# How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You -- The Master "Indicators of Interest List" **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 15, 2008, 11:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333 "2008-01-15T23:07:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 9
**Author:** ![killersharks](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/7feea3/32.png) [@killersharks](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/killersharks)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/161 "2010-07-10T02:09:39Z")
Steve, I didn’t do much. I wanted to be REALLY sure first. I extended out my elbow and tried to test if she would pull away if I rubbed elbows with her. She didn’t pull away when we bumped. Other than that, I got a bit closer in her face, smiled and made eye contact. I didn’t look away while making eye contact and waited for her to look away first. And Twogunz, what’s the typical duration for ‘exposing’ someone to the mones for a while? Does the effectiveness of the mones make a difference if I sprayed it an hour prior to exposing her to the mones or if I sprayed it 15 mins before meeting her? Appreciate both your replies. ---
**Author:** ![Twogunz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4da419/32.png) [@Twogunz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Twogunz)\ **Post date:** [July 10, 2010, 10:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/162 "2010-07-10T10:17:00Z")
I have found that one half hour before i go into a large open space such as a Gym or restaurant. If the location is more intimate like a apartment, house or bedroom, then I want to make sure the mones are all settled in and I dont smell like a french whorehouse. In which case i put them on 45-60 minutes before action starts. usually by the time i put themm on, and drive to where i have to get, everything is settled down and in good form. You have to experiment a but as everyones body chemistry is a bit different. Mine is more alkali because i take Coral calcium every day . My coleagues is more acid he does not take it. I found being Alkali there is a better dispersal than when i was acidic. What half the fun is using mones is experiomenting, knowing what is going on and then watching for the signs. The maibnstay in any moners arsenal should be IH, IO, A314, TUTH and AMMO. these are the basic, They will make life easier for you. ---
**Author:** ![Twogunz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/4da419/32.png) [@Twogunz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Twogunz)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2010, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/163 "2010-07-15T15:15:45Z")
if you are a young fella you can simply tell her you think she is “sick” or kewl, or cool: that in itself says tons and poses little threat. Everything else flows from tehre. Hwen doing that wear some IO, and some IH 2 sprays IO, one spray IH. Keep it light and easy dont push it will all happen soon enough ---
**Author:** ![mikeb4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeb4/32/1254_2.png) [@mikeb4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikeb4)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2010, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/164 "2010-07-15T23:27:59Z")
I haven’t been here in awhile but I’ve been working at with a place that also has a pool and these two girls come in.. One is already interested in my friend but the other girl it’s confusing since it’s her first time seeing me but my 4th day of working out.. So anyways they were both talking and I was sitting near the wall kinda diagonally across from my friend and while she was talking to him her eyes would go from talking to him to looking at him to me then back to him… Not sure if it was because she was talking openly.. but I noticed not much longer later (I was sitting behind the desk island) she was on the other side of it but not much longer later she came around the desk where I was to look on the computer at some website I don’t know if it’s related or she was just interested in the site. Now I did not keep count of how many times she looked but I know it’s a little over 5 times.. they were quick glances. ---
**Author:** ![Tommy\_Vercetti](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/91b2a8/32.png) [@Tommy\_Vercetti](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tommy_Vercetti)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2010, 2:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/165 "2010-07-25T14:08:22Z")
One girl on the bus the other day began smelling her hair and playing with it while looking at me maybe I found my sweet spot of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) or her sweet spot 😃 Then Ive noticing different behaviors on different girls -Touchin her chest close to the neck passing her hand -Confusing looking everywhere like trapped in a spell :o ---
**Author:** ![Mick1675](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/34f0e0/32.png) [@Mick1675](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mick1675)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2010, 2:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/166 "2010-07-27T02:33:34Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > That’s ma fav! Today a cute coed walked by me with most her panties in plain view. Her mini-shirt had snagged on her purse. I almost suggested she remove the skirt so I could view the remaining 10% but what the hay. > > Also, over the years, many skirt wearing coeds have visited my class or office commando, and afforded a fine view of their dainties. One stood in my office doorway and continually zipped and unzipped her hip hugger jeans, even when faculty and students were walking by. She told me she arrived commando just for me. After that I cut way back on NPA and The Edge. Works way too well… > > This is one also the true shit. Zipper girl, although only 22, oft smiled so hard I was afraid she might injure herself or be permanently creased… its posts like this that influence me 😛 ---
**Author:** ![extremetool](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extremetool/32/1887_2.png) [@extremetool](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extremetool)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2010, 4:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/167 "2010-07-29T04:10:27Z")
i look for this 1- She’s “in your face” Suddenly, you’ll become aware of her presence everywhere – she “just happens” to show up wherever you hang out; you keep passing her in the hallway at work; she “accidentally” bumps into you; she maneuvers to stand close to you at a club. What she’s doing is trying to get you to notice her and giving you an opportunity to make the first move. The problem with this female strategy is that a lot of guys are completely oblivious to it and consequently throw away a lot of chances to hook up. Men are direct; women are indirect. So, next time a woman starts appearing regularly in your path, be aware that she’s likely doing it on purpose. 