# I can't take it anymore!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 10, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717 "2008-11-10T02:21:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/1 "2008-11-10T02:21:06Z")
Wussup guys, I’ve been trawling this site for weeks now and am desperate to try out these phero’s for myself. I started off as a skeptic thinking phero’s were nothing but a scam for mugs, but having read so many positive posts I can’t wait till payday to place my order (1 more week to go)… and the wait has been **AGONIZING**! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/2 "2008-11-10T02:32:05Z")
Welcome to the forum. Give us a bit more information on your personality, and we’ll give some suggestions. Also, what is the effect you’re desperate for? If you give introductory information per the criteria at the top of the forum, you’ll also get a gift cert which will help defray costs on that first order. Until then, you might want to take a look at the sticky posts at the top of the men’s forum. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/3 "2008-11-10T02:35:21Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. It is normal to be skeptical. I was very skeptical until I uise it myself. For the start please tell us what you want to achieve from using [pheromones](https://a314.com/)? Is it for sexual, friendship, social or others? Tell us more about your target too. Then we can recommend the right phero for you to try and you will earn the GC too. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/4 "2008-11-10T02:36:27Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. You are in the right place to learn about pheromones - and get some top qualtiy ones too. However first we really do need the info that GWTW mentioned - what you want to do with them and some more information about your personality. Once we get that we can help with suggestions and Tisha can send you your GC\> Hope to hear back from you soon. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 11:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/5 "2008-11-10T11:38:01Z")
Hello Glad you decided to join in, How about some information about yourself and your personality. Whats you objective for mone use ? This will make it easier to suggest products and get to know you better. I look forward to your reply so I can send you a GC to get started, Welcome aboard 🙂 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/6 "2008-11-13T01:19:29Z")
OK guys let me try and be a bit more informative. I’m black british (african parents), 31 years old, living in London. Personality wise I’m quite shy in public, but can be a brash loudmouth among close friends (brash in the annoying but lovable sense) and often charming. I would say I’ve got good game when it comes to talking to ladies, but only in a club setting or when alcohol is involved to lower my inhibitions, otherwise I usually tend to freeze over, and so this side of me is often hidden. I want to use [pheromones for attraction](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) but also social purposes, female attraction often gives me a boost. I have often been described as intimidating looking and unaproachable, people tend to get a surprise in discovering my true character. Anyway I just want things to be a bit easier for me to interract with others, especially those of the fairer sex. From the thorough combing of the threads I’ve been doing lately, I have a fair Idea of the pheros I’d like to experiment with but interjections are most welcome… ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 2:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/7 "2008-11-13T02:22:10Z")
hey rizzler, welcome to the forums. you might be able to “soften” up that intimidating looking and unapproachable effect with products like instant shine, instant openness etc. definetely try some instant female magic as well to help put you in the “comfort” zone without treading into the dreaded “friend” zone. good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/8 "2008-11-13T02:47:49Z")
io and ih will help to stimulate conversations and take off the threatening edge. ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/9 "2008-11-13T03:28:48Z")
thanks guys, their both on my order as soon as payday comes (1 more day to go). I’d love to try female magic but have read about its depressive effects and dont really wanna go there (long story). ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 3:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/10 "2008-11-13T03:33:39Z")
i’ve heard about this so-called depressive effect but after 3 years of using the stuff i haven’t noticed it yet. may be because i spray mine on the back of my head, keeping it away from my own nose as much as possible or it may be because it only affects “some” men that way and not all. what i do know for sure is that it is one of my all time favorites for its calming, comforting effect on women. you could always try a spray or two of instant shine to your neck/throat etc to neutralize or balance the self effect you may or may not notice from the ifm. ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 4:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/11 "2008-11-13T04:17:15Z")
cheers mate. i’ll give it some consideration. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 10:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/12 "2008-11-13T10:36:20Z")
Hello Thanks for providing more info. 😉 I would suggest IH as opposed to IO which will just increase the brashness. IH will deepen your conversations and communication. AMMo and IFM would also be good choices for you. **Your GC is on its way** 😃 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/13 "2008-11-13T10:50:52Z")
Rizzler, I am the typical cynical brit, believe me, this stuff works. IFM does have the slightly depressive effect on me ( it doesnt affect ntk23 who is another brit on here), easily countered by applying it to the back of my head and a squirt of IS to my throat. IFM works amazingly well on the ladies, it even calms my wife down from psychotic Premenstrual bitch from hell to pussycat. Ammo is awesome, given that you are black british, you will probably be high in androstenone anyway, I would be careful with A314 and TUTH, keep the levels low to start with and be aware that a lot blokes are going to find you threatening their status. As you are naturally fairly confident, go with the Instant Honesty as opposed to [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). ---
**Author:** ![Marc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8dc957/32.png) [@Marc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marc)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 12:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/14 "2008-11-13T12:26:06Z")
Hi Rizzler, another one of the British community here. I am also black and totally hear what you say. When I was at uni I often met people who told me “Marc, you’re a cool guy but when we first saw you you gave off that totally unapproachable vibe!”. I would tell them “Me, unapproachable, nah I’m just shy!” I’ve got some suggestions for you - A314, Ammo and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). The A314 to work indirectly by working on you - making you feel more confident and less shy and therefore more likely to be social with people you don’t know. You’ll feel better able to be your brash confident self more of the time. The Ammo because it’s damn sexy stuff, you’ll love and girls will love it. And finally the Instant Shine because by itself it will pull people into you and make them happy around you and with the other two it is just a killer mix. There, I said it. See what that A314 does? 😃 ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 6:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/15 "2008-11-13T18:47:15Z")
thanks guys, i really appreciate the input. surprised there’s actually a few brits in here. I had intended to buy the afformentioned products, bar - IFM and IH, but now they are definitely on my list. ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 7:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/16 "2008-11-13T19:42:47Z")
by the way, thanks for the GC Tisha ---
**Author:** ![rizzleruk99](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/85f322/32.png) [@rizzleruk99](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rizzleruk99)\ **Post date:** [December 16, 2008, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-cant-take-it-anymore/22717/17 "2008-12-16T21:12:20Z")
Ok quick update in case anyone’s interested. New job and long hours and no computer so been away for a while. Of the testing i’ve done so far, results were not as spectacular as i was hoping them to be and now understand more clearly the 10% of it is mones mantra that’s been bandied around. Anyway, instant openess works great for me and helps me to relax around people and engage more (kneck and wrists). As for the nones, alas i must avoid these like the plague. I was hoping a314 would be my signature scent but i od on even 1 drop and the negative attituted i get from people is unreal. It was affecting the atmosphere i was getting at the new place so i’ll put that and ammo away for a while. Before anyone asks i did try to buffer (is,ih,io). When i can afford a new pc (wierd how i’ll readily splash out on the mones but not a computer) i’ll make some reports on testing, untill next time…