# How to tell she is hot,sexless,dateless or not . **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [December 18, 2007, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534 "2007-12-18T08:36:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Magister](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magister/32/1589_2.png) [@Magister](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Magister)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2007, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/1 "2007-12-18T08:36:40Z")
1: **Body Stance** : The flirting woman has her breasts thrust forward and her shoulders pulled back. One hand placed on a sexily jutting hip is a flirting signal for you to join her. Placing a hand on the back of a hip can also be a gesture to place emphasis on her tiny waist. Arching her spine into the shape of a displaying both her breasts and bottom is body language flirting, inviting you to check her out. A strongly sexual body language signal is when she starts to lean forward bringing her arms in closer to her body, pressing her breasts together and deepening her cleavage. Her fiddling with her neck jewellery invites you to look at her breasts. Playing with her necklace is a subconscious gesture to draw your eyes to her breasts a definite erotic signal to you that she is flirting is when she starts stroking her throat, neck or upper chest. The signal is even stronger if she combines the stroking with a neck arch. By tilting her head to show you more of her neck she is implying that she is starting to trust you. Throats and necks are “lovers zones”, places where no one else touches us. 2: **The Preening Starts** : Also known as ensuring that she is looking her best. Tucking in their tummies, standing up straighter, and pushing out their breasts are spontaneous and instantaneous gestures that women are interested. This will be followed by smoothing her skirt or dress, playing with hair and jeweler, and then disappearing to the ladies room for a once over. Adjusting and checking on appearances is a great sign of body language flirting. If you catch her checking out your butt when you are on the way to the bar, or she starts fixing her hair when you turn your back, you know she is interested sexually. 3: **Eyes**. The eyes say it all. A flirting woman will usually send 3 sidelong glances your way. You will get a second look to confirm they liked what they saw and a third if they are considering talking to you. **The 4 second scan**. We look at uninteresting people for 3 seconds or less. A definite sign of interest is when the girl keeps throwing 4 second gazes your way. **How the flirting woman breaks your gaze**. This is even more important than how she has been looking at you. If she looks to the side, or around the room, you have lost her interest. If her eyes drop to the floor before looking back up again to meet yours within 30 to 60 seconds you have a chance. Downcast eyes followed by a preening signal like playing with or tossing her hair indicates that she is liking what she is seeing. If you are looking at her and your eyes lock, a flirting woman will often raise her upper eyelids slightly and rapidly. This is a very subtle eye opening movement that is saying, ‘I am looking at you.’ **Zero eye communication means zero connection**. Time to move on to someone else. A raised eyebrow usually indicates a question of some sort. The more you look someone in the eye, the more attractive, confident and truthful you seem. 4: **Playing with her hair** : Running her fingers through her hair, fluffing her hair, and the strongest sign of body language flirting, tossing her hair, are all designed to show you she is available. 5: **Her Feet**. Feet are a great indicator of the flirting woman’s true feelings. Few people notice what they are doing with their feet subconsciously because they are so far away from our faces. This places foot language a long way up on the credibility scale. By pointing a foot towards you, the flirting woman is saying you are welcome to join her group. She is slightly defensive if she has one leg crossed over the other, but while one foot is still pointing at you, it is still looking okay. Once she uncrosses her legs and starts mirroring your foot position this is a better sign that she likes you. Her foot between your feet is an obvious sexual body language gesture. Better yet, if she should bend her knee and have it touching your knee or leg while you are both standing. These both suggest strong sexual flirting messages. 6: **Her Palms and Wrists** : Women will flash their wrist at someone they are interested in. While she is playing with her hair or fiddling with an earring, check to see if her wrist is turned to face you with her palm facing out. While she is flashing her wrist at you she is saying,’You can approach me’. 