for your good comment on my pic 🙂 My thanks also to the others who have replied earlier with your advices & sweet comments to my pic 🙂 I appreciate all this very much to all who have replied, you are all great giving me support there when i’m really down now 🙂 I will remember this 🙄 You guys & ladies are like truly my second family to me here 🙂 May God bless all of you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 7:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/25 "2008-07-25T19:53:10Z")
PS, this is just me, and perhaps this is telling of my personal..philosophies, but I sorta feel that you should try posting the results of your bad days. There are definitely somethings I won’t write about on here. Usually, those things are very personal to either my friends, or myself. However, there aren’t many of those, and it’s not because it makes me feel bad to think about what happened, but rather, out of respect for my friends. I don’t feel like some of their personal business should be on public forums. But every single one of my mistakes, be assured, I’m keeping track somewhere, and a lot of them make it up here. In the time that you’ve been reporting, there have been several days where things have gone so awry that you felt too depressed to write it up. Try writing about it. Sometimes facing the worst head on is more revealing and beneficial than trying not to feel bad. Don’t take this the wrong way. If you really don’t want to post, that’s your choice, but I’m just trying to encourage you to face your demons, so to speak. If I’m trying to become a race car driver, it’s not the easy turns that I need to practice, it’s the hard ones, the ones I keep crashing on, that I need to review, relive, and practice again and again. As corny as it is, (I just happened to watch The Dark Knight last night) what Bruce’s father told him is very true. “Why do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.” IME, my true lessons have been the ones that no one pushed onto me, they were just the ones that I avoided until it was harder for me to avoid them, than to turn around and punch them in the face. 😉 It can be hard to look sometimes, that’s all, it’s a ugly picture to look at. 😛 I’m not saying you have issues, problems, or anything like that. I am not making any judgements. I don’t know if you are fearing critcism for how things went badly, or what, I’m just saying, you can learn new things by looking in places you haven’t yet. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 8:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/26 "2008-07-25T20:09:14Z")
I think i agree with the idea that she might want to know you a little more before giving out the number! But even if it wasn’t the case, there are a lot of chances to come 😃 Phya ^ is that a spoiler to dark knight? I saw those words and dont want the same to happen like the perfume movie thread 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/27 "2008-07-26T02:28:59Z")
No, no spoiler. It’s actually from the first one, but they’re both batman, which is why it came to mind. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/28 "2008-07-26T19:36:40Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > PS, this is just me, and perhaps this is telling of my personal..philosophies, but I sorta feel that you should try posting the results of your bad days. There are definitely somethings I won’t write about on here. Usually, those things are very personal to either my friends, or myself. However, there aren’t many of those, and it’s not because it makes me feel bad to think about what happened, but rather, out of respect for my friends. I don’t feel like some of their personal business should be on public forums. But every single one of my mistakes, be assured, I’m keeping track somewhere, and a lot of them make it up here. > > In the time that you’ve been reporting, there have been several days where things have gone so awry that you felt too depressed to write it up. Try writing about it. Sometimes facing the worst head on is more revealing and beneficial than trying not to feel bad. > > Don’t take this the wrong way. If you really don’t want to post, that’s your choice, but I’m just trying to encourage you to face your demons, so to speak. If I’m trying to become a race car driver, it’s not the easy turns that I need to practice, it’s the hard ones, the ones I keep crashing on, that I need to review, relive, and practice again and again. > > As corny as it is, (I just happened to watch The Dark Knight last night) what Bruce’s father told him is very true. “Why do we fall? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.” > > IME, my true lessons have been the ones that no one pushed onto me, they were just the ones that I avoided until it was harder for me to avoid them, than to turn around and punch them in the face. 😉 It can be hard to look sometimes, that’s all, it’s a ugly picture to look at. 😛 > > I’m not saying you have issues, problems, or anything like that. I am not making any judgements. I don’t know if you are fearing critcism for how things went badly, or what, I’m just saying, you can learn new things by looking in places you haven’t yet. I understand what you mean there buddy 🙂 I appreciate your concern there for me well i will think again about doing my Day 20 report 🙄 Thank you for your advice buddy 🙂 You have been a good buddy to me alongside the others who know me here 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 7:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/29 "2008-07-26T19:49:19Z")
> [@mockingbird](#): > > I think i agree with the idea that she might want to know you a little more before giving out the number! But even if it wasn’t the case, there are a lot of chances to come 😃 Well no it seem not like that buddy from what i know. But you are right on there is a lot of chances out there to come 🙂 Anyway thanks for replying my thread & for your opinion 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Omegabyte](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/46a35a/32.png) [@Omegabyte](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Omegabyte)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2008, 6:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/30 "2008-07-27T18:23:27Z")
Keep your chin up PhatSounds. There are literally **billions** of women in the world. ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2008, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/31 "2008-07-27T19:37:26Z")
> [@Omegabyte](#): > > Keep your chin up PhatSounds. There are literally **billions** of women in the world. Lol, way to put it in perspective. If we put all those women back to back, how many times around the earth would the line go? ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/32 "2008-07-28T00:43:21Z")
> [@Omegabyte](#): > > Keep your chin up PhatSounds. There are literally **billions** of women in the world. Good perspective there Omegabyte 🙂 Yes you are right, there are literally billions of women in the world or out there 🙂 > [@Phya](#): > > Lol, way to put it in perspective. > > If we put all those women back to back, how many times around the earth would the line go? Yes i do agreed that was a good perspective from Omegabyte 🙂 And about your question buddy can you explain to me there as i kinda don’t understand it 😕 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 1:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/33 "2008-07-28T01:32:40Z")
