# Howdy again **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 26, 2009, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096 "2009-12-26T22:04:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bonjovigirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@bonjovigirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bonjovigirl)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 10:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/1 "2009-12-26T22:04:35Z")
Hey Y’all I figured I’d do a more proper introduction on here seeing as I just hopped right on. My name is Ashley but people call me Red for short. I’m an old 19yr old with no ambition or drive… just kidding! In high school I was in every band (Marching Band, Pep, Symphonic, Varsity and Jazz), Drama Club, Artist Guild, Commercial Art and Equestrian Team - I wasn’t much of a geek as I had a variety of friends - just I preferred to be at school to do band and art. With college, I completed two years of college and I am dropping out for a year so I can figure out what I want to do in my life and figure out the best route to get there. College is for some people, work is for others - to each their own. I refuse to get a job flipping burgers or handling food as that is just a despicable job that is meant for the High School drop-outs. Im currently going for a Management Internship at a highly valued Insurance Company for part-time work. I plan on having my own ranch and training/showing some of the best horses in the world. I currently own a horse and have over 6 horses in training with me. Right now I am focusing on breaking horses to saddle and come this spring, I will have 3 racehorses to train. I mainly handle “aggressive/difficult” horses, break horses to saddle and then train show horses (anything from dressage, hunter hack, 3day eventing, gymkhana, reining/reined cowhorse/cutting, western pleasure, etc) - my favorite to train is a reining and cutting horse. What makes a good working ranch horse is their athleticism, endurance, build and mind. You have to pair the horse up with what job will suit their body, but most importantly their mind. Its like putting an Olympic swimmer in a strongman competition, and a strongman in an swimming meet - it just doesn’t work. My personal horse has racked up many trophies and ribbons - I have a 88% chance of placing in a class, 73% of getting a Grand Champion and a 20% of a Reserve Grand Champion. For 2010, I plan on improving those odds drastically 😉 As you can see I am pretty much a horse-person but I do have a life other than horses. I own a Belgian-German Shepherd and a Guinea Pig. Some of my other interests are the following: drawing/painting/photography, camping/hiking/fishing, dirt bikes, working on cars and all sorts of “redneck fun”. As far as my personality goes, I’m easy-going, relaxed; I choose when to be anti-social and when to be a flirt; I don’t party, drink or have my sole purpose in life to get laid - not that I don’t party or drink sometimes, its just that’s no way to live. I prefer my family, friends and animals - what more is their to living life then that? So I am more family oriented and not party oriented. I am Italian and Irish, the best of both fighting spirits lol. Im very stubborn and I love to fight physically or verbally - although, it is never the intention of hurting someone else unless they really tick me off. I have the Italian attitude and the Irish temper. I am very protective over my friends and family and if anyone is to mess with them - there are serious consequences for it. So in that case, when I am ticked off, I am highly aggressive and have that “bad ass/ don’t mess with me” attitude. I may be short, but I sure do scare the heck out of a lot of people when I am like that! Lol. Its just a matter of choosing what attitude you want to have, who do you want to be that day. You have the power to change who you want to be, every second of your day. Its just a matter for me, I choose my attitude on my emotions in a sense.; if I want to be flirtatious, I will be; if I want to be a bad ass, I will be; Just as simple as that. SO to some it up, what do y’all think would help a stubborn, cocky, fiery short girl keep on her A-game? Maybe something also that is a stress reliever in a sense, as sometimes I find myself a bit frazzled and its hard to concentrate. Thanks a bunch! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 11:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/2 "2009-12-26T23:45:16Z")
Hi again Ashley, and thanks for the great intro. I think you would do well with either Instant Sexiness A or Instant Sexiness B. IS/A will give you a strong sexy alpha female vibe, and IS/B will give you more of a soft sexy kittenish aura. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is another one I would recommend for you. It is very uplifting, and will give both your mood and the moods of those around you a boost. Please ask if you have any questions! ---
