# I am fed up of being cute! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 16, 2010, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979 "2010-11-16T18:43:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 9
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2011, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/161 "2011-05-19T05:53:02Z")
> [@Boudicca](#): > > I think I’m going away now. ☹ If you go… make sure its a relaxing place for you to have your worries on how twisted this world is, just melt away… Many guys are just bimbos!!! Yup, it’s a hard streak in many guys!!! I think I told that to Mick on the phone today… expecting perfection,when guys are far from perfect!!! 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2011, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/162 "2011-05-21T16:43:14Z")
Due to reported posts I’m putting some posts in moderation that have nothing to do with this forum or topic. We usually don’t like to censor this place except for scuffles and straight up attacks but I think this is becoming ridiculous and seriously violates the forum’s culture. I’m pretty disappointed at the lack of civility. For the record freedom of expression is a cop-out card when it violates somebody’s right to be treated with humanity and when it vioates some body’s right to the pursuit of happiness. Please keep the toxicity levels low and return to the topic Mick originally posted. Pretty please? I’ll help: Mick is awesome cute or not. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 21, 2011, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/163 "2011-05-21T17:52:56Z")
John your right lets get back on the target subject. Getting rid of the cute vibe or at least just balancing it a bit. Not sure how many ladies here ever had the chance to try MX215 or the sunshine series. These are Cute girl next door mixes they used to have here. I think they still have MX215 which is a cross between cute and harmonious good times. Now for those who want some help doing away with the cute vibe along with the suggestions I already made about body language and projecting… I propose you try [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/). P83 is sensual and it can really help bring out that inner vixen if you use it right. Its my favorite of all putatives. I would love to hear some reports on this one. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![gamo10](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/b19c9b/32.png) [@gamo10](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/gamo10)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2011, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/164 "2011-05-28T19:44:28Z")
Well Mick here are my thoughts on this issue you have with being so cute…now it’s just my opinion…but I know that not everyone can pull off “cute”, as not everyone can pull off “sexy”, and not every woman who is sexy is cute but in IMHO…99.9% of the time a woman who I think is cute is very SEXY in my eyes… 😉 @}~\>~ ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2011, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/165 "2011-05-29T02:37:51Z")
> [@gamo10](#): > > Well Mick here are my thoughts on this issue you have with being so cute…now it’s just my opinion…but I know that not everyone can pull off “cute”, as not everyone can pull off “sexy”, and not every woman who is sexy is cute but in IMHO…99.9% of the time a woman who I think is cute is very SEXY in my eyes… 😉 @}~\>~ Thanks, and I have found that out and am more confident and comfortable with myself now. Life everyone I still have insecurities but am getting there. ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2011, 8:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/166 "2011-06-18T20:39:29Z")
Well, I am still here. And Astrea and I have made friends. I am still “cute,” but Astrea gave me a description of the difference between cute and sexy from an old friend of hers and I rather like it. I think perhaps half the “cute” comes from my personality rather than looks, based on the definition she gave me. I hope she doesn’t mind if I quote her: > [@](#): > > Yes, you are cute. But here’s something I was told a long time ago. Cute smiles big. Sexy doesn’t. Cute bounces. Sexy is languorous. Cute pulls her hair back. Sexy doesn’t and sprays it in place if she has to. I smile big, I laugh big, I bounce, I pull my hair back. I like having fun and, when I’m feeling good, I AM fun. I CAN do the sexy hair but it is too much upkeep to do every day, especially in summer heat in the South. I can do a sexy smile when I want to - but if something is funny, or just plain fun, why not flat out smile big? (Seduction - that’s another ball game. 😉🆒) I AM feeling good now. And the weight the cyst put on me is slowly melting off me. Which means I’m looking good. (Well, BETTER, anyway. GETTING TO good.) It occurs to me that, if I were to manage to develop six-pack abs with this scar running down the middle, it would look WAAAY WICKED. Anyway, as a result of a skilled MT most of my chronic post-op pain has gone away, and with the cessation of pain comes the cessation of most of my irritability and some of the depression. And with a different perspective on “cute” that Astrea provided, I think - just maybe - I can live with “cute” after all. 😉😃 ---
