# How to Open Up a Reserved Person **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 10, 2016, 7:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-open-up-a-reserved-person/65745 "2016-03-10T07:19:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![chrisepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d07c76/32.png) [@chrisepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chrisepz)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2016, 7:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-open-up-a-reserved-person/65745/1 "2016-03-10T07:19:38Z")
I’ve had classes with this girl for almost 2 years. She works as a bartender at a hip place, and her spiel is I’m hot. She’s uncommonly quiet, distant, and keeps to herself. I don’t even try to get her out of her shell anymore, usually results in a bad experience for me. We’ve gone out a couple times (literally two). Another female friend said she might be lesbian, and I can see that too (bisexual). I see her bite her lip a lot of times when I address her (IOI obviously, but it could be that she is also biting her lip to contain her from speaking her mind) and sit on her hands (another body language that means the person is hiding their words. She opens up with women much easier. I’m social and talk to a lot of people, so I’m not the problem. Have not really tried IO but I guess I have to. What dose do you recommend? Four sprays next time if I don’t get any suggestions. IO + …? ---
**Author:** ![mrseeker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrseeker/32/5177_2.png) [@mrseeker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrseeker)\ **Post date:** [March 10, 2016, 1:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-open-up-a-reserved-person/65745/2 "2016-03-10T13:04:34Z")
Its a difficult one to be honest. I I would say [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), however I think that there is something on her mind that is bothering her. Either there is a dark secret that she simply does not want to tell you, or there is something that she does not like to talk about. Usually its the IO + IH combo that gets most girls, however on this occasion I am actually suggesting to try out MX479 (send me a PM if you like to know more on the reason why I am suggesting this one). I am not sure how pheromones will help here, because what I see here is a nice girl that likes to talk with you, but does not know how to start. She does not want to make you feel disappointed in her, so she tries to bite her lips to prevent herself from making a total fool out of herself. I think you should try to make her feel comfortable, feel at ease, let her know that whatever she says is fine for you. Be warned though, I had a girl that was awfully quiet and it ended up in one of the worst dates ever for her (because she felt so comfortable with me). You have to note that this one requires someone with people skill. Someone that she can trust and that she can open up on. Don’t make her see you as prey, but as a good friend who is willing to help out, no matter what she is saying. There might be something really difficult going on with her, so be prepared to get overwhelmed by something you totally don’t expect. Most woman only open up when they feel comfortable, not when they get pushed. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 1:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-open-up-a-reserved-person/65745/3 "2016-03-11T01:15:25Z")
Instead of IO, you might want to consider IH/IS - Its still a happy/chatty vibe but mich more trusting, involving and emotionally engaging - The sort of feel that encourages people to open right-up to you but the IS keeps it manageable and not “too-deep”, which helps avoid the friendzone. If she responds, to it, you can start to introduce a sexual once she’s more comfortable around you. I agree that a little IG might be good to underline the mix with the right kind of status but that’s up to you - IME Rone around reserved/reticent people can go either way - Some draw right back but others blossom. I’ve had similar with women who didn’t do well with A314 but whose response was transformed when exposed to [MX297](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/mx297/) instead - Its all up to what they tune-in to. Other products that can be useful here are P74 - again for its close/confiding/comfort vibe or P114 which encourages a “you take charge” response when used alongside Rone/status products. ---
**Author:** ![chrisepz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/d07c76/32.png) [@chrisepz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chrisepz)\ **Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 6:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-open-up-a-reserved-person/65745/4 "2016-03-11T06:54:54Z")
Today was good. I wear IG / IS to class everyday. I’ll start adding IO / IH to the mix. To start, I texted her and asked if she wanted to get a drink after the 7PM - 9:45PM class. She is leaving town at 4:30Am tomorrow and declined. We’ve gone out for a drink after a 10PM class once before. 1.5 sprays of IG distributed to the sides of my neck. IS x2 in the middle of my neck. 3 sprays of IO on the left wrist, two sprays of IH on the right wrist. Applied them close to 4PM. Class starts at 7. We met in the library at 4:30 to work on an assignment, and another friend joined us 15 minutes later. At 5:50 we left to see the professor in his office hours. He was a no show, so at 6:05PM we went to the pub on campus (yes, there is a watering hole on campus!). It was me, her, and another man who’s has been in the same class as us for almost 2 years now. I had 2.5 drinks and a burger, she had two drinks, the other man had pizza. It was a lot of fun, and she did reveal more aspects of her personality than I would have expected if I wasn’t wearing products by andortics direct (DIRECT PLUG!). Walked to class, still open. I think she is receptive to IO, and less receptive to IH. Maybe this is because the initial trust and openness doesn’t exist to be fully capacitated by IH. Self Effects of IH: I told them of the times my friends would sleep in their cars after drinking at a sports from 6PM - 2Am near by. Those were some of my favorite memories in recent years, and I got all sentimental. I think IH makes me want to reveal more about myself than I want to, and I’m aware of it, but I just want to…NATURALLY! Impressive stuff, I’ll add a 4x strength to go bottle to my next order. It is pretty astounding to think about that. Every time I have applied IH, I get sentimental, reminiscent, and reveal too much. I’m aware that the IH is causing it, but the desire is there. She said we should drink every Thursday before class. She hasn’t attempted to make any connection or attempt to spend time since I’ve known her. This is a starting point! [https://i.imgflip.com/10nafy.jpg](https://i.imgflip.com/10nafy.jpg) I’m gonna take this girl to my bed this semester even if hell freezes over! I’ll report on the situation in the thread. My game is excellent when it comes to meeting girls at bars. Being in the classroom with her 95% of the time creates a barricade to my game. I’m starting to get a feel for how to run it though. She is gonna be the first girl from my classes I sleep with. I’ve asked her to take trips out of state a couple times with me. Each time there has been a legit reason not to. Will be asking again. Any suggestions for [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) will be taken into consideration. PS: I also sense this woman has been very receptive to IS & IO (alpha androstenol).