# How often do you use Instant Honesty? **URL:** \ **Category:** Pheromone Theory & Molecules\ **Created:** [April 25, 2008, 10:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792 "2008-04-25T10:22:15Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![vic](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vic/32/1113_2.png) [@vic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vic)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2008, 10:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/1 "2008-04-25T10:22:15Z")
To me it seems like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would be more suitable for the times I’d use Instant Honesty.. I would probably only use Instant Honesty when I want to get someone to be more authentic, stop them from hiding behind their mask, that sort of thing, but that wouldn’t be very often. I can see myself using Instant Openness daily, but not Instant Honesty. (I don’t have either of these yet) So how often does everyone here use IH? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2008, 11:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/2 "2008-04-25T11:09:08Z")
In general, IH is used if you want to have deeper, more meaningful conversation. If you want girls to talk more personal stuffs with you, telling you their problems, personal matters, then you can try IH. In work, it is very useful when you want to have heart to heart talk with colleagues, counselling, doing sales, interview, audit, etc etc. IO will help you in more friendly, flirty talks but not deep. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2008, 12:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/3 "2008-04-25T12:09:33Z")
I use it a lot…and a lot of it. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2008, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/4 "2008-04-26T23:48:46Z")
I’m with Bella. Honesty..such a funny term. It holds so much value in our society, but true honesty is hard to find. My interest in behavior was fueled by this desire. The desire to be able to look inside another person and see how they are feeling, what their desires are, what is their thought process, what are their fears? In that respect, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) has been wonderful for me. If it gets too ‘serious’ then I just lighten up the mood and direct attention away from the negative. But if they are willing, I’m fully willing to take their hand and walk down the dark and dirty road to find the rose growing in the concrete. In a way, it’s almost what I live for. So I don’t use it every day, but unless I’m testing something new, I like to incorporate it most of the time. Sometimes I’ll just wear Instant Honesty for the hell of it and keep my heart open. I walk around, never knowing who I’ll meet that could be my next roadsign pointing me in the right direction on my life path. ---
**Author:** ![vic](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vic/32/1113_2.png) [@vic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vic)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2008, 7:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/5 "2008-04-27T07:08:30Z")
do you guys always use it with IO or IS? do you ever use it alone? I would probably use IS and IO everyday, and maybe even [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), but adding all that plus IH in, that seems like an OD to me, 4 sprays minimum. I don’t know if I should go with the full bottle or just to-go.. it seems like it might be more valuable than I thought. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2008, 11:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/6 "2008-04-27T11:22:09Z")
I use IH 4X alot. My husband reponds well to it which is why I like it so much. He dosnt spill his guts or anything like that but he gets more intimate and close. He talks about more subjects other then constant car talk which being his job he tends to do. Sometimes I dont want to talk about if I think my new tail pypes increased my gas mileage or If I want a new mass air flow system on my car LOL I recently bought it in 4X grapefruit scent with 5x the cops added and its assume.. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2008, 11:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/7 "2008-04-27T23:48:14Z")
> [@vic](#): > > do you guys always use it with Instant Openness or IS? do you ever use it alone? I would probably use IS and IO everyday, and maybe even Ammo, but adding all that plus Instant Honesty in, that seems like an OD to me, 4 sprays minimum. I don’t know if I should go with the full bottle or just to-go.. it seems like it might be more valuable than I thought. No, I often wear it alone. But if I wear it with Instant Shine, then it steers it more about feeling really good and comfortable with an old friend, kickin back and just being in each others company and sharing ideas and concepts kinda feel. I don’t actually use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) much, but it has its place. ---
**Author:** ![vic](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vic/32/1113_2.png) [@vic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vic)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/8 "2008-04-28T05:42:56Z")
hmm thats a surprise, using IH more than IO.. maybe I should’ve changed my order.. ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2008, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/9 "2008-04-28T15:44:31Z")
I use IH daily. @ sprays about in the hair. I notice it helps me with performance at work. For example, when i sell a data product i like to be extremely thorough. Instead of feeling rushed my IH helps me relax and not be afraid to elaborate on anything a customer questions. Word. ---
**Author:** ![vic](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vic/32/1113_2.png) [@vic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vic)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2008, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/10 "2008-04-29T10:26:45Z")
so it’s the relaxation effect that makes you more willing to say be and be more thorough? does it make you feel more patient? because I don’t have much patience when explaining things to people.. maybe thats the trick.. ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2008, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/11 "2008-04-30T05:52:58Z")
> [@vic](#): > > hmm thats a surprise, using Instant Honesty more than Instant Openness.. maybe I should’ve changed my order.. Between the two products Instant Honesty has been more useful and used. If I want people around me talking I want some depth. Besides when I wear [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), I cant shut up and I feel like a loser for talking so much lol. ---
**Author:** ![thesecret](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/97f17d/32.png) [@thesecret](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thesecret)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2008, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-often-do-you-use-instant-honesty/11792/12 "2008-04-30T06:21:49Z")
When I wear Instant openness alone, I experience the worst chatter from people. It´s like they are in a bubble talking, not really to anyone, it seems like - just talking. I certainly like the [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) better. I am usually not interested in conversation without depth and closeness, so there has not yet been a situation where Instant openness has been the best of the two 🙄 🙄