7: **Her Legs** : By sitting with her legs swung out to one side she is making an obvious attempt to make her legs look longer and herself good for whoever is watching. The more frequently she crosses and uncrosses her legs while facing you, the better your chances. The more thigh she is exposing the more likely it is that she is hot for you. While sitting, women often cross their legs to look sexy, ladylike or just to show them off. The higher she crosses her legs over her thighs, the stronger the sexual signal. If she is also smiling at you, showing eye contact and is resting one hand in her lap this is extremely strong sexual body language. Smoothing hands over her thighs is another common preening sign for women when they are in the company of someone they find sexually attractive. If you are in a barefoot situation, she will start to walk on tiptoe if she thinks attractive men are around. By doing this it makes her legs look longer, her body slimmer, and overall, she looks more feminine. 8: **Does she want more?** Towards the end of the encounter you can check out her intentions with this little test. Step towards her and then quickly step backwards. If she is interested, she will now step forwards to close the gap without even realizing she is doing it. The other trick to try is to lower your voice to a whisper. If she stays right where she is and shouts at you that she can’t hear you, then she is not going to be getting any closer. 9: **Does she want to kiss you?** If she is doing any of these then the answer is probably YES! **Licking her lips**. When faced with something arousing everyone licks his or her lips. Eating and drinking suggestively, sucking and licking fingers. All ways of advertising their talents. **Keeps touching her mouth**. Everyone’s lips become engorged when we get turned on, making us more conscious of them and more likely to play with them. Putting her head close to yours: This is nearly always an invitation to kiss. **Tilting her head** : Getting into position on a subconscious level. **What the Colour of her Clothes Say about Her** : Hot Pink: She wants to stand out from the crowd. Light Pink: Fragile. Navy Blue: Business suit. Light blue: Composed. Black: Stylish, chic and original. Red: She is happy to be the centre of attention and is not afraid of her feelings. Beige: Uncertain. White: Look at me. Good Luck. ---
**Author:** ![boss141](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbce88/32.png) [@boss141](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boss141)\ **Post date:** [December 18, 2007, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/2 "2007-12-18T09:23:45Z")
i love it, definitly adding this to my gaming knowledge ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2007, 10:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/3 "2007-12-20T22:51:03Z")
most, if not all of these are BS. Do not rely so much on these. Eye contact is the only sure thing. Take note ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2007, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/4 "2007-12-20T23:14:06Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > most, if not all of these are BS. > Do not rely so much on these. > Eye contact is the only sure thing. Take note Of what research is your response based from? ---
**Author:** ![z414a4d](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/z414a4d/32/1299_2.png) [@z414a4d](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/z414a4d)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2007, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/5 "2007-12-20T23:14:28Z")
For that matter, Magister, where is your post based off? ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2007, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/6 "2007-12-21T00:16:16Z")
I found this article on the web, as can anyone who googles a quote from it. Its copyright is held by Coco Swan. Are you Coco Swan? ---
**Author:** ![boss141](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bbce88/32.png) [@boss141](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/boss141)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2007, 1:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/7 "2007-12-21T01:55:41Z")
Magister’s post does have weight. I actually had a person come to my class who specializes in reading body language and analyzing handwritings for the state government. Just about everything Magister posts is in agreement with what the specialists talked about. You can tell what type of person someone is just by the movement of their body and the way their body (feet, shoulders, and head) are facing. ---
**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2007, 2:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/8 "2007-12-21T02:57:30Z")
Body Language is for real alright! Smn i kinda agree to the extent that when it comes to a girls interest or non-interest unless there is good eye contact all the other positive body language signals wont appear anyway.Therefore you could probably just focus on what the eyes are doing. Personally though i consider body language a fascinating science and well worth learning about. Great post Magister for risking copyright infringement just for us.Thank You, ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/9 "2007-12-23T00:08:22Z")
