# How to get humility, comprehension and compassion ? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 11, 2011, 7:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700 "2011-06-11T07:56:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 7:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/1 "2011-06-11T07:56:06Z")
Hey guys, I guess I’ll have more time to come back again and more often in a few weeks, as my girlfriend “kicked” me out of the house last Monday. It’s a too long story and too personal on a public forum to be told, but the fact is during the coming weeks, we’re going to be in bad terms and we’ll have to go into court concerning our son and his future life with his parents separated. I’m feeling “free” and “light” as I’ve got support at work, not so much from my family but still. And what I’d like to know is your opinion on pheros to use to amplify my state of living (is that correct English?) for the last several months, as the judge is gonna be touched by my ex-girlfriend’s state (she’s paraplegic), as everybody who doesn’t know her in everyday life is, and I really want the judge to become aware that paraplegia doesn’t prevent badness and unrespect. So I would need a humility enhancer. I’m thinking about having no pheros at all also, as that worked too well in the past, but we never know… I placed an order a few weeks ago (and got it last week) so here is what I’ve got : A314 [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) MX297 A314 spray B TAA Rone TUTH P83 TAF Thanks, ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 8:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/2 "2011-06-11T08:17:00Z")
I’m sorry for what happened ☹ It looks to me like you are pretty experienced in the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) field but you are still asking for advice 😮 Just chill.. take a deep breath.. look at your 739 reps and think again 🙂 I’m sure you know what each product does to you more than us 😉 ---
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 8:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/3 "2011-06-11T08:28:54Z")
thanks PheroJack, The fact is that as you might see, all the time I was with my girlfriend, I wasn’t allowed to use the computer without going into an argument, that’s why I haven’t been here for a long while, thus getting my experience down on new products, like having made no “update”. What is more, I’m always searching for advice from other people, it’s also part of my personality and on the psychological scale, it should help motivation (isn’t it one of the role of this forum?). Getting opinions and experience of others brings knowledge. Taking everything for granted and not questioning brings to ignorance and overpride. I’ve learnt it over the last few months and even more last weekend. ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 8:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/4 "2011-06-11T08:45:18Z")
> [@magicj76](#): > > thanks PheroJack, > > The fact is that as you might see, all the time I was with my girlfriend, I wasn’t allowed to use the computer without going into an argument, that’s why I haven’t been here for a long while, thus getting my experience down on new products, like having made no “update”. > What is more, I’m always searching for advice from other people, it’s also part of my personality and on the psychological scale, it should help motivation (isn’t it one of the role of this forum?). > Getting opinions and experience of others brings knowledge. > Taking everything for granted and not questioning brings to ignorance and overpride. > I’ve learnt it over the last few months and even more last weekend. I’m sorry to hear that man. I know what you mean; people using their situation in an underhanded way to manipulate other people and situations. No bueno. Too bad you can’t dose her with IH just before you go into the courtroom. Have you got a combo that helps you to chill and vibe friendly and gentle? Just remember to try and keep a neutral aspect at the minimum. Don’t frown or set your face. Keep your jaw relaxed - this will help keep your shoulders from tensing; both of which are visible. Not necessarily consciously acknowledged, but definitely one of those things humans note about each other. And misinterpret. Keep your body language open, receptive and relaxed but attentive and respectful. Especially while her side has the floor. Don’t turn away or roll your eves - even if it’s something ridiculous. You will come across as composed, dignified and respectful of the situation and officials. Your composure could very well trigger some revealing behaviour on her part. Sorry, that’s all I got. That’s just from being in the courtroom for 2 of my male friends during similar (custodial) events. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 8:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/5 "2011-06-11T08:52:31Z")
Hi Magicj76 From your stash I would opt for IH for increased rapport and possibly mixed with 1 drop of A314 (oil). Not too much A314 to avoid over onfidence though. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 9:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/6 "2011-06-11T09:31:16Z")
(((((Magic))))) I am sorry. Well if your going from your stash then A314 and IH are the only workable ones in the group you have there. If your looking for something outside your stash you can get then … I would opt for IG Ishine [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) and IH Tisha ---
**Author:** ![magicj76](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magicj76/32/1858_2.png) [@magicj76](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magicj76)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/7 "2011-06-11T09:49:32Z")
Too bad [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) ! that would be a tricky trick, using a mix that if I remember well I still have, to get her in a bad and fierceful mood ? The problem is that I wouldn’t want anybody else to be in the same very bad mood and it’s never been the ay I consider things - getting people to reveal their bad side… I had negative results with P74. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 10:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/8 "2011-06-11T10:19:35Z")
> [@magicj76](#): > > Too bad P74 ! that would be a tricky trick, using a mix that if I remember well I still have, to get her in a bad and fierceful mood ? The problem is that I wouldn’t want anybody else to be in the same very bad mood and it’s never been the ay I consider things - getting people to reveal their bad side… I had negative results with P74. Really wow thats unusual for [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/). Hmm I have research and contemplate why she would have a negative effect to this one. P74 is about harmony and bonding for most users. The “make everything ok” putative. Well we are all different so there are times certain molecules dont mesh with us. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 3:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/9 "2011-06-11T15:17:48Z")
If its any help, A314 plus the IH/[P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/) combo has worked superbly when I’ve been dealing with legal/police/court matters over the last year. ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2011, 10:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/10 "2011-06-11T22:48:23Z")
You know…this might sound a little off the wall, but… …maybe he should try Instant Sexiness B? Go for a gender-opposite? And add Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)? Really, if he’s going for a humble, compassionate reaction I’d think the LAST thing he’d want to use is A314. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2011, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/11 "2011-06-12T00:34:55Z")
I’m sorry, but honestly…without knowing the whole situation I can pretty much tell you that almost no amount or combination of mones is gonna be much help. A.) you’re a man, she’s a woman…statistically that means she’s going to have an advantage in a divorce/custody dispute…unless you happen to live in Texas. B.) She’s paraplegic, her vulnerable woman image is amplified to the Nth degree. C.) Chances are you’ll be standing too far from the judge for his sense of smell to override his sense of hearing and sight. Unless she’s a seriously unfit mother or your relationship is ending due to some major moral lapses on her part. My advice is to try and negotiate with HER for the good of the kids. The judge is going to take her side brother…that’s the world we live in, so you have a better shot of getting what you want by focusing on getting HER to agree with you…not the judge. ---
**Author:** ![Jabez](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jabez/32/2193_2.png) [@Jabez](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jabez)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2011, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-get-humility-comprehension-and-compassion/50700/12 "2011-06-12T02:35:03Z")
Sorry to hear about it bro. This is the exact reason why I hate monogamy. Its like working at an Ice Cream store and a person tells you that you can only taste the Vanilla and none of the other flavors. Just be respectful and try to reach a 50-50 custody battle or something. Unfortunately what Rad say is true, women have that shit too their advantage. No matter how much it is her fault and what not. That’s why I am into one night stands bro. One and done and on to the next one. No questions, no drama, no bull shit,no stress. Good luck and I hope everything works out.