# I am New to Pheromones never used it, Please help Me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [August 17, 2012, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436 "2012-08-17T19:35:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![paradisegirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradisegirl/32/2153_2.png) [@paradisegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradisegirl)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2012, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436/1 "2012-08-17T19:35:44Z")
Hello everyone, I’m new to pheromones world lol, wanting some suggestions of what I should be using. Some basic infomations, I am mainly trying to attract other males, a little about myself, I am 35 years old, i am about 5’5 with a very slim shape and like to hang out on the beach alot. I tend to have anxiety when approaching men because I feel like the conversation will be dull or boring they won’t be receptive enough to me. I am here because I want to learn how to properly use pheromones to attract more males to be friends with and other things (mainly at clubs and bars) and I hope that it can do that for me! I also want to be able to distinguish when a pheromone site is a scam and what places are the best to buy pheromones. My one question at the bottom addresse it better: One of main questions is can women used man phermones like IH,IO, AMM or [Turn Up The Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) to mix with female phermones . I hope someone can reply back soon with an answear 😃. \*\ ***Turn Up The Heat** \*\* Turn Up The Heat is the world’s first fully dosed [androstenone pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) spray from Androtics Pheromone Research. It creates sexual tension. Each spray allows you to gently turn up the sexual heat in a controlled manner. This gives you the ability to build comfort without coming on too strong, too fast. While there’s many ways you can use it, many people use a strategy like this: On a first date, one spray Second date, two sprays Third date, three sprays It’s also useful for attraction in places where women expect to be picked up. Not appropriate for office wear or near children. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [August 20, 2012, 7:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436/2 "2012-08-20T19:36:51Z")
Hey there, I would suggest that you look into IO and and IShine for helping out with initial approaches to people you may ‘think’ aren’t receptive. Much has to do with your own confidence. Mones will help with this, and give a bump in self confidence, usually. As this will be ‘seen’ by others and will feel comfortable to talk to open up to you. THIS will do wonders with this combination, IMO. As to TUTH, yes, for a sexually charged situation, you _MAY_ want to use IO to loosen up the sharp enone of TUTH. But I only say this IF you’ve already tried out TUTH and know what it does on you and others. Once you’ve tried it, you can start understanding how they work individually, you’ll have a MUCH better handle on how to combo them on you. 1Alpha . ---
**Author:** ![paradisegirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradisegirl/32/2153_2.png) [@paradisegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradisegirl)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2012, 6:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436/3 "2012-08-21T18:11:35Z")
Thanks 1ALPHA, I have never used any [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) products so i don’t have any experience on mones. I just order IS,IH,IO and chunk alot doung for this. I am still waiting for my delivery. I’ll let you know how its goes. Thanks for your warm help. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2012, 1:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436/4 "2012-08-22T01:38:13Z")
Hi There > [@](#): > > I tend to have anxiety when approaching men because I feel like the conversation will be dull or boring they won’t be receptive enough to me. When your feeling anxious just keep in mind men are often feeling the same way. “what if she thinks I"m boring or I run out of things to say” Best thing to do before approaching a person to talk is observes them for a few minutes. I don’t mean to see how cute and yummy they are LOL. Your looking for subject ques. Suppose he is wearing a team shirt, carrying a book, is buff from working out, etc etc… Make a little list of these cues in your head so when your talking if you run into the dreaded lull of silence you can pick from any one of these ques to talk about. In the moment when your standing there nervous and in silence its hard to observe for those ques but if you have few ideals going in then you can smoothly get through those times and build rapport. > [@](#): > > when a pheromone site is a scam and what places are the best to buy pheromones. It can be hard unless you have been around the pheromone scene a while. That’s why hooking up with other people who have experience with mones and can kind of guide you on how to use them is important. First stay away from the rating and affiliate sites. In most cases they are rating there highest commissioned products high not because they are effective but because they make them most money if you buy that one. Generally I stay away from sites with one page websites that make all sort of hyped up promises like “high concentration or strength” Guaranteed to seduce any women or man" “guaranteed to work” These statements show they know a lot of marketing tricks but nothing about pheromones and how they work. Its not that pheromone sites will scam you really. Its rare people don’t get the product they bought. Its the quality and the know how when it comes to formulating with pheromones that is not always there with these copy cat companies. Androtics Direct and Love Scent and Luv essentials have been around a long time and know there stuff. There are some good smaller specialty companies just starting out as well but out of respect for the owners here I don’t talk about the competition to much in this forum. If you go to my profile and hit contact you can download my Vcard with my email and I would be happy share my experiences using other vendors with you. > [@](#): > > One of main questions is can women used man phermones like IH,IO, AMM or [Turn Up The Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) to mix with female phermones . IO IH and Ishine are basically unisex. Ishine does say for men but women have been using it for a long time with excellent results. Men tend to see the name and shy away from it thinking its more of a female mix thus they leave the “for men” in the store. Ammo is a little tough to use in my opinion because of the scent. Its in a manly cologne. Yes you can use products like A314 and TUTH but you use them in much smaller ratios and buffered by lots of unisex and females mones. Its better to start out with products that are designed for your own gender first though because it takes some experience and know how to pull off wearing androgens to much can repel people or make you come off as an aggressive overbearing bitch. Wearing TUTH which is a highly sexual masculine mix is going to make people more aggressive. Its not attractive on a man or a women. Used with the correct other pheromones to increase attraction to you it can increase a more aggressive sexual response to you. Generally I only use it in a sexual situation and only tiny dabs (not sprays) Of course since we are all unique chemically you have to test out what dose is good for you. Pheromones are not one size fits all and what works for one person may not for another. With other vendors products I try to find out the ratio of male mones in the mix and what its been buffered with before I buy them. Lots of companies thing just adding copulins buffers but it doesnt. So you see them offer the mens formula with a few mones then the same formula with just copulins added and they call it the womens mix. That always sends up serious flags for me because it tells me they have no ideal what they are doing. For your situation I would start out with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A IO and Ishine. Instant sexiness will increase attraction as well as make you feel more comfortable and confident. IO will help open people up and get them interacting with you more. Ishine gives a warm charismatic pull people feel drawn to. If you have more questions just let me know. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![paradisegirl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/paradisegirl/32/2153_2.png) [@paradisegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/paradisegirl)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2012, 7:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-am-new-to-pheromones-never-used-it-please-help-me/56436/5 "2012-08-22T07:06:37Z")
Tisha thank for the great tips and advice. You couldn’t have said any better. You make everyone so happy and confident on this site. If it wasn’t for your threat you post i would have give up. But you assure me that AD and there products are Legiet . Well done TISHA THANK YOU AGIAN.