**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 8:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/167 "2011-06-19T08:03:47Z")
> [@Boudicca](#): > > **Well, I am still here. And Astrea and I have made friends.** > > I am still “cute,” but Astrea gave me a description of the difference between cute and sexy from an old friend of hers and I rather like it. I think perhaps half the “cute” comes from my personality rather than looks, based on the definition she gave me. **I hope she doesn’t mind if I quote her:** > > **It occurs to me that, if I were to manage to develop six-pack abs with this scar running down the middle, it would look WAAAY WICKED.** **Yes, we both are and mos’ def’ have and of course, I don’t. Thankyou for the public announcement, that’s sweet of you.** **Not only are you a rocksta, but that would make you positively GANGSTA!!! 😃** ---
**Author:** ![AutumnGirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/autumngirl/32/5225_2.png) [@AutumnGirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AutumnGirl)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2011, 8:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/168 "2011-06-19T08:20:22Z")
Okay, haven’t read the whole thread so this may be something that’s been said before. 😛 I am _sure_ that I’m more cute than sexy. Yet what men have usually – almost always, actually – pointed out to me as sexy was my cuteness. I think I have sort of a “come-hither” variety of cuteness. Definitely not church-lady-esque (saw a reference near the beginning of the thread of “cute” being the girl who goes to church). But I can laugh at myself. And I do. All the time. Not in a self-depreciating way or anything. But I’m no languorous, sultry, sloe-eyed thing. I’m little and I have big eyes and I laugh hard and guys have _always_ told me they thought those things were sexy…for some reason. I admit though that sometimes I am flirtatious, I mean just naturally so. ---
**Author:** ![Boudicca](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/boudicca/32/5171_2.png) [@Boudicca](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Boudicca)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/169 "2011-06-21T00:14:01Z")
> [@AutumnGirl](#): > > But I can laugh at myself. And I do. All the time. Not in a self-depreciating way or anything. But I’m no languorous, sultry, sloe-eyed thing. I’m little and **I have big eyes** and I laugh hard and guys have _always_ told me they thought those things were sexy…for some reason. I admit though that sometimes I am flirtatious, I mean just naturally so. I can and do laugh at myself too, when things happen that are just out in left field or plain ridiculous. 😛 **I have been told I have “Disney eyes.” Like in their animated movies of late - great big blue eyes with a sparkle in them.** ---
**Author:** ![AutumnGirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/autumngirl/32/5225_2.png) [@AutumnGirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AutumnGirl)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2011, 6:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/170 "2011-06-21T18:21:47Z")
> [@Boudicca](#): > > **I have been told I have “Disney eyes.” Like in their animated movies of late - great big blue eyes with a sparkle in them.** Awww…that _does_ sound cute! ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 9:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/171 "2011-10-12T21:11:57Z")
I don’t mind being cute, means I’m getting snuggles 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2011, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/172 "2011-10-12T22:13:51Z")
Oow, snuggles 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ballzan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ballzan/32/558_2.png) [@ballzan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ballzan)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 3:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/173 "2011-10-25T03:09:58Z")
> [@empath](#): > > As a guy I’ve always found that I’m usually more attracted to, and usually for a longer period of time, cute than sexy. Well now I’m confused because I think a girl that looks ‘cute’ is usually sexy as well. I agree with you on this one. Generally if I tell a girl she is cute its just because I feel award telling her she is sexy when I don’t know them that well. ---
**Author:** ![Gingiber\_Pardus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/dfb087/32.png) [@Gingiber\_Pardus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gingiber_Pardus)\ **Post date:** [December 17, 2011, 8:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/174 "2011-12-17T20:38:15Z")
Hey girls n guys. I voted sexy but upon reflection wonder if perhaps I am the mistress of my own misfortune. I get sexy sexy sexy from guys, not that I’m complaining. BUT it does mean they are after only one thing which can be as frustrating as being cute… ---
**Author:** ![Fezzy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e19adc/32.png) [@Fezzy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fezzy)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 10:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/175 "2012-01-06T10:27:22Z")
Alot of girls have called my ‘cute’ which I am starting to find kind of annoying as I cant even take compliments properly 😕 But I would like to be called ‘hot’ or ‘fit’. LOL..A little big headed of me but _shrugs shoulders_ Someone (girl) did actually called me ‘fit’..But it was someone who I didnt know very well and was not my type so… 😕 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 28, 2012, 1:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/176 "2012-05-28T01:51:21Z")