**Author:** ![Maidenfan01](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e9bcb4/32.png) [@Maidenfan01](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maidenfan01)\ **Post date:** [December 26, 2009, 11:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/3 "2009-12-26T23:56:08Z")
Stress reliever? [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) could be great for that. General mood booster and works great at it! One of my favorite products as far as self-effects go. Silly kitty’s advice is also good in regard to the female products. Your love of horses is pretty cool, I grew up with a few friends that had horses too and though I never got into them they are pretty fun to ride around on. ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2009, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/4 "2009-12-27T00:13:15Z")
I agree with everyone’s advice. For me Shine makes me a bit more energetic and hyper rather than relieve my stress. That being said it is an amazing product. You could try spaceland which might make you feel slightly more relaxed and goofy at low doses and higher ones make you feel like just sitting and zoning out. I have p74 which helps me focus. That could help you stay on your A game. It also makes others feel more connected with me I think in addition to other mones. ---
**Author:** ![Cherub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cherub/32/1282_2.png) [@Cherub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cherub)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2009, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/5 "2009-12-27T01:59:47Z")
Hey Red welcome to the boards…Horses are cool I want to take my daughter riding…hopefully one day! I really like space land anytime im stressed or irraz I use space land and everything seems to go away! hope that helps!Will also be reporting on [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) soon so watch my journal.Kep us posted on your journey! Merry x mas! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2009, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/6 "2009-12-28T22:36:55Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk BonJoviGirl! Wow, what an introduction I am really impressed and you are doing so much and have so many plans for the future. That is great luv! In terms of school, taking a break is a good idea to find yourself because with society and parents although you seem like a head strong girl we can get lost in what others want and forget what we want. Don’t take too long a break and I wish you blessings in your endeavors. First of, I will suggest Instant shine which is a feel good pheromone that has some calming effects. It gives off that youthful , vibrant glow that draws others to you. [Pheromones](https://a314.com/) have been known to have effects on animals so it will be interesting to hear the effects this will have on your horses. Instant sexiness A/ B - A seems more your personality but all of us women have both sides and so it’s nice to experiment with both. MX335 is also a nice one and it’s grapefruit scented, it’s a sexual attraction pheromone like instant sexiness a makes you feel sexy and confident. CTTM 2 is like a cross between instant honesty and openness, it makes guys more approachable and tends to make them more open to talk and at the right moments spill their guts. Have fun! Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![bonjovigirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/278dde/32.png) [@bonjovigirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bonjovigirl)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2009, 9:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-again/35096/7 "2009-12-29T09:45:09Z")
SillyKitty: Hey thanks! Yea I will have to try those - I think thats what I may be looking for! 🙂 MaidanFan01: Thanks! I think I will try the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) first - a lot of people have been recommending it to me… But yea, horses are very cool 😉 conundrum12: I believe I may also be trying the Spaceland as well. I plan on giving a try to all the female products so that I can find one that will suit me best. (or maybe all! lol) Cherub: Hey thanks! Yea I’m gonna be trying Spaceland out first with I believe Instant Shine. As I previously stated, I plan on trying the other products as well. As far as you and your daughter, a great way to start out with horseback ridingis to find a reputable trail riding barn in the area, where you can rent out horses and go on a guided trail ride. When I mean by a reputable barn, a horse barn that when you ask someone at the local feed store or Tractor Supply (or even Tack Shop) - that you will hear nothing but good things about them. Thats how my grandpa and I bonded when I was younger and I loved it! I couldnt wait until sunday when we had our trail rides together! Good luck! Mickaelia: I plan on just a year off and re-enrolling in the fall of 2010. I believe I am trying out the Instant Shine first, but I am planning on both the Instant Sexiness A and B with my next order. Thank you for your suggestions! I am excited to not only experiment with the products myself, but see if maybe I can calm down some of my “crazy” horses and light a spark in some lazy ones! lol.