# How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List" **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 15, 2008, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333 "2008-01-15T23:07:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 19
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 8:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/361 "2014-05-15T08:05:58Z")
I must agree with you. I don’t believe in “leagues” any more. There are people who are attracted to others only based on physical appearance, but that is certainly not the only way to attract someone. There are many examples in my life of guys that I’ve met who were absolutely gorgeous, but then when I got to know them, their inner ugliness was so profound that I was turned off by the sight of them. Then there have been other guys that weren’t particularly appealing by sight alone, but they had a fantastic sense of style, or a radiant kindness, or an amazing sense of humor, or something else that drew me in. An awkward-looking guy can easily turn that supposed disadvantage into something endearing if he embraces who he is, projects the best qualities of himself, and does so with confidence. Confidence is the most important weapon any man can ever wield. I don’t mean cockiness, I mean self-assuredness. The person you are is the person you decide to be. If you don’t like who you are, then decide to be something else. People see you for who you tell them you are. When people meet you for the first time, they see what you show them. They don’t know anything else unless you tell them something else. The same goes for people who already know you, but the difference is that it may take a bit of reinforcement over time for those people to change their mental picture of you. But it can be done. I know this, because I’ve done it. ---
**Author:** ![Jonas\_finn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jonas_finn/32/1298_2.png) [@Jonas\_finn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jonas_finn)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2014, 11:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/362 "2014-05-15T11:29:03Z")
We have three sense we use for tell if someone is attractive. **1**. Vision (Eyes, they tell us if someones physical appearance (how they act and look in different situations) is attractive or not) **2**. Hearing (Ears, they tell us if someone voice is pleasant or he/she has interesting topics talk about what make us attracted) **3**. Smell (Nose, it tell us if someone smell good or not and it’s pathway for pheromones) Everyone react individual every of those signals and thats why someones are not respond any pheromone because they have problem transporting feromones from nose to brain or brains has prioritized it less important compared to those 2 sense. If we get blind we still have ears and nose. If someone says right words we feel attraction and if someone has right pheromones we feel attraction. I would add touch too but it’s more important when you are blind and deaf. My point is that pretty much always we have something we can use for feel attraction for other people and pheromones are just one of those. > [@](#): > > Life finds a way - Jeff goldblum 😉 ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2014, 4:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/363 "2014-05-24T04:06:51Z")
About 3 weeks ago I moved into a new upscale apartment complex. A lady who lives four rooms away from my new place stopped me and made some idle chat. One of the very first things she told me was that she was divorced. Does anyone think that is an IOI? I was not wearing any pheros on that day, and I did not detect that she was attracted to me (not that I would know anyways). She did ask for my name after our brief talk. But anyways, what do ya’ll think if a gal tells a dude that she is divorced? possible IOI? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2014, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/364 "2014-05-24T21:18:41Z")
That alone is not an IOI. Divorcees sometimes feel like they might be judged or speculated upon based on their life situation. So they sometimes feel the need to be upfront about it in order to avoid uncomfortable questions later on. Of course she asked you for your name. You had just held a conversation, and you are neighbors. If there were no other IOI’s, this sounds like just a friendly interaction. ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [May 25, 2014, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/365 "2014-05-25T01:23:16Z")
> [@Miss\_Dragon](#): > > That alone is not an IOI. Divorcees sometimes feel like they might be judged or speculated upon based on their life situation. So they sometimes feel the need to be upfront about it in order to avoid uncomfortable questions later on. > > Of course she asked you for your name. You had just held a conversation, and you are neighbors. > > If there were no other IOI’s, this sounds like just a friendly interaction. Okay. I just thought it was weird because this was the first time that a woman approached me and mentioned her divorce very early in the conversation. She also seemed to try hard to start up a chat by seeming to pause and wait for me to cross her path. Ah well, I suppose we can label this as “just a friendly interaction”. 8) ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2014, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/366 "2014-05-26T20:16:35Z")
Hi Ramon, Normally I would agree with what Miss Dragon said, but I have to disagree on this one because it was the first time you met her. It sounds like she instigated everything, she came over to talk to you, she volunteered that she was divorced (available), she asked you for your name. Etc. I agree with Miss Dragon if this was the second time you met her or if it was at a party where you had an extended conversation, or some other such thing. I think she wanted you to know she was not attached, she wanted to know your name, and yes, I think it was an IOI in this case. Why dont you find out. You initiate next time you see her. Ask her out for coffee or something mellow and see how she reacts. But I may be wrong, I often am 😉 ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/367 "2014-05-27T01:41:49Z")