2- She has all the right moves A lot of people say that bodies can’t lie. Nature has programmed humans with a complex set of non-verbal flirting signals that just flow freely when people are interested in someone. These range from the widening of the iris when looking at the object of desire to more overt displays such as smiling or touching. Here are a few body-language cues to watch out for: She points in your direction with her leg, foot or shoulders. She leans toward you while talking. She plays with or tosses her hair. She fidgets with a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or strokes the stem of her glass. She keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks. She mirrors your body movements (for example, if you put your hand on the table, she quickly does the same). She smiling when you check her out. If you become aware of a cluster of these signals, you can almost be sure that she’s giving you the green light for romance. 3- She’s never too busy This is a cardinal rule in the dating game: If a woman is interested in going out with you, she will make herself available . This means that she will give you her work number or e-mail address, she will quickly answer or return your call and she will accept your invitation to get together – and if she’s busy on the day you specify, she will say something like, “Well, I can’t this Saturday, but next Saturday would be fine, if that’s OK.” You’ll never hear from an interested woman things like, “I’m really busy right now,” or “Let me check my schedule,” or “I just got out of a bad relationship, so I’m all mixed up about men.” Even if she’s currently actively dating someone else, she will keep the lines of communication open with you for the possibility of future contact. 4- She’s curious about you A woman who’s interested in you wants to know everything about you (so she can talk about you with her girlfriends). She will quiz you about your family, your background, and your tastes in such things as food, music and movies. Very often, what she’s doing is trying to catalog your interests so that she can mimic your likes and dislikes in order to bond with you – if you’re crazy about hot air ballooning, suddenly, she is too. 5- She uses “The Probe” on you “The Probe” is the female tool used for ascertaining a man’s financial resources. The Probe seems like a series of casual questions, but behind it is a ruthless calculator that’s ticking away. When a woman first meets a man that she might be interested in dating, she will quiz him on his job, where he lives and what kind of car he drives, all within the confines of a natural conversation. If you give the “right” answers, then the flirting signals will follow; but if you aren’t up to her “standards,” she’s gone in a cloud of dust. 6- She “futures” you An interested woman is wide open for any future plans with you. In fact, she will often say something like, “Oh… you like bowling, too? We should do that some time.” When she’s operating in this mode, make no mistake about it – she wants you to ask her out. 7- She’s on pins and needles If she’s really interested, she’ll be as nervous as a cat around you, especially if you’re clueless about reading her signals. Of course, she could be just a normally shy person, so watch how she interacts with others – if she’s only fidgety around you, then she’s probably thinking romance. 8- She’s jealous of other women you talk to She has the green-eyed monster on her back. An interested woman will watch her competition like a hawk (and with talons bared). So, if you notice her steaming just because you’re joking around with other women, you can be sure that she wants you to be more than just her friend. ---
**Author:** ![keen\_observer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/keen_observer/32/1432_2.png) [@keen\_observer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/keen_observer)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2010, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/168 "2010-07-30T01:31:46Z")
IMO, that was a hell of an insightful lesson you have given extremetool. I’ve seen and read some of that stuff before, but you really laid it out wonderfully—my hat’s off to you! Too bad many guys don’t have a clue as to what women are thinking and doing but that can be remedied by doing a little research on how the fairer sex operates—when it comes to men and romance. Many young guys don’t take the time to properly wise themselves to the game but often, with time & maturity—they eventually get it.😃 I know it took me years to learn the stuff I know about women and unfortunately, I learned much the “hard way”, lol.😛 Anyways, great thread that I enjoyed very much. Keep up the good work. Keen Observer. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfishgrin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfishgrin/32/1082_2.png) [@Wolfishgrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfishgrin)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2010, 3:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/169 "2010-08-01T15:56:15Z")
