# How to keep a girl just below "friends"? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 10, 2011, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287 "2011-09-10T12:58:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Dr\_Phail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_Phail](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dr_Phail)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2011, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287/1 "2011-09-10T12:58:23Z")
So there is this extremely attractive girl who likes me. Problem is, she has a boyfriend and has so for a year. I only just met her two weeks ago while wearing IShine 4x for the first meeting, and [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) 1x + IShine 4x for the second one. The second time I saw her, I dropped some hints that I’m into her, nothing too fancy. Now, I KNOW I could get with her if there wasn’t a goalie in the net, and I want to, but how do I stay out of the friend zone while she has a boyfriend? ---
**Author:** ![THE\_GHOST](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/the_ghost/32/1990_2.png) [@THE\_GHOST](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/THE_GHOST)\ **Post date:** [September 10, 2011, 2:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287/2 "2011-09-10T14:34:50Z")
> [@Dr\_Phail](#): > > So there is this extremely attractive girl who likes me. Problem is, she has a boyfriend and has so for a year. I only just met her two weeks ago while wearing IShine 4x for the first meeting, and Ammo 1x + IShine 4x for the second one. The second time I saw her, I dropped some hints that I’m into her, nothing too fancy. Now, I KNOW I could get with her if there wasn’t a goalie in the net, and I want to, but how do I stay out of the friend zone while she has a boyfriend? Move on, Dont waist your time waiting around for her in the hope one day she will leave her boyfriend for you, unless you are sure their relationship is on the rocks and will come to an end very soon. There are plenty of attractive single women out there. Just my 2 cents. ---
**Author:** ![Dr\_Phail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_Phail](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dr_Phail)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2011, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287/3 "2011-09-11T02:08:34Z")
> [@THE\_GHOST](#): > > Move on, Dont waist your time waiting around for her in the hope one day she will leave her boyfriend for you, unless you are sure their relationship is on the rocks and will come to an end very soon. There are plenty of attractive single women out there. > > Just my 2 cents. No, I’m not waiting on anything, not expecting it any time soon, but it would be nice. I was just wondering if there was a way. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 11, 2011, 10:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287/4 "2011-09-11T10:41:20Z")
First just because she “likes” you and finds your attractive doesn’t mean she wants to date or have sex with you. You dont stop finding other people attractive or flirting after your in a relationship. If she is satisfied in her relationship and committed then its not likely her attraction to you will change that. Mones do not make people forget who they are and what they believe in. I would say remain friends as you are now. Always create a sexual tension though by mildly flirting, mild innuendos using body language etc etc. Dont let her cry on your shoulder about her personal problems or when she is having trouble with BF. This will keep you out of the friends box. Do not go out of your way doing things for her. I am not saying dont be polite of course but this is really where women determine the line between friend and potential interest. Once involved its OK to go out of your way but before that slams you right into the friends box. As Ghost mentioned dont wait around for her of course. Make sure she knows your socially active. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Dr\_Phail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_Phail](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dr_Phail)\ **Post date:** [September 12, 2011, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-keep-a-girl-just-below-friends/52287/5 "2011-09-12T15:15:16Z")
I appreciate it Tisha. I omitted alot of info in the first post, so that’s why there is a misunderstanding 😛. No, I know not to wait around, there are plenty of others ripe for the picking right now, and I will pursue them instead. I learned that the hard way a long time ago. But in the meantime I was just looking into how to stay out of the friend zone. I have to say she is quite possibly the most attractive girl who has shown interest in me yet, and has a great personality to boot! She’s perfect, but taken. Like I said, it would be nice if it did happen.