# How to ruin the moment

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ruin-the-moment/38833>\
**Category:** Lounge\
**Created:** [May 24, 2010, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ruin-the-moment/38833 "2010-05-24T18:17:00Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 3\
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**Author:** ![tacitus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/6a8cbe/32.png) [@tacitus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tacitus)\
**Post date:** [May 24, 2010, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ruin-the-moment/38833/1 "2010-05-24T18:17:00Z")

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https://www.youtube.com/embed/HrvjhiNtaTY?feature=oembed&wmode=opaque

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [May 24, 2010, 11:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ruin-the-moment/38833/2 "2010-05-24T23:35:11Z")

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Didn’t seem like anything was ruined there?

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**Author:** ![Mongo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mongo/32/2034_2.png) [@Mongo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mongo)\
**Post date:** [May 26, 2010, 12:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-ruin-the-moment/38833/3 "2010-05-26T00:15:38Z")

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Better to communicate what you want from your partner than letting them go off on a tangent and having a shit(er) time.

Although yes I can see what tacitus means that came across a bit to whiney/patronising lol.