# How to ditch a girl?...the real version.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ditch-a-girl-the-real-version/61974>\
**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [May 19, 2014, 8:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ditch-a-girl-the-real-version/61974 "2014-05-19T08:33:18Z")\
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**Author:** ![AussieGuy84](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3bc359/32.png) [@AussieGuy84](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AussieGuy84)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2014, 8:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ditch-a-girl-the-real-version/61974/1 "2014-05-19T08:33:18Z")

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Folks,

I was hoping to get some pointers from the pro’s here on how to ditch a girl that I am with. She has turned out to be self obsessed and pretty darn harsh on me…

Any ideas on how to do this with minimal damage? I dont like how she treats me but I don’t really want to do anything too mean back…

Any suggestions?

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**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\
**Post date:** [May 19, 2014, 5:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ditch-a-girl-the-real-version/61974/2 "2014-05-19T17:22:31Z")

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Honesty is the best policy man. There is no way to do it without her being upset, so it is best to just let her know you want to break up, dont go into specifics, just tell her you want/need to move on and then let the healing begin.

Good luck.