**What the Colour of her Clothes Say about Her:** > [@](#): > > **Hot Pink:** She wants to stand out from the crowd. Or she’s 10 years old and shops at Hello Kitty boutiques… > [@](#): > > L **ight Pink:** Fragile. Too much bleach? > [@](#): > > **Red:** She is happy to be the centre of attention and is not afraid of her feelings. Or it’s Christmas season. > [@](#): > > **Black:** Stylish, chic and original. Works as a stagehand or is into Goth. > [@](#): > > **Beige:** Uncertain. Shops at Anne Tayor too much. > [@](#): > > **White:** Look at me. Or is in the Navy… ---
**Author:** ![Ryan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryan/32/1528_2.png) [@Ryan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ryan)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/10 "2007-12-23T00:44:05Z")
> [@smn1234](#): > > most, if not all of these are BS. > Do not rely so much on these. > Eye contact is the only sure thing. Take note I agree with you there. I do think body language speaks louder than words, but the way this was written out I find it more amusing than useful. > [@](#): > > She is slightly defensive if she has one leg crossed over the other\*\*, but while one foot is still pointing at you, it is still looking okay.\*\* ![](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/a/a9660a8bdcc2c79819934745fd0a703f4c65b041.gif) ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 1:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/11 "2007-12-23T01:17:27Z")
This so needs a woman to give it the once-over. > [@](#): > > .1: **Body Stance** : The flirting woman has her breasts thrust forward and her shoulders pulled back. So does any woman out in public trying not to look like a sack of spuds. The opposite body language says to every sex pest in a five miles radius - Jump Me I’m No Trouble. > [@](#): > > One hand placed on a sexily jutting hip is a flirting signal for you to join her. Although paired with a pout or a raised eyebrow, chin on chest, it means I’m About To Issue Some Slappage. > [@](#): > > Placing a hand on the back of a hip can also be a gesture to place emphasis on her tiny waist. Arching her spine into the shape of a displaying both her breasts and bottom is body language flirting, inviting you to check her out. These are also dominance displays - specially when done by groups of girls at passing guys. > [@](#): > > A strongly sexual body language signal is when she starts to lean forward bringing her arms in closer to her body, pressing her breasts together and deepening her cleavage. Specially if she then looks away for quite some time so you can get an eyeful ‘without her knowing’. > [@](#): > > Her fiddling with her neck jewellery invites you to look at her breasts. Huh? I do it when I’m thinking, or when my cleavage is showing too much considering who I’m talking to. > [@](#): > > Playing with her necklace is a subconscious gesture to draw your eyes to her breasts Not round here its not. > [@](#): > > a definite erotic signal to you that she is flirting is when she starts stroking her throat, neck or upper chest. The signal is even stronger if she combines the stroking with a neck arch. By tilting her head to show you more of her neck she is implying that she is starting to trust you. Throats and necks are “lovers zones”, places where no one else touches us. All quite true. > [@](#): > > 2: **The Preening Starts** : Also known as ensuring that she is looking her best. Tucking in their tummies, standing up straighter, and pushing out their breasts are spontaneous and instantaneous gestures that women are interested. No. They are signs a woman is interested in the way she looks. Contrary to popular belief, this is not always for male benefit. Its a social status signalling system. That system is indeed used to help attract a mate but it is also used to establish your position in the social hierarcy, which has all kinds of advantages not necessarily connected with mating rituals. > [@](#): > > Adjusting and checking on appearances is a great sign of body language flirting. Sometimes. But appearance is also important for establishing where you stand socially, just like posture is. > [@](#): > > If you catch her checking out your butt when you are on the way to the bar, or she starts fixing her hair when you turn your back, you know she is interested sexually. Depends on what sort of butt she saw when she checked. > [@](#): > > 3: **Eyes**. The eyes say it all. A flirting woman will usually send 3 sidelong glances your way. You will get a second look to confirm they liked what they saw and a third if they are considering talking to you. Followed by a quick exit if you caught her at any of this. > [@](#): > > **The 4 second scan**. We look at uninteresting people for 3 seconds or less. A definite sign of interest is when the girl keeps throwing 4 second gazes your way. Yeah, but again you are not going to catch her at this. If a guy catches me staring at him, its very likely I scanned the room a couple of times, twice in a row he was giving me a fixed stare and I’m finding this oppressive and if he doesn’t mind his manners I’ll rip his head off. Thats why I’ll be staring. Now if I catch him glancing my way with a good 2 minute gap in between, I’ll