> [@CelticPrince](#): > > It sounds like she instigated everything, she came over to talk to you, she volunteered that she was divorced (available), she asked you for your name. Etc. I agree with Miss Dragon if this was the second time you met her or if it was at a party where you had an extended conversation, or some other such thing. I think she wanted you to know she was not attached, she wanted to know your name, and yes, I think it was an IOI in this case. I should have told Miss Dragon all the facts in my original posting. I forgot to mention the fact that this girl seemed to pause and wait for me as I walked past her apartment. As we got close to each other I tried to let her pass first and I said, “After you!” The girl then replied, “Oh no, you go first”. As I started to walk by her this was when she initiated a conversation. I don’t remember the exact conversation, but I do remember she mentioned her divorce extremely early in the conversation. And yes, this was the first time that we ever talked. After we talked a bit about our jobs and what we do for a living, I slowly started to walk away (assuming that she probably had better things to do). Just as I was leaving she said “My name is Clarissa. What’s yours?” I then told her my name and we parted ways. During our conversation, I didn’t notice any blushing, hair twirling, or obvious IOI’s. It seemed like a mundane friendly interaction to me. But anyways, thanks your input. We shall see if I can muster up the courage to ask her out (or in), hahaha. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![CelticPrince](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/celticprince/32/397_2.png) [@CelticPrince](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CelticPrince)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 2:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/368 "2014-05-27T02:01:20Z")
Yeah, now im positive. Thats a hit Bro..gals dont just volunteer that info (divorced) on random first encounters on the street. ---
**Author:** ![ocantu1987](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/f04885/32.png) [@ocantu1987](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ocantu1987)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 2:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/369 "2014-05-27T02:06:44Z")
I wonder if this is a hit or phero caused blunder. I talked this cute girl, I asked her how old she was and she quickly said 21, then she immediately took it back and said she was 23 hmmm, that was very odd. I was wearing 1x ammo, 2x shine lol ---
**Author:** ![ceenote9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ceenote9/32/2362_2.png) [@ceenote9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ceenote9)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 3:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/370 "2014-05-27T03:42:53Z")
@ ramon 69: Better be careful dating women that live in your building. Especially if she’s four rooms away. It could get ugly. It’s best to just be friends with her and date other women. ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 4:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/371 "2014-05-27T04:13:49Z")
> [@ceenote9](#): > > @ ramon 69: Better be careful dating women that live in your building. Especially if she’s four rooms away. It could get ugly. It’s best to just be friends with her and date other women. This isn’t the type of gal who I envision as being compatible with me for lots of reasons. I’m not expecting to “date” this gal at all. If anything, I think she probably just wants a dude to play around with for a little bit, nothing more. She lives by herself and has no kids, from what I can see. She’s probably just a lonely gal looking for some guy fun. What kind of ugliness is possible if we go too far?? ---
**Author:** ![ceenote9](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ceenote9/32/2362_2.png) [@ceenote9](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ceenote9)\ **Post date:** [May 27, 2014, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/372 "2014-05-27T09:23:40Z")
> [@ramon\_69](#): > > She’s probably just a lonely gal looking for some guy fun. > > What kind of ugliness is possible if we go too far?? Well if she’s lonely then she could get easily attached. She just met you and she already told you she’s divorced. Apparently she doesn’t have any male company. If you fool around with her and decide not to make it LTR and have other women over then she can be resentful. But don’t take my word for it. Go ahead and do it at your own risk. But I would wait to see if she has other guys come visit. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2014, 8:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/373 "2014-06-12T08:05:28Z")
> [@ramon\_69](#): > > About 3 weeks ago I moved into a new upscale apartment complex. A lady who lives four rooms away from my new place stopped me and made some idle chat. One of the very first things she told me was that she was divorced. Does anyone think that is an IOI? > > I was not wearing any pheros on that day, and I did not detect that she was attracted to me (not that I would know anyways). She did ask for my name after our brief talk. But anyways, what do ya’ll think if a gal tells a dude that she is divorced? possible IOI? > > Thanks Simply not an IOI. (at least sexual IOI) Maybe its her way of introducing herself to new neighbors. Maybe she’s just informing you the fact that she is divorced. The place where this conversation happened is not a good place for a lady to express an IOI, unless she’s a little “scratchy” at that time. Know your new place first. Interact with the new neighbors. And you will see, as you know them, you will slowly understand their different gestures, and conversation manners. And maybe then, you can finally read them if they’re really hinting an IOI to you.😃 ---
**Author:** ![TheAttractor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theattractor/32/575_2.png) [@TheAttractor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheAttractor)\ **Post date:** [June 12, 2014, 12:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/374 "2014-06-12T12:24:23Z")
> [@ceenote9](#): > > Well if she’s lonely then she could get easily attached. She just met you and she already told you she’s divorced. Apparently she doesn’t have any male company. If you fool around with her and decide not to make it LTR and have other women over then she can be resentful. I agree with ceenote9 here. It’s best to have some geographic distance with the women you “just fool around with”. Buildingcest (sex with women in your building) is never a good idea, despite the convenience of not having to change into your street clothes when she invites you over. Even college students, known for frequently hooking up, sometimes avoid sexual encounters with people on their dorm floor. It can go badly for many reasons: she wants a relationship, and you don’t; she wants to get together more often than you do; you kept something from her, and she found out; or a simple case of sexual incompatibility. If it does badly, she will know where you live, where you park your car, and when you’re away from home. If she has a conscience, it’ll just be the awkwardness of running into her. If not, well, then, hell has no fury like a woman scorned. ---
