# I bid you hello on this auspicious evening **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 23, 2011, 12:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471 "2011-03-23T00:11:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jdubs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cdc98d/32.png) [@jdubs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jdubs)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 12:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/1 "2011-03-23T00:11:44Z")
Hi everyone, As are most of you, I am new to the forum and to the whole idea of pheromones. I am excited to try them out and see the effects for myself. I admit I am a bit skeptic about the pheromones, but if they work half as well as everyone says they do then I will have gotten my monies worth. So to give you a little about myself, I am 24, male, white, live near Milwaukee in the US but may soon move elsewhere. Now to give personal description, I’m rather tall at 6’3" and keep myself in good shape through weight-lifting. If I have done my research right would guess I’m naturally heavy on the Androstenone, I don’t think I’ve had much problem establishing my image as that of an Alpha male. However, the real kicker is that I’m normally a shy and quiet guy. The only times I can really be myself are if I am really comfortable with the group I am with, otherwise I just keep myself shut so tight. Now, that doesn’t mean I don’t have some game, I do okay for myself. But I think I have approach anxiety and the only way I get over it is through alcohol aka liquid courage. I’ve been told I am a fun and interesting guy, but people say I’m pretty selective on who I expose to that side of me. It doesn’t help that I guess I look a little intimidating to approach and talk to. What I’m really hoping for from this forum and from pheromones is the chance to become more open and communicative. I think that alone would open up so many new avenues for me. If I could be that fun and interesting guy with just about everyone, then I know my life could be forever changed. So how I came across pheromones, well, the initial knowledge of it came from watching Ocean’s 13. The scene with Matt Damon seducing the cougar became an instant classic on what I would like to be able to do myself. After that, I was browsing another forum and came across someone claiming that they use pheromones to help them in the romance department. So immediately I did a google search and browsed the yahoo answers and found someone linking the androtics store. I took a look at the forum before deciding to try some myself, so I’ve gone ahead and bought two To-Gos. One of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) (I’m really hoping it has some self-effects on me) and one of Turn Up The Heat to increase my game since I’m going to be traveling to Atlanta soon, my old college stomping grounds. However, since buying I have been reading the forums like crazy, particularly people’s journals/logs. Now I think this stuff may have incredible effects and I’m hoping to expand with a lot of other stuff. Now to all the other newcomers, we are in this together. If you ever need someone’s opinion, feel free to ask. I think we can learn a lot from a little help from our friends. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/2 "2011-03-23T00:18:07Z")
Hi Jdubs - Welcome to Pherotalk. Good to see you have done your research and formed an idea of how none levels are related to age in both you and your targets. 🙂 However, from your description, I would tend towards suggesting Ammo and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) as your best choice - This would give you a good confidence boost and a well balanced sexual/social/happy/feelgood vibe suitable for your age/game. However, IO is indeed good at moving-on conversations etc Oh and when working your game/pheros, it really does help to keep the alcohol consumption down a bit. That does not mean staying sober though , just keep it at a level where you can still keep good observation of your targets behaviours - I could kick myself when I think of all the times I missed blatent come-ons and IOIs from girls when I was younger and too drunk to notice! :o ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 12:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/3 "2011-03-23T00:29:33Z")
Welcome Jdubs, IO is right up your ally for opening more conversations, but with that I must admit that it is a buffer mone and will help since you say that you have a high none sig to start with. Perhaps at a later date you may wish to try A314, this is a all around cool down for life and helps take everything in stride. Pheros and moderate drinking can be a bad situation, I know this have done this, it’s in my journal… ---
**Author:** ![jdubs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cdc98d/32.png) [@jdubs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jdubs)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/4 "2011-03-23T00:36:39Z")
Thanks, I’ll stay to light drinking so that I can keep my head in the game. Also, what would you guys recommend for interviews? I’ll be going through a few of those relatively soon and anything that would give me an edge could be extremely helpful. From what I can tell, A314 1.23A seemed like it would be great for that, but I’d like a second opinion. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/5 "2011-03-23T01:09:15Z")
What sort of interviews? The choice of phero could depend on the qualities you need to demonstrate for the particular job. ie A job that required you to be fun, sociable and interactive might benefit from IS/IO, wheras a steady, respectable and professional position would demand A314. ---
**Author:** ![jdubs](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/cdc98d/32.png) [@jdubs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jdubs)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/6 "2011-03-23T01:19:54Z")
One is for a systems analyst position and the other is in consulting. So I think I would go with A314 for these types. ---
**Author:** ![azlawyer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/azlawyer/32/1571_2.png) [@azlawyer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/azlawyer)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2011, 9:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/7 "2011-03-23T21:40:29Z")
Welcome Jdubs! I’m glad to see you already made an order and very refreshing to hear you’ve done your homework and read up on some of the threads. Like you, I had approach anxiety for a long time. I’m sure nearly all guys have some type of approach anxiety at some point in their lives. Anyways, what I would get to help with that would be IS, IO and AMMO. A combination of these should help give you the confidence to approach a group of women or be approached. Now, I’m going to warn you. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) are only half the battle. I read you are more inclined to approach a girl when you’ve drank a bit. Now drinking isn’t a bad thing but, I wouldn’t use it to gain up the courage to talk with a girl. That makes liquor a crutch for you and tends to alter your perception like mobo said. For the interview, I’d go with the A314. That will give you the professional look I would think you need for those positions. 🙂 Can’t wait to hear about your success! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-bid-you-hello-on-this-auspicious-evening/49471/8 "2011-03-24T19:26:23Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Jdubs! The men and the men section is a great place to go so they can guide you along your pheromone journey and get you to where you want to be socially. Remember to use the pheromones one by one until you get a hang of what each does before starting to mix. **Your gc was issued! 🙂**