> [@](#): > > Alot of girls have called my ‘cute’ which I am starting to find kind of annoying as I cant even take compliments properly 😕 A lot of people cant do this. Its not hard really, whether your attracted to the person or not just say two words… Thank you. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Sarafina](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@Sarafina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sarafina)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2012, 8:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/177 "2012-06-10T08:55:51Z")
> [@Astrea](#): > > **Hey, MY opinion.** Before I came to this country, the most complimentary thing said to me was: Well, you’re not ugly. > So, call me jealous (😃 not!) call me bitter (😮 over what?!); but when a whole culture **requires** that you be blonde to be called pretty **AND** blue eyed to be beautiful - regardless of what kind of person an individual is; then you have more than 50% of the population blonde. And out of them, those that don’t have blue eyes either grossly fixated on that or wearing blue contacts - the sheer number of blonde and blue eyed **females** is overwhelming. That’s the culture I grew up in. I don’t tan - another reason to be called less than. > > So, I think blonde and blue eyed is boring; the whole diversity of mixed races; colors, features here, are an endless joy for me. I see so many different kinds of beautiful, every day is a wonder. **I’ve** even been called beautiful 😮 - and it’s taken 7 years for me to get used to it being said without sarcasm, irony or malicious agenda. I still don’t believe it or trust whoever said it. That probably won’t happen. > > **So, for all the blondies that chose to take offense or be “hurt”** (are you kidding?!) **at MY opinion - stop whining and get over it!** **You know you’re in the majority and in the west get automatic attention just for the blonde.** Let the rest of us - Italian, Spanish, Yugoslav, Romanian, Turkish be suitably bored. I had to emigrate across the world to be comfortable in my own skin. **Stop being that pretty girl bitching about one tiny zit under her hair.** > **OH hey, LOOK!!! I was clear!** Love this post. Wish I could thank it twice and yes Eva is way hotttter than boring Alicia and obviously Ryan Gosling who is just as hott agrees! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![curvinator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b5ac83/32.png) [@curvinator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/curvinator)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 1:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/178 "2012-06-18T13:14:20Z")
I would rather be sexy. Like a librarian. Or a Harley chic. ---
**Author:** ![cjw255](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/45deac/32.png) [@cjw255](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cjw255)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2012, 3:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/179 "2012-07-29T15:19:31Z")
At least myself, I try to not use the same regurgitated words to describe how beautiful I think a girl is. Sometimes I say shes gorgeous, but she might be more cute or pretty then actually gorgeous. I find myself running out of synonyms that sounds right and are socially acceptable. No one says comely, fair(which could be taken as so so) or seemly… yet its listed in a thesaurus under beautiful. Gorgeous. Pretty. Cute. Beautiful. Lovely. Alluring I used maybe once or twice. I also think your upbringing and where you are you might use different words. but yea anyways when I say cute I’m not thinking like a rabbit or a kitten I just mean shes attractive but not breath taking ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2012, 2:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979/180 "2012-08-18T02:13:18Z")
> [@cjw255](#): > > At least myself, I try to not use the same regurgitated words to describe how beautiful I think a girl is. Sometimes I say shes gorgeous, but she might be more cute or pretty then actually gorgeous. I find myself running out of synonyms that sounds right and are socially acceptable. No one says comely, fair(which could be taken as so so) or seemly… yet its listed in a thesaurus under beautiful. > > Gorgeous. Pretty. Cute. Beautiful. Lovely. Alluring I used maybe once or twice. > > I also think your upbringing and where you are you might use different words. > > but yea anyways when I say cute I’m not thinking like a rabbit or a kitten I just mean shes attractive but not breath taking How about scrumptious or delicious LOL These are actually trigger words that make people’s mind go in a naughty direction without being outwardly naughty. You don’t even have to call them that just use the words in a sentence while talking to them. Words carry great power to evoke emotion especially when combined with body language and mones. Using all three at once can be lethal. I can make men’s knees go weak with the word moist when used correctly LOL Tisha [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979.md?page=8) [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-fed-up-of-being-cute/189979.md?page=10)