take a different view, and might indeed let him catch me staring back a few times too 🙂 > [@](#): > > **How the flirting woman breaks your gaze**. This is even more important than how she has been looking at you. If she looks to the side, or around the room, you have lost her interest. Or she finds it easier to listen when she doesn’t have to maintain eye contact. > [@](#): > > If her eyes drop to the floor before looking back up again to meet yours within 30 to 60 seconds you have a chance. Or shes just having a normal type conversation with you. Just like a guy would. > [@](#): > > Downcast eyes followed by a preening signal like playing with or tossing her hair indicates that she is liking what she is seeing. It certainly means some kind of self-consciousness. > [@](#): > > **Zero eye communication means zero connection**. Time to move on to someone else. A raised eyebrow usually indicates a question of some sort. The more you look someone in the eye, the more attractive, confident and truthful you seem. Yeah but some people aren’t very confident or they are insecure about their appearance, specially if you are goodlooking. Its best to judge eye contact or lack of it by seeing how much of it your target normally dishes out. > [@](#): > > 4: **Playing with her hair** : Running her fingers through her hair, fluffing her hair, and the strongest sign of body language flirting, tossing her hair, are all designed to show you she is available. Or she has mislaid her hairbrush / its not a good place to pull out a hairbrush. > [@](#): > > 5: **Her Feet**. Feet are a great indicator of the flirting woman’s true feelings. Few people notice what they are doing with their feet subconsciously because they are so far away from our faces. This places foot language a long way up on the credibility scale. > By pointing a foot towards you, the flirting woman is saying you are welcome to join her group. Yeah, but thats what people do when they aren’t flirting too. Sometimes you are welcome to join a group. No sex implied. > [@](#): > > She is slightly defensive if she has one leg crossed over the other, but while one foot is still pointing at you, it is still looking okay. Once she uncrosses her legs and starts mirroring your foot position this is a better sign that she likes you. Friends also mirror each other. > [@](#): > > Her foot between your feet is an obvious sexual body language gesture. Better yet, if she should bend her knee and have it touching your knee or leg while you are both standing. These both suggest strong sexual flirting messages. People need to be _told_ that? > [@](#): > > 6: **Her Palms and Wrists** : Women will flash their wrist at someone they are interested in. Ah c’mon. Is there anything a woman can do that will not be interpreted as Up For It? Wrist flashing?? > [@](#): > > While she is playing with her hair or fiddling with an earring, check to see if her wrist is turned to face you with her palm facing out. While she is flashing her wrist at you she is saying,’You can approach me’. Shes probably not. > [@](#): > > 7: **Her Legs** : By sitting with her legs swung out to one side she is making an obvious attempt to make her legs look longer and herself good for whoever is watching. Or shes been sat there a long time and needs to shift position before she gets sciatica. > [@](#): > > The more frequently she crosses and uncrosses her legs while facing you, the better your chances. Possibly true. > [@](#): > > The more thigh she is exposing the more likely it is that she is hot for you. A common misapprehension that. She might be 1) tipsy 2) too busy with something to think about modesty 3) tired and doesn’t give a fuck about modesty 4 ) in a warm environment 5) fashion conscious and thighs are Where Its At. If I’m to understand this manly guide to Women Who are Up For It - if you smooth your skirt down you want some and if you let a bit of thigh show you want some. Can’t both be true 😕 > [@](#): > > While sitting, women often cross their legs to look sexy, ladylike or just to show them off. Or because keeping our knees apart and letting it all hang out is considered rather butch. > [@](#): > > The higher she crosses her legs over her thighs, the stronger the sexual signal. Stronger the tension signal I’ll agree. But the tension could be about anything. She might just need the loo. > [@](#): > > If she is also smiling at you, showing eye contact and is resting one hand in her lap this is extremely strong sexual body language. Or she could just be alert and paying attention. > [@](#): > > Smoothing hands over her thighs is another common preening sign for women when they are in the company of someone they find sexually attractive. Ok. I need to know. Is there any posture, gesture or movement a woman can make that doesn’t signal shes Up For It? > [@](#): > > If you are in a barefoot situation, she will start to walk on tiptoe if she thinks attractive men are around. By doing this it makes her legs look longer, her body slimmer, and overall, she looks more feminine. Oh vanity thy name is Man. This tiptoe walk is done when 1) there is a lot of stuff on the floor and minimising contact with the floor will minimise breakages 2) for comic effect 3 ) when some drunken so-and-so has pissed all over the floor and you don’t want to get your feet wet 4) any scenario requiring exaggerated girlyness. > [@](#): > > 8: **Does she want more?