**Author:** ![bNatural](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ec9cab/32.png) [@bNatural](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bNatural)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2014, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/375 "2014-06-17T16:16:58Z")
Was at a pool hall/bar/night club the other day to support a friend of mine who got a gig there as a DJ for the night. His girlfriend and I got acquainted a few weeks earlier and we were in the private booth (since my friend was the DJ). The entire night she’s cuddling up to me, taking my hand and pulling me onto the dance floor, staying very close to me, etc. At one point, my friend joking said on the mic. “Get yo hands off my woman!” At which point she grabbed me hand and had me pretty much grope her. She’s telling me about some relationship problems they’re having and I, having drank a tad, was reassuring her and telling her how nice she looks and whatnot; at which point she responds with telling me how nice I am and how she wishes her boyfriend would say stuff like that to her. Do you think she’s just a tad frustrated with what’s going on, looking for a friend, and is really comfortable with me or is she’s actually interested and hitting on me while she has a boyfriend? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2014, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/376 "2014-06-17T16:24:54Z")
If she’s talking relationships and you are complementing her beauty, then it sounds more like a ticket to the friendzone or simple attention seeking to me - esp if she’s using you to wind-up her BF. I’d hazard a guess she likes a bit of conflict/tension in a relationship and he’s not giving her enough in other ways, so she’s shitstirring. One of my ex’s used to do similar stuff. ---
**Author:** ![bNatural](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ec9cab/32.png) [@bNatural](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bNatural)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2014, 4:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/377 "2014-06-17T16:28:19Z")
I was thinking the same thing. I have no problems being her friend, just don’t want to cause any issues for my friend =/ ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2014, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/378 "2014-06-17T23:23:28Z")
> [@bNatural](#): > > I was thinking the same thing. > I have no problems being her friend, just don’t want to cause any issues for my friend =/ After this realization, action should follow. You should go have a man to man chat with your friend and apologize for whatever you did. Its not hard. After all, what you did is to simply assure the girl she’s a good looking bitch, and you’re drunk. Your responses to the girl’s moves that night are natural though. Men are born conquerors. But always think before you act. Ask yourself always before doing something. How will people view your actions? How will they react to it? Apparently, your friend saw it and half-jokingly (because youre his friend) reminded you of your place. You were there to support your friend and not his girl. Now by asking that question you posted above, you are hoping that someone in the forum might tell you that she’s hitting on you. But sorry man, mobo is correct. Youve been played. Now choose your side. Youre for the girl? Or for your friend? I should ask, did all this happen with pheros on you? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![cjw255](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cjw255](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cjw255)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2014, 4:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/379 "2014-06-28T04:48:15Z")
https://www.youtube.com/embed/gT7j0RUSFqY?feature=oembed&wmode=opaque ---
**Author:** ![ramon\_69](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ramon_69/32/490_2.png) [@ramon\_69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ramon_69)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2014, 11:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/380 "2014-09-21T11:14:52Z")
These might be some indicators of interest, but you be the judge… So, I noticed this blonde girl kind of looking at me when I walked into Costco. When I looked back I noticed that she went to her girlfriend, and then they were BOTH looking at me. I’m guessing that the blonde told her friend “Check him out” or something like that. I believe that is an IOI, when a girl (seemingly) asks her girlfriend for her opinion about another guy, and they both size up the man. I went back to Costco on the following week. As I was walking towards the blonde’s cash register, as I was maybe 25 yards away from her, I noticed the blonde briefly stepped away from her cash register and let her hair out of her tie-up bun. She then approached one of her male co-workers and chatted with him loudly for a bit. I think she said “I can’t believe that BULLSHIT!” or something similar. I guess they were talking about work. Since the blonde was away from her register for a bit, I decided to walk to another cashier and pay for my stuff. I then left the store. Before exiting the store, I looked back at the blonde and she was definitely looking my way. What do you think about the blonde’s decision to let down her hair, out of the hair bun, and then her action of walking over and chatting loudly with another co-worker when she thought I was walking towards her cash register? IOI or not? I’m just curious what ya’ll think. Thank you. (BTW, I wasn’t wearing any cologne or pheromones on any of these occasions that I walked into Costco) [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=18) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=20)