# How to deal with a spouse that thinks all pheros smell bad?

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**Created:** [July 12, 2009, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-that-thinks-all-pheros-smell-bad/30631 "2009-07-12T12:08:38Z")\
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**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2009, 12:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-that-thinks-all-pheros-smell-bad/30631/1 "2009-07-12T12:08:38Z")

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**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2009, 1:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-that-thinks-all-pheros-smell-bad/30631/2 "2009-07-12T13:05:56Z")

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Do you own any colognes?

Have you tried to cover it up with colognes after spraying with pheros?

truth is pheros do stink and some people are more sensitive to it then others

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**Author:** ![Vangelis](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vangelis/32/598_2.png) [@Vangelis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vangelis)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2009, 1:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-that-thinks-all-pheros-smell-bad/30631/3 "2009-07-12T13:20:52Z")

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> [@andrew88777](#):
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> after she smelled the Spaceland she make a comment about how I have been kind of stinky lately.

Are you allowing her to smell them from the bottle?

Some pheros, no scented, smell bad until they interact with your own body chemicals and bacterias. I would:

a) Cover them  
b) Don’t tell her when you are wearing them for a couple of times until she brakes the association she has made with them.

The other thing is that she knows your signature so she is noticing the difference, however, she might start opening herself to the effects pretty soon.

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**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\
**Post date:** [July 12, 2009, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-that-thinks-all-pheros-smell-bad/30631/6 "2009-07-12T13:50:06Z")

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People who know us well are sometimes resistant to the subconscious change in feeling that is taking place. The smell of the neroli or cologne scent becomes the conscious focus of the objection. Bosshank and Tisha have both talked about mothers finding the “smell” offensive. The same thing has been reported somewhat often in spouses of both genders.

Find Bosshanks Married Men’s thread in his signature, perhaps it will offer some insight into the best way to handle this.