# I definately need some help **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 10, 2008, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271 "2008-08-10T20:17:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cdavila](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/848f3c/32.png) [@cdavila](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cdavila)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/1 "2008-08-10T20:17:46Z")
well i did bump into this website by accident since i was looking to buy some pheromenes, eventhough i do not know much about them.. but i am looking forward to know more info from you all.. well let me tell you what is it that i need help.. i am a 27 year old woman who really has no problems attracting men but i am very very interested in a gentleman.. i know he is attracted to me because he has told me and there has been minimal physical contact.. but he told me that he is not sure what he wants and so i have been playing the friend card… but i want a serious relationship, even though everytime we see each other he seems very interested but i dont want a fling.. so is there anyone out there that can help me… i truly do like him… thank you cindy bella ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/2 "2008-08-10T21:25:37Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Cindy! Instant honesty would be a good product to use for your situation, it gives a feeling of connection. For a sexy kick [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is the way to go and very popular among the women. The womens section stickies will help you to decide and have you more familiar with the products. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/3 "2008-08-10T21:26:46Z")
Hello Cindy! Welcome to this forum 😉 I would say that some [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) can definitly improve your chances with that gentleman you meet! There are 2 versions: A is more aggressive and B is softer and more passive. Depending on if he is already intimadated by you or not 🙂 There is also ih, which can develop better and deeper connections, which should be very useful you both of you! So let us know what you think about those! ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/4 "2008-08-10T21:28:13Z")
Welcome to the board cdavila, Glad to have you aboard. You might want to check out the [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) line there are 2 different version depending on your personality. Instant honesty can create some deep conversations to get things going as well. One of the ladies will chime in and suggest some things as well. Welcome and have fun 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![360addict](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/360addict/32/505_2.png) [@360addict](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/360addict)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 9:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/5 "2008-08-10T21:34:09Z")
Welcome aboard cdavila. Im new to this forum also but I wouldnt mind helping out. I dont know much about the women pheromone, tish should pass by and give you some more info. But I did wanted to say is that I dont think [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) is going to help you out with the relationship lasting long or being a fling. Thats really up to the guy and his feelings for you. If you want more info you can read the guide that tish wrote on what Pheromones can do and what they cant do. > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2008, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-definately-need-some-help/17271/6 "2008-08-10T23:25:11Z")
Hello Cindy Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and IH as well. I also suggest MX274 which is new but believe me its worth it. ISex increases attraction, interaction and it can be mildly arousing. A is strong sexy and confident and B is girly soft and feminine. You choose the vibe you want to emit. IH gives a intimate close connected feeling. My hubby responds well to this one. MX274 is fun uplifting attracting and helps in connecting. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC will go out shortly** 😃 Tisha