# How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List" **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 15, 2008, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333 "2008-01-15T23:07:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 18
**Author:** ![verongome](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/5e9695/32.png) [@verongome](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/verongome)\ **Post date:** [June 29, 2013, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/341 "2013-06-29T03:11:31Z")
great very nice information man really appreciate šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![Tigurinn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/e19adc/32.png) [@Tigurinn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tigurinn)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2013, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/342 "2013-06-30T14:26:42Z")
> [@Quicksilver](#): > > There is another indicator. > > I suspect I will get far more neg reps from the women than positive reps from the men. This one is powerful. But I have to preface it with a warning. > > The warning and the indicator are to be found here: [ooh clicky](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/setting-for-new-experiment/1270/28) > > Post 28 in Setting for New Experiment > > Cheers, > > šŸ†’ Quicksilver Any one got a video of that? Never heard of that before ---
**Author:** ![hankypanky2](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hankypanky2/32/597_2.png) [@hankypanky2](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hankypanky2)\ **Post date:** [October 30, 2013, 11:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/343 "2013-10-30T11:58:49Z")
good thread. ---
**Author:** ![Jonas\_finn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonas_finn/32/1298_2.png) [@Jonas\_finn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jonas_finn)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2014, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/344 "2014-02-18T19:51:26Z")
Thanks Jasmin for the list! šŸ™‚ But my question is if i want to show woman iā€™m interested in her how should i do it? Usually iā€™m so nervous and uneasy around girls i like that it may seem like i donā€™t want to be around them. Iā€™m good with eye contact but thatā€™s pretty much it.. I want to make clear with my body languange that iā€™m interested in her. šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Logos](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/aeb1de/32.png) [@Logos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Logos)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2014, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/345 "2014-02-18T20:28:07Z")
[How can a man with Aspergerā€™s show a woman that he is interested in her? - Quora](http://www.quora.com/How-can-a-man-with-Aspergers-show-a-woman-that-he-is-interested-in-her) Follow this thread or ones like it. Quora is an interesting resource. Not perfect, but not bad. ---
**Author:** ![cjw255](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cjw255](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cjw255)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2014, 10:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/346 "2014-02-18T22:09:04Z")
Eye contactā€¦smiling good posture thats open towards her. Leaning towards her. Touching her in certain spots while youre talking like her arm. Mirroring what shes doing. Biting or licking your lips while talking to her or while lokking at her. Move your eyes to her lips sometimes while talking to her ---
**Author:** ![jcarcel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/e79b87/32.png) [@jcarcel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jcarcel)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2014, 6:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/347 "2014-03-05T18:39:13Z")
I am not sure if this is in this thread, but a good IOI that she is interested in moving from conversation to something more physical is her looking at your lips its her way of saying I want to kiss you but i wont go first ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2014, 9:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/348 "2014-03-20T09:13:18Z")
How about if a female looks at me and then slightly lifts up her shirt and exposes some of her bare stomach? Does anyone think that is a good IOI?? I havenā€™t spoken to this girl at all. She works at Walmart and I noticed she has given me strong looks on multiple occasions, but tonight she looked straight at me, lifted up her shirt slightly, exposing bare stomach, and then she went back to work. What does everyone think? Means nothing? Or possible IOI? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2014, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/349 "2014-03-20T15:55:46Z")
Hi Ramon, In my opinion, that is a hit. She wants you to see her stomach, so she exposes it to you. Watch for other similar IOIā€™s like bending over to do something where she points her ass directly at you, or opening another blouse button exposing more cleavage, or hike up her skirt a little to itch a scratch. Other similar hits I notice are when they touch themselves in certain ways. We all know about the hair twirl, but watch for when they reach into their blouse to adjust her bra in front of you, or make eye contact then turn 180 degrees away from you and she runs her hand down her ass as if smoothing her clothes, or if she actually slides her hand into the back of her pants to pull up her thong. Which brings me to the thong. Girls know if their undies are showing. They just do. Its like undie radar or something. If she is showing it to you, she wants you to see it, and it is a hit. Question for you..were you wearing any pheros when you were with Walmart girl? If so what, and what strength? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2014, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/350 "2014-03-20T18:58:16Z")
