# I don't think pheromones work for me :( So frustrated!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 15, 2010, 7:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463 "2010-01-15T07:40:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![juneroses](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/juneroses/32/1012_2.png) [@juneroses](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/juneroses)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 7:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/1 "2010-01-15T07:40:28Z")
Okay so I own the following… -Alto Ego Perfume for Women -Primal Instinct for Women -Liquid Trust Pheromones -Scent of Eros [Pheromone Perfume](https://phera.com/shop/) for Women -Mistress Pheromones for Women And I can’t get ANY reaction from anyone, I’ve been trying different products all week and getting no results. I’m so upset ☹ If anyone can help me figure out what I’m doing wrong, I’d appreciate it so much… ---
**Author:** ![Pirouette](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pirouette/32/1995_2.png) [@Pirouette](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pirouette)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 3:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/2 "2010-01-15T15:09:05Z")
Hey, Juneroses, I’m sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time getting the reactions you want. Out of your products, I own Scent of Eros. I don’t get over-the-top reactions from it, but I do notice it makes people act more friendly to me. What kinds of reactions are you looking for? Where are you wearing your pheros? Who are you wearing them around? All of these factors can influence how light or strong your hits are. Try testing out your products one at a time to find your most effective dosage. The stickies at the top of the posts have invaluable information in them to help you get started and know what reactions to look for. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![juneroses](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/juneroses/32/1012_2.png) [@juneroses](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/juneroses)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/3 "2010-01-15T16:43:48Z")
> [@Pirouette](#): > > Hey, Juneroses, > > I’m sorry to hear you’re having a difficult time getting the reactions you want. Out of your products, I own Scent of Eros. I don’t get over-the-top reactions from it, but I do notice it makes people act more friendly to me. > > What kinds of reactions are you looking for? Where are you wearing your pheros? Who are you wearing them around? All of these factors can influence how light or strong your hits are. Try testing out your products one at a time to find your most effective dosage. The stickies at the top of the posts have invaluable information in them to help you get started and know what reactions to look for. 🙂 I wear pheros to college, out with friends, or even something as simple as running to the grocery store. Reactions I’m looking for is a much male attention as possible. I would particularly like to get the attention of my ex-boyfriend whom I parted with on good terms but we haven’t spoken since breaking up and I thought the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) might help break the ice. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 8:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/4 "2010-01-15T20:55:22Z")
At your age, wearing short shirts and skirts that reveal your panties and cleavage respectively would get more guys’ attention than pheromones. Try bending over wearing them in class and let me know what happens! Pheromones aren’t necessarily magic. Guys won’t suddenly jump you because you have them on. But judging by your picture alone, if I were 18-22, I would probably want to do you, whether or not you wear pheromones, as long as you seem open about it. I bet that would be the case with most college guys too, including ur ex. P.S. if your ex has some negative feelings toward you, it would be too much for pheros to overcome. Conscious decision always \>\>\>\> subconscious ones… well, for most normal pple.. I hope 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Pirouette](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pirouette/32/1995_2.png) [@Pirouette](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pirouette)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/5 "2010-01-15T21:28:42Z")
> [@juneroses](#): > > I wear pheros to college, out with friends, or even something as simple as running to the grocery store. Reactions I’m looking for is a much male attention as possible. I would particularly like to get the attention of my ex-boyfriend whom I parted with on good terms but we haven’t spoken since breaking up and I thought the pheromones might help break the ice. Well, you don’t have to expose yourself to get attention from guys. Being friendly and approachable will work just fine and will leave your dignity and self-respect in tact.🙂 This post, [What Pheros Can and Can’t Do](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558/1), is a really good read. Pheros are not magic, and they won’t override a person’s will. They can, however, make communication and attraction easier at the appropriate place and time. At you age, Androtics Instant Shine or Openness would probably work great for you. Instant Shine makes people around you feel great and receptive to you. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) sparks lots of chatting. If you really want to get to know someone, Instant Honesty boosts rapport and helps deepen your conversations. Hope this helps. I’m sure more experienced users will chime in.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Olfact\_Amorous](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/olfact_amorous/32/434_2.png) [@Olfact\_Amorous](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Olfact_Amorous)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2010, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/6 "2010-01-15T21:42:04Z")
[Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A at 2 sprays with some EST and Instant openness and you’d be good to go. I’m pretty sure you got those things from Love scent and if you did just shoot a email there way and I’m sure Bruce will more than welcome the idea of giving you a refund for those products. When you use mones you gotta apply yourself a bit and inject yourself in the environment totally not having any qualms socially. Don’t have you expectations out of whack as you’ll be sorely disappointed as a result. If thats you in the picture you definitely got attractive qualities to work with to snag quality men you wanna be in the company of. I wish you a lot of luck. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/7 "2010-01-16T00:13:44Z")
Juneroses I have a sneaking suspicion you’re going to do terrific. I want to continue our conversation a bit more and am willing to take the steps necessary to ensure you get the desired results. Just remember that mones are not magic, you’ll need to do put in the work. Stay sexy, smile and boys will be lining up and following and then I’ll get the call: SteveO make them stop! Loved talking with you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![juneroses](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/juneroses/32/1012_2.png) [@juneroses](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/juneroses)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 6:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/8 "2010-01-16T06:13:20Z")
To CoolKatDC: I found your reply really offensive. I’m 20 years old but it doesn’t make me a skank. To everyone else: Thank you so much for your thoughts/ideas/suggestions/support. I would really like to make pheromones work for me. If you have any other suggestions I would so appreciate it! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![juneroses](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/juneroses/32/1012_2.png) [@juneroses](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/juneroses)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 6:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/9 "2010-01-16T06:18:15Z")
> [@Steve](#): > > Juneroses I have a sneaking suspicion you’re going to do terrific. I want to continue our conversation a bit more and am willing to take the steps necessary to ensure you get the desired results. Just remember that mones are not magic, you’ll need to do put in the work. Stay sexy, smile and boys will be lining up and following and then I’ll get the call: SteveO make them stop! > > Loved talking with you 🙂 Thank you so much for your message Steve! It was very encouraging! Mickaelia replied to my thread on the introductory forum and reccomended Instant Sexiness B, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), and something else called CTTM 2. Once the website has restocked I may start with these products. I will definitely be in touch with you so that I can ask you the proper ways to begin using these products once I order & recieve them in the mail 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 7:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/10 "2010-01-16T07:42:54Z")
Hello girl Just wondering if you asked any help at the other place? Steve said it well about the guys lining up! Also one of my fav’s for going out and about is CTTM 2. It really helps getting yourself and others talking. Your a girl so I would say that you can be shy around someone you like- maybe? yes? So CTTM for me helps and can for you also. Have fun and look for signs with these things on. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/11 "2010-01-16T10:08:55Z")
Hello June First let me say, > [@](#): > > At your age, wearing short shirts and skirts that reveal your panties and cleavage respectively would get more guys’ attention than pheromones. Try bending over wearing them in class and let me know what happens! Pheromones aren’t necessarily magic. This was rude and uncalled for. Where did she say she was looking to get laid ? I know sex is primarily all men think about at your age, all women know that. Perhaps if more young men would look at women as people with feelings more then just a place to put their dicks they would have more luck attracting them. For future reference… [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/men-please-read-before-posting-here/45](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/men-please-read-before-posting-here/45) Now June… Pheromones work just as well at your age as they do for older women. I think what Coolkat was trying to convey is that men in your age group are probably already displaying many of the ques we look for already due to the visual aspect of attraction so it can be harder to see pheromones working for some younger women. They do however work and once you get used to using them you can learn to pick up on the increase in these normal attraction que’s. It can be frustrating in the beginning when you first start using mones. Especially when you start with the more mild products. I am not sure what your expectations for pheromones are but I see that Pirouette has given you the link to what pheromones do and what they dont do so this will help a little in knowing what to expect from them. The products you mentioned you have are not necessarily bad but they are not the top choices in women’s pheromones. I have them all and they are pretty mild. I will go over them. Alto Ego Perfume for Women, Again mild attraction but you can wear to much and put off a bad vibe sometimes. Primal Instinct for Women Is a mix of copulins and anol. Mild friendliness and some double takes but nothing hard hitting. Its not a bad product but its very hit or miss with most people. Liquid Trust Pheromones… Doesn’t work at all. Oxytocin is volatile and must be kept in the frig. Plus it only has a life span of 3 or so minutes outside the body. Not much time to cause attraction. Scent of Eros [Pheromone Perfume](https://phera.com/shop/) for Women SOE is pretty good. but not for sexual attraction. I find I attract more women friendships when wearing it frankly, Its more social Mistress Pheromones for Women, is extremely mild, I dont see much with this one at all. So its not you or pheromones in general, You just started out with a tough bunch of mones to get working. When you first starting out mild products can just be to hard to really see anything with resulting in frustration. Now I am sure Steve and Mick took care of you