** Towards the end of the encounter you can check out her intentions with this little test. Step towards her and then quickly step backwards. If she is interested, she will now step forwards to close the gap without even realizing she is doing it. It shows there is a bond. Doesn’t guarantee what sort though. > [@](#): > > The other trick to try is to lower your voice to a whisper. If she stays right where she is and shouts at you that she can’t hear you, then she is not going to be getting any closer. Would probably work. > [@](#): > > 9: **Does she want to kiss you?** If she is doing any of these then the answer is probably YES! > **Licking her lips**. When faced with something arousing everyone licks his or her lips. No they don’t. > [@](#): > > Eating and drinking suggestively, sucking and licking fingers. All ways of advertising their talents. And their appalling table manners. > [@](#): > > **Keeps touching her mouth**. Everyone’s lips become engorged when we get turned on, making us more conscious of them and more likely to play with them. Plainly written by someone whos never worn lipstick. > [@](#): > > Putting her head close to yours: This is nearly always an invitation to kiss. Yeah, quite likely so long as you are sure she isn’t just trying to whisper something. > [@](#): > > **Tilting her head** : Getting into position on a subconscious level. Also indicates puzzlenent / annoyance. > [@](#): > > **What the Colour of her Clothes Say about Her** : > Hot Pink: She wants to stand out from the crowd. As a lesbian. > [@](#): > > Light Pink: Fragile. Don’t be expecting me to carry your drum cases tonight. > [@](#): > > Navy Blue: Business suit. I’m on top. > [@](#): > > Light blue: Composed. I’m an intellectual. > [@](#): > > Black: Stylish, chic and original. I still live in the 80’s. > [@](#): > > Red: She is happy to be the centre of attention and is not afraid of her feelings. I eat sex pests for breakfast. > [@](#): > > Beige: Uncertain. Today I is invisible. > [@](#): > > White: Look at me. I’m high maintenance. 🙂 F. ---
**Author:** ![Holmes](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/holmes/32/2128_2.png) [@Holmes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Holmes)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/12 "2007-12-23T02:35:42Z")
> [@](#): > > Hot Pink -High-maintenance -Can’t wait til Carnivale -Both > [@](#): > > Light Pink: Fragile You mean like…? ([http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/graphics/2007/08/30/whelmsley130.jpg](http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/graphics/2007/08/30/whelmsley130.jpg)) > [@](#): > > Black -“Thespian” -English major -Purveyor of fine gingerbread children > [@](#): > > Red Totally doing Santa > [@](#): > > Navy Blue -“Peanuts, pillow, pillow, peanuts…?” > [@](#): > > 18-3943 BLUE IRIS -Employed by Pantone > [@](#): > > Beige -Girl Scout > [@](#): > > White -Works in hospital or on Carribean cruise line Seriously…I’m not sure about this color/personality nonsense. I wear hot pink because I _like_ it. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 3:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/13 "2007-12-23T03:02:51Z")
> [@Felicity](#): > > … > Ah c’mon. Is there anything a woman can do that will not be interpreted as Up For It? Wrist flashing?? > > … > > If I’m to understand this manly guide to Women Who are Up For It - if you smooth your skirt down you want some and if you let a bit of thigh show you want some. Can’t both be true 😕 > > … > > Ok. I need to know. Is there any posture, gesture or movement a woman can make that doesn’t signal shes Up For It? No. We’ve got your subtle signals all figured out. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Felicity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/aca169/32.png) [@Felicity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Felicity)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2007, 3:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/14 "2007-12-23T03:23:22Z")
Like my married friend then! He has my signals down so well he’s taken to ducking _before_ he tries groping.. F. ---
**Author:** ![Homann](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/homann/32/1444_2.png) [@Homann](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Homann)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2007, 3:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/15 "2007-12-24T15:51:39Z")
> [@Felicity](#): > > \*… > > “insert a lot of text” > > …\* I love it.. reps to you for making me laugh and giving your point of views.. top post 😃 ---
**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2007, 6:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-tell-she-is-hot-sexless-dateless-or-not/7534/16 "2007-12-27T06:22:09Z")
my experience is most girls are always “up for some” the question is are they up for it with you.