# How to attract girls or how to start conversation **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [April 20, 2008, 1:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-attract-girls-or-how-to-start-conversation/11539 "2008-04-20T13:05:36Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 2:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-attract-girls-or-how-to-start-conversation/11539/3 "2008-04-20T14:21:12Z")
Well first and foremost you need to get out there and interact with others. Not so easy when your shy I know but with practice you can do it. Keep in mind all people are nervous when meeting new friends. Your not alone there. The worst that can happen is they wont be interested just shake it off and move on its there loss. Good places to start … Shopping, coffee shops, clubs, religous groups or church depending on your affiliation. Of course Bars, Now go out and find a friendly interesting target. Practice small talk and eye contact first. Learn to observe people, you can see there personality in their movements and expressions. You can also pick up on their interests so you will know what your openning line should be. Lets start simple and go to the coffee shop for example… This is just a example you live in another country so you can apply it basically to your enviroment. Get your coffee, Deep breath, Plant your butt near someone. Now suppose they are eating a muffin and your not. You could say, _Hey that muffin looks interesting. How is it ??_ Always end with a question at first this brings them into the conversation. Depending on what they anwser your going to respond. Suppose they say… HER: Yeah it is kinda dry. YOU: Ah well good thing I didnt then. did you ever have the muffins over at BigBartsmufforama ??? ( I made that up LOL) HER: no, if she is polite she will ask how they are. Now you can start fishing for information… YOU: Big barts is near my work, they are great, I am a mail carrier. What do you do ??? A conversation is born. See how if you end with a question it draws them in. Without the questions at first the convo fizzles out. This technique is something you should practice alot. Smile, make eye contact when talking. Use a open body posture. All this projects confidence. Read this post for when you ready to move onto flirting techniques I included some links in there. > [@ladies! help me out with my....](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ladies-help-me-out-with-my/11331/2): > > My opinion yes we can, I think we were born with a flirting gene or something. You see it at as young of a age as 6 months when little girls figure out how to wrap there daddies around there finger. I always find it amazing to watch. My friend has a 2 year old grand daughter and she is a pip. I told him she would steal his heart and he said “oh no I am strict” and he is with the boys. She had him the first time she stuck her little lower lip out. He melted like a puddle on the floor LOL So t… After your have had some basic practice meeting people and making friends your ready for PUA tactics Down in the lounge, [Pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) therory and studies and abstracts you will find the most info on PUA tactics and tips. Use the search function and read up on it. The more information you have in the subjects the easier it will be to break out of your shyness. Hope this helps some Oh did Bob take care of your mone problem? You didnt get back to me before. Dont worry I cant bite ya from here 😉 Tisha --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-attract-girls-or-how-to-start-conversation/11539)._