> [@CelticPrince](#): > > Question for you..were you wearing any pheros when you were with Walmart girl? If so what, and what strength? Thanks. Hi Celtic Prince. No, I typically do NOT wear any pheros at the Walmart. I walk into Walmart every week after working out at the gym. I think she mostly checks out my muscular physique. So, I initially caught her attention without using any pheros. However, one day, just for the heck of it I tried one spray of The Edge. She gave me a brief deer-in-headlights look on that day, but Iā€™m positive that I donā€™t need pheromones to get her looking in my direction. Well, thanks for your opinion. I asked another girl if she thought a girl who exposed her stomach was an IOI and she agrees. She thinks itā€™s an ā€œobviousā€ indicator. šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Roy\_Dillon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/roy_dillon/32/1380_2.png) [@Roy\_Dillon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Roy_Dillon)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2014, 5:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/351 "2014-03-21T05:26:42Z")
> [@ramon\_69](#): > > Hi Celtic Prince. > > No, I typically do NOT wear any pheros at the Walmart. I walk into Walmart every week after working out at the gym. I think she mostly checks out my muscular physique. So, I initially caught her attention without using any pheros. > > However, one day, just for the heck of it I tried one spray of The Edge. She gave me a brief deer-in-headlights look on that day, but Iā€™m positive that I donā€™t need pheromones to get her looking in my direction. > > Well, thanks for your opinion. I asked another girl if she thought a girl who exposed her stomach was an IOI and she agrees. She thinks itā€™s an ā€œobviousā€ indicator. šŸ™‚ Ramon, the next time she does that just LICK her belly button, thatā€™s a killer IOI on your part šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![Jonas\_finn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonas_finn/32/1298_2.png) [@Jonas\_finn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jonas_finn)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2014, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/352 "2014-04-25T19:29:36Z")
So what is my friend gf indicating when she is very nervous when iā€™m around, she donā€™t look at me except when iā€™m looking somewhere else she really quickly look at me. She tend to move her body and hands continually ā€œside to sideā€ like super nervous or anguished. And this happens when i talking to my friend not to her. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2014, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/353 "2014-04-26T01:22:32Z")
> [@Jonas\_finn](#): > > So what is my friend gf indicating when she is very nervous when iā€™m around, she donā€™t look at me except when iā€™m looking somewhere else she really quickly look at me. She tend to move her body and hands continually ā€œside to sideā€ like super nervous or anguished. And this happens when i talking to my friend not to her. That sounds shifty/uncomfortable/insecure/out of place. If this is happening when you are wearing mones, then it could well be a sign of OD. Esp if overt none or more severe status products are involved. Also, does she display any grooming gestures? That could be a sign sheā€™s feeling that she doesnā€™t belong or sheā€™s not up to/out of her depth with the situation - Which would lean things towards an OD on status to me. What are you wearing around her? If this is happening without mones, then Iā€™d be doubly concerned. ---
**Author:** ![Jonas\_finn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonas_finn/32/1298_2.png) [@Jonas\_finn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jonas_finn)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2014, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/354 "2014-04-26T05:34:00Z")
There is no moneys involved. Iā€™m not sure about grooming gestures, iā€™m not always paying attension what she doing. Only hairplay she does is putting her hair over her right ear, that happens every time. since my puberty start i have notice my presence cause nervous and piss off effect girls age range 16-30, especially indoors.. They donā€™t always even know iā€™m there and i saw things escalate into more aggressive.. In another hand i get approached by 40-50 mature womens, asked to come dance with them etc.. Could i just produce so much mones that itā€™s OD most of younger women? I havent notice OD with tuth or IJ yet. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2014, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/355 "2014-04-26T13:55:40Z")
At 22, yes it is quite possible you are still putting-out a substantial amount of Androstenone naturally - Which could well account for much of what you describe. In that case, it might be time to experiment with some socials in order to moderate/round-out your signature and see if that improves matters around younger women and your GF. šŸ™‚ And keep a stealthy eye-out for grooming gestures but if they are absent, then yes it would tilt the balance towards None to me. In normal situations that would lean more towards the edgy/fidgety/uncomfortable/avoidant body language to me, although it would get better in more sexual/uninhibited moods. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2014, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/356 "2014-04-26T20:52:12Z")