Ya know, if you tried to shake hands with a billion women one right after the other, for only 5 seconds each, it would take you more than 150 years to do so. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [July 28, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/34 "2008-07-28T19:00:22Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Ya know, if you tried to shake hands with a billion women one right after the other, for only 5 seconds each, it would take you more than 150 years to do so. Well yes buddy but by the time i finish shaking hands with a billion women, my hands will be badly swollen & in need of medical attention lol 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/35 "2008-08-01T01:16:55Z")
Sorry Phya buddy but i will still go with my decision not to make Day 20 report after thinking about it for some time. ---
**Author:** ![Jasx69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasx69/32/2413_2.png) [@Jasx69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasx69)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 3:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/36 "2008-08-01T03:01:55Z")
**Hey SplatSound 😛** **Eeeek I just found this thanks for regarding me as family even though this thread post was created while I was away on vacation.** **Knowing you ,never say never, as you’ve lasted this long and you have the ability unlike the most of us to pick yourself up again soo just keep up the great work.** **Ciao “J”** ---
**Author:** ![GuySajer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/guysajer/32/446_2.png) [@GuySajer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GuySajer)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 4:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/37 "2008-08-01T04:44:53Z")
I’ve never talked to you before dude, but here’s another good quote to make you feel better and it’s from Winston Churchill: “If you’re going through hell, keep going” The guy was prime minister of Britain at a time when there were no allies left in Europe. It was just Britain alone, surrounded by U-boats, getting the hell bombed out of its cities and facing the probability of a massive invasion. Before that, Churchill had some very major screw-ups and he was in a very, very sticky situation as prime minister. If you know history though, you know how that situation turned out. Matter of fact, here’s a good video for you to watch too: [![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/e/e780b399068d562cae04e04f64d7d863d01ec919.jpeg "Famous Failures") ](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dT4Fu-XDygw) I’ve had some very shitty days in my life and most people probably have too, but you have to remember that things always do get better. You just have to stick it out. Forget about the other night, the best players in the world get rejected from time to time. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 12:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/38 "2008-08-01T12:43:18Z")
> [@Jasx69](#): > > **Hey SplatSound 😛** > > **Eeeek I just found this thanks for regarding me as family even though this thread post was created while I was away on vacation.** > > **Knowing you ,never say never, as you’ve lasted this long and you have the ability unlike the most of us to pick yourself up again soo just keep up the great work.** > > **Ciao “J”** Your welcome buddy, you were like family to me always 🙂 And my thanks for your opinion & word of confidence there. I will keep on going until i’m successful 🙂 > [@GuySajer](#): > > I’ve never talked to you before dude, but here’s another good quote to make you feel better and it’s from Winston Churchill: > > “If you’re going through hell, keep going” > > The guy was prime minister of Britain at a time when there were no allies left in Europe. It was just Britain alone, surrounded by U-boats, getting the hell bombed out of its cities and facing the probability of a massive invasion. > > Before that, Churchill had some very major screw-ups and he was in a very, very sticky situation as prime minister. If you know history though, you know how that situation turned out. > > Matter of fact, here’s a good video for you to watch too: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yes](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yes) i have never talked to you before but thanks for your good opinion GuySajer 🙂 And btw great quote from you there plus a great meaningful video 😃 That video give me a strong message & leave me a meaningful experience after viewing it. I understand now like the video quoted\> **If you never failed, you never live** 🙄 I have put that video as one of my favourites. So from now on i will just forget & move on & keep on trying until i’m successful 🙂 Reps for your great video & quote 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![angelplus2012](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/a9adbd/32.png) [@angelplus2012](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/angelplus2012)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 9:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/39 "2008-08-02T09:51:01Z")
Phatsounds, sorry for your bad experience. however we’re still family here in this forum. i had break up with my girlfriend of “2 and half years” recently, it hurts me deep, i’m on anti-depressants for a month already, but life had to go on, may you be happy with everything you’ve got, cherish your family friends, and i’m sure you will meet someone great in days to come. yea, women still rules and men are always victim, that’s why woman live longer than men. they can cope well with their emotions, let us man do the same. don’t be depressed and live life again ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2008, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207/40 "2008-08-03T17:50:45Z")
> [@angelplus2012](#): > > Phatsounds, sorry for your bad experience. however we’re still family here in this forum. i had break up with my girlfriend of “2 and half years” recently, it hurts me deep, i’m on anti-depressants for a month already, but life had to go on, may you be happy with everything you’ve got, cherish your family friends, and i’m sure you will meet someone great in days to come. > > yea, women still rules and men are always victim, that’s why woman live longer than men. they can cope well with their emotions, let us man do the same. don’t be depressed and live life again Thanks angelplus2012 for your advice there 🙂 And sorry to hear what happened to you there, i understand how you feel there & you are on anti-depressants for a month well buddy i myself was on anti-depressants for nearly a year so we are in the same boat 🙄 Yes to all my buddies & friends here, i was on anti-depressants for nearly a year at that time… Yes life has to go on no matter what & i will keep on going until i’m successful 🙂 Yes you are right i must not not be depressed & live life again. Thank you again angelplus2012 🙂 [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-i-feel-for-those-who-have-known-me-here-in-this-forum-my-depressing-day/16207.md?page=1)