Hi B-Man & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
I see your situation & i’m sure that pheromones can overcome your diffculty there like what Mockingbird have said. So like he said continue making that effort. I will check some of your posts soon.
Hmm, you bought Icebreaker, well i heard about it & even visit the website but i too agreed with Mockingbird that it’s not the best pheromones, well i heard from here that it might be a scam but i think you need to check this forum for more answers to this.
And i see you have no problem in the dating field as you said you are attractive looking but you need the extra push there, here is my recommendation> AMMO(regular strength will do for your age) + Instant SHine + Instant Openness but i leave the decision to you. Here is a link to AMMO & the Instants> Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15
I hope i managed to help you there. See ya