# Howdy, female fianc? help!!!

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**Created:** [June 5, 2014, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-female-fianc-help/62119 "2014-06-05T06:25:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![Stovetop2828](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ccd318/32.png) [@Stovetop2828](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Stovetop2828)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-female-fianc-help/62119/1 "2014-06-05T06:25:56Z")

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Long story short… I’m desperate, my fiance said she is leaving me because she fell out of love, she agreed to trying to work things out for the next few months for our 2.5yro daughters sake… In the past (5months ago) I ordered “Bask #9” in hopes that this will work, we’ll… She said that it smells like dog piss and all I smell was a alcohol smell. Is there any instructions to use this that I’m missing?, she been feeling “out of love” with me off and on the last few months  
PLEASE, I’m open to anything… 😕

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 8:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-female-fianc-help/62119/2 "2014-06-05T08:55:03Z")

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Welcome.

This is a difficult situation and TBH, no phero will ever save a dead relationship or make someone fall in love with you on its own, although you can use them to help remind her of what she found good about you to begin with, improve the overall mood, promote attraction and to get issues out in the open in an advantageous way.

So as well as pheros, you are going to need to look at ways to help trigger attraction and affection in her and re-assert yourself in other ways. This often will involve your stepping back from her and adopting a radical repositioning of your personality and approach to her.

I don’t know Bask-9 at all but from what you describe, it sounds like a cheap Androstenone product (the piss smell) and it probably won’t help much if she has already lost attraction.

So in the meantime, you should read-up in IH and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) - Which are good products to promote bonding and reconnection in a happy/feelgood way. A314 - for status and LTR qualities and TUTH and Ammo for attraction - It is also worth looking at he various “fallout” threads - which are mixes aimed at promoting long-term/deep emotional engagement but these can be slow to take effect, needing repeated exposure over prolonged periods and you need to do your basic testing to find the effective doses of the component pheros first.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 10:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy-female-fianc-help/62119/3 "2014-06-05T22:00:36Z")

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