# Howdy! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 6, 2010, 3:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141 "2010-06-06T15:10:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Jinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Jinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jinx)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 3:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/1 "2010-06-06T15:10:22Z")
So I’m gonna be taking my first try with phero’s (I think) I’m a guy, on the late side of my twenties and a limey. 🙂 I really like this forum, it’s nice to see such a varied and thoughtful responses, which by the way, have done a great job easing my cynicism. I really came here out of interest in the sexually effective pheros but now, I think I’m more interested in shine. I think I’ll probably be getting one of each though. I’ve never been one to go out on a hunt for a girlfriend, whenever somethings blossomed for me it’s always been something that “just happens” And I quite like that, but it would be nice to seem more approachable. In regards to shine and openness, has anyone experienced any kind of personal tolerance to it’s effects with regular use? Cheers all! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 3:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/2 "2010-06-06T15:45:04Z")
Hi there, Welcome. Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? Can you elaborate more on your purpose of using [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)? Is it for sexual, ltr, respect, feel good and so on? Who are your targets? Then we can recommend you some pheromones for you to try. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Jinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Jinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jinx)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/3 "2010-06-06T16:04:13Z")
Shy or outgoing? A bit of both, but I would say on the shy/quiet side. I’m more interested in the feel good side of things I think. Which makes me the main target lol ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/4 "2010-06-06T16:05:23Z")
Hey there, welcome to the forum! Yes people experience pheromone tolerance, and when this happens (over the course of several weeks) it is suggested to take an off week without pheromones to lose the tolerance. The people around you won’t be as tolerant however, so it will still work as well on them unless you are around them as much as you wear pheromones. Shine and Ammo would be good calls for your first order, and I hope you have a great time with them. Let us know your results, and best of luck! ---
**Author:** ![Jinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Jinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jinx)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/5 "2010-06-06T16:40:57Z")
Thanks! 🙂 I’m loving the experimental vibe of this forum! ---
**Author:** ![Jinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Jinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jinx)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/6 "2010-06-07T19:14:09Z")
As some added info. I’m a Buddhist and a singer. And I think I will be be looking at the effects of pheromones from these perspectives in a big way. I think it may well be telling because as a singer it’s all very, very related to confidence levels. Also, my meditation/mindfullness practice involves sitting and doing nothing but watching thoughts (fantasies, plans, judgements, memories) and body sensations come and go. So I’m sure I’ll be posting my thoughts from these perspectives (eg: If find I can sing better/worse or if my mind goes off on something unusual for me). Even if it’s a bit obscure 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/7 "2010-06-07T19:19:58Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! For shyness, go with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty. Instant Openness will help get conversation flowing much more easily, you and those around you will feel more relaxed, more friendly, more approachable. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable with you and will be more likely to trust you and open up to you. For feeling good, check out Instant Shine. Instant Shine is a positive uplifting phero blend that will boost your mood and also the moods of those around you. ---
**Author:** ![Jinx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c6cbf5/32.png) [@Jinx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jinx)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/8 "2010-06-07T19:36:04Z")
Thanks Kitty! 🙂 It’s funny, I just realised when I came here I had it in my head that pheromones were _only_ a sexual thing. I mean it makes sense that people would give off smelly vibes when there _hawt_. But the idea there are things you give off when your simply confident, secure or trustworthy. I mean we must have the ability to sense the other markers for a reason right? Another question, which do you (or you find people in general) find the most useful, the influence pheromones on others attitudes or the influence on the wearer’s attitudes towards themselves? I see personally, that self image is more important. But thats just an un-thought out thought. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/9 "2010-06-07T19:41:29Z")
> [@Jinx](#): > > Thanks Kitty! 🙂 > > It’s funny, I just realised when I came here I had it in my head that pheromones were _only_ a sexual thing. I mean it makes sense that people would give off smelly vibes when there _hawt_. But the idea there are things you give off when your simply confident, secure or trustworthy. I mean we must have the ability to sense the other markers for a reason right? > > Another question, which do you (or you find people in general) find the most useful, the influence pheromones on others attitudes or the wearer’s attitudes towards themselves? > > I see personally, that self image is more important. But thats just an un-thought out thought. 🙂 Pheromones help with a variety of different functions, and mostly affect the people around the wearer. Most people also get self effects, which is great, though some people don’t. Self effects sometimes can “wear off”, in that the wearer becomes kind of immune to them. The other people around will not become immune though. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/howdy/39141/10 "2010-06-07T20:57:04Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.