> [@CelticPrince](#): > > Which brings me to the thong. Girls know if their undies are showing. They just do. Its like undie radar or something. If she is showing it to you, she wants you to see it, and it is a hit. As a girl, I can tell you that this is not true. If a girl specifically pulled out her underwear, then yes, she would know if it is showing. But underwear naturally rides up over time, unless you consciously think to check if your clothes need straightening. Thongs ride up the most. If a girl has just been sitting or squatting down or something, the underwear is probably going to show, unless she thinks about it and fixes it. But if she is preoccupied or just doesnā€™t think of it, then it will stay showing until she realizes. This has happened to me many times. It doesnā€™t always mean sheā€™s flaunting her panties to you. If a girl is intentionally flaunting her panties to you, it may be a decent indicator that she lacks class. ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2014, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/357 "2014-04-27T01:43:07Z")
Miss Dragon, yeah I guess Iā€™m not talking about the casual top of your undies peeking out when you bend over girl. But we all know the gals that have the bare midriff, and itā€™s hanging out all night, even when sheā€™s with her girls. Itā€™s like sheā€™s flying the flagā€¦showing the colors šŸ˜‰ Go team! Itā€™s like anything, a little goes a long way, and a lot just looks like your trying too hard. Again, I donā€™t want to be misunderstood, I like the thong. Super sexy. But hanging it out there as a strategy just seems kind of desperate. Yes? ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2014, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/358 "2014-04-27T03:26:06Z")
> [@CelticPrince](#): > > But hanging it out there as a strategy just seems kind of desperate. Yes? Quite agreed. ---
**Author:** ![UberDoober](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/uberdoober/32/1820_2.png) [@UberDoober](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/UberDoober)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2014, 6:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/359 "2014-05-08T18:59:53Z")
Iā€™ve never read through every page of this, but, itā€™s not really as simple as a few commonly known reactions. I know a few super hot girls and I know for a fact that theyā€™re interested in me (theyā€™ve asked their friends about me and let them know)ā€¦but have anxiety problems (visibly acting nervous, in a trance like state, fidgety, shy, no eye contact, doesnā€™t communicate, leaves the scene asap to ā€œescapeā€ the situation) when Iā€™m around them, but, with their friends they act normal. Anxiety is a tricky mofo to figure out and to deal with. Oh yeah, I might add that I also have it, so I deal with the same issues. It sucks having it. Meds are not the answer either. ---
**Author:** ![russmatthess](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e0b2c6/32.png) [@russmatthess](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/russmatthess)\ **Post date:** [May 14, 2014, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/360 "2014-05-14T21:36:48Z")
> [@itwow](#): > > **1. Do initiate flirtation with people of roughly the same level of attractiveness as yourself?** > > This will give you the best chance of compatibility. Most successful marriages and long-term relationships are between partners of more or less equal good looks. There is some leeway, of course, and other qualities are also important, but statistically, relationships where one partner is much more attractive than the other tend to be less successful. Studies have shown that the more evenly matched partners are in their attractiveness, the more likely they are to stay together. > > But evaluating your own attractiveness may be difficult. Research has shown that many women have a poor body-image, and often underestimate their attractiveness. Some recent studies indicate, for example, that up to 80% of adult women believe that they are too fat, and try to achieve a figure that is around two sizes smaller than the body-size men find most desirable. If you are female, the odds are that you are more attractive than you think, so try flirting with some better-looking men. > > Men generally tend to be less critical of their own physical appearance than women. This is partly because standards of beauty for males are much less rigid than for females, and a wider variety of shapes and features are considered attractive. But it must be said that some men are also inclined to overestimate their attractiveness. If you are a more honest male, and do not consider yourself good-looking, remember that most men lack expertise in the subtleties of social interaction, so polishing up your flirting skills could give you the edge over a more attractive rival. Why am I having a hard time swallowing this horse pill of advice? What it is saying to me is that if your genetics did not grant you attractive looks and physique then you are barred from flirting with women who have similar looks? So ugly people have to flirt ugly and fatties have to stay in the fatty realm? I donā€™t buy it. I have seen way too many big guys with great wordplay generate interest and obtain women who many say are ā€œout of their leagueā€ a term I despise for the record. Who the hell is anyone to judge who is in my league? Its an insult really alluding to the fact that a person is not good enough to communicate with another based on genetic predispositions. I donā€™t accept this line of thinking. If I am reading it wrong then by all means someone educate me as I am always open to learning from different points of view. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=17) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=19)