> [@extremetool](#): > > She leans toward you while talking. > She plays with or tosses her hair. > She keeps her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks. > She mirrors your body movements (for example, if you put your hand on the table, she quickly does the same). > She smiling when you check her out. > She’s jealous of other women you talk to > She has the green-eyed monster on her back. An interested woman will watch her competition like a hawk (and with talons bared). So, if you notice her steaming just because you’re joking around with other women, you can be sure that she wants you to be more than just her friend. Lemme tell you… Never get to flirting with all three hot hostesses at work. When all three are working together especially… They have all displayed the above IOI’s. Of late, it’s been that last one quite a bit. Last night the other two really did a cold-shoulder number on me after I was talking with the cutest (she’s at least a nine) after an awkward silent week with her. ---
**Author:** ![PheroJack](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pherojack/32/527_2.png) [@PheroJack](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroJack)\ **Post date:** [August 11, 2010, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/170 "2010-08-11T03:31:04Z")
nice .. and helpful 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Wolfishgrin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfishgrin/32/1082_2.png) [@Wolfishgrin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfishgrin)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2010, 8:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/171 "2010-08-19T20:55:48Z")
Another is if the girl asks you to catch her and she jumps at you high… Forcing you to catch her or she would crack her head open on the ground. Then if she reaches for your hand while you’re chilling with a bunch of people in your car… Yep. She takes off her shirt to go swimming with you, and you have it from a good source (like her current BF) she’s not normally that forward with people. She compliments you on things. Like if she keeps telling you that you have the best music collection she’s ever heard and wants to copy all of it for herself… Oh, if she asks you out to watch a meteor shower at four in the morning. Can’t forget that one. Lol! ---
**Author:** ![Gotchaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@Gotchaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gotchaz)\ **Post date:** [September 17, 2010, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/172 "2010-09-17T20:16:18Z")
- **Yawning** : sudden yawning as if tired or very relaxed, and then resume the other signs of arousal - **Tongue & Lip Action** : Lots of extending tongues and licking lips, especially as after initial exposure (in as little as 5 seconds) - **Biting Lips:** Curling lips inward and tightly due to intense feelings - **Hair Flipping, Brushing, and Tossing:** Spontaneous and wild brushing and flipping of the hair - **Crossing Legs:** Frequent crossing and uncrossing of legs back and forth - **Opened Legs:** Sitting with legs wide open or leaning far forward on the seat - **Squeezed Legs:** Bringing the legs together suddenly and squeezing them shut - **Offset Butts:** Butts shifted excessively to one side of the seat - **Leg Twitching:** Legs and hips/butt twitching suddenly - **Body Twitching:** Body flinches and twitches suddenly (jolts of intense sensations) - **Head Rolling:** Head leaning far back and eyes closed, as if in a sexually intense, relaxed position - **Body Stretching:** Extending the whole body out and stretching - **Skin Flush:** The face, chest or skin become flushed and very red (blushing to outright lobster red) - **Sighing & Deep Breathing:** Heavy breathing as if overwhelmed by intense sensations - **Fluttering Eyes:** Eyes roll back and/or flutter wildly - **Fiddling:** Playing with jewelry or clothing or fiddling their fingers nonstop to distract attention - **Bags on Laps:** Use of bags to cover stirring sensations and reactions in the crotch area - **Make Up:** Suddenly feels the need to put on make up or perfume - **Flexing the Body:** Double handed grabbing of or leaning back from poles in flagrant ways - **Busy Legs:** Rocking back and forth, changing leg stances nonstop, hopping back & forth on legs - **Nervous Legs:** Rocking crossed legs while sitting, standing on toes, shaking up and down - **Supressed Smiles & Grins:** Trying to shyly conceal arousal with a suppressed grin 🙂 - **Running Away:** Several subjects have gotten up from seats or walked away after too much excitement and arousal was built up! - **Thermogenesis** : The subject generates a lot of heat from excitement, and starts removing or loosening layers of clothing to compensate - **Looking Up & Behind:** Really bizarre reaction - women will look up and behind them, as if someone was talking to them from there - **The Blank Stare:** Becoming subdued and quiet suddenly, looking down or forward - **Talking to Oneself:** This is when the subject starts talking to herself as if in disbelief that she is getting so horny 😉 - **Burning the VNO:** This is probably one of the most unusual effects - Some subjects will exhibit a suddenly burning or rushing sensation in part of their nose, yet it has nothing to do with smell. They react suddenly for a few seconds, and then everything is normal again except for the building arousal of course … I think it’s somehow affecting some part of the nose that’s sensitive to pheromones. ] So basically if she does anything she’s pretty much interested LOL. Here’s the real deal, it’s easy. When you see a girl if she looks down, she is interested and if she looks straight ahead she’s unsure, if she looks up she has no interest what so ever. That is all 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![millwark](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/millwark/32/560_2.png) [@millwark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/millwark)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2010, 1:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/173 "2010-11-12T01:49:57Z")
> [@](#): > > How to Tell a Woman is Interested In You – The Master “Indicators of Interest List” Uhhhhh…when my wife sneaks up behind me and tells me how delish I smell and look and then leads me to the bedroom. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![Reborn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reborn/32/1561_2.png) [@Reborn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Reborn)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2010, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/174 "2010-11-12T02:34:39Z")
Should add a few of these to your post 🙂 IOI’s that I look for: Proximity: closer they get, more interested they are. =P Can even end up on your lap. Self-grooming Scratching Face Toying with hair Giving attention Vibing with you (keeps the conversation going, if you stop talking and she tries to start it again, often with the word so…, that’s an IOI) Giggling Offering value Touching You Showing Appreciation Asking Questions Leaning In Facing You Trying to Impress Allows Escalation (but it’s not the end of the world if your kiss gets rejected. girls aren’t like guys, they WANT you to try again, in my experience, unless of course there’s NO attraction, then the rejection can be harsh and you’ll know it when you see it) A Few DOI’s (indicators of disinterest): Avoidance Impatience Crosses Arms Hand Toss Rolls Off (leaves, walks away) Acknowledgment Breaking Rapport Disinterest (if it looks like it, it probably is) Pushes away (you’re trying to escalate or get physically close) Drops Conversation Leans Back Faces Away Disallows Frames (who you project yourself as, as well as other stoof) Gives resistance ---
**Author:** ![John\_Beck](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cab0a1/32.png) [@John\_Beck](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Beck)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2010, 6:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/175 "2010-11-18T18:56:31Z")
Question;A lady I know from local coffee shop(by sight)has started sitting at my usual table and started conversations,walking across local suprer market to give me a hug,while sitting at a local sports bar with her girl friends got out of her seat walked across the crowd and gave me a hug.Lately we’ve beeen talking much more..Is she just being friendly? ---
**Author:** ![keen\_observer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/keen_observer/32/1432_2.png) [@keen\_observer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/keen_observer)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2010, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/176 "2010-11-18T20:35:01Z")
> [@John\_Beck](#): > > Question;A lady I know from local coffee shop(by sight)has started sitting at my usual table and started conversations,walking across local suprer market to give me a hug,while sitting at a local sports bar with her girl friends got out of her seat walked > across the crowd and gave me a hug.Lately we’ve beeen talking much more..Is she just being friendly? John, I’m no expert concerning IOI but in my opinion, this woman’s behavior and actions appear to indicate that she is interested in getting to know you better. I would think that she’s being more than just “friendly” because she’s sat at your favorite coffee shop table uninvited and has gone out of her way to seek you out and give you hugs. The fact that she wants to engage you in conversation and the kino (hugs) she has used would indicate to me that she wants to perhaps move “things” along.😃 It would seem to me that now the ball is in your court. If you’re of the mind—take a chance and go for it—the worse that could happen if you’ve misread things is that she’d back off. Good luck whatever you do!🙂 ---
**Author:** ![fishdude](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/4bbf92/32.png) [@fishdude](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fishdude)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2010, 10:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/177 "2010-12-21T22:07:39Z")
As an aside, I turn off my flirt body language sensors off at work, act oblivious because I have had some heat in the past from flirting back. Some women like to get there ego stroked to see if a man is interested when in reality she never was. ---
**Author:** ![Dr\_Phail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_Phail](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dr_Phail)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/178 "2010-12-30T04:00:14Z")
This one girl who used to be interested in me, and now has a boyfriend, keeps on talking to me alot more while I’m over and laughing with me, and every single time I’m over she seems to mention how she wants to see her boyfriend. This may be coincidence, but what do you think? ---
**Author:** ![Gotchaz](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/35a633/32.png) [@Gotchaz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gotchaz)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 4:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/179 "2010-12-30T04:14:51Z")
Girls will mention their boyfriend for two reasons 1: she wants to let you know she is taken and for YOU to know that or 2: She is mentioning it to you to remind herself she has one so she doesn’t do anything silly because she’s attracted to you. Comes down to your relationship with her, usually number 1 you’ll know off that bat scince I find girls who are not interested will throw it in your face right away and not be all that playful. Gotta read between the lines. Juts my 2 cents ---
**Author:** ![Dr\_Phail](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7c8e57/32.png) [@Dr\_Phail](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dr_Phail)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333/180 "2010-12-30T05:09:32Z")
> [@Gotchaz](#): > > Girls will mention their boyfriend for two reasons 1: she wants to let you know she is taken and for YOU to know that or 2: She is mentioning it to you to remind herself she has one so she doesn’t do anything silly because she’s attracted to you. > > Comes down to your relationship with her, usually number 1 you’ll know off that bat scince I find girls who are not interested will throw it in your face right away and not be all that playful. > > Gotta read between the lines. Juts my 2 cents I almost forgot all of the cleavage shots she kept giving me today, and sticking her ass out towards me while doing things. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=8) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-a-woman-is-interested-in-you-the-master-indicators-of-interest-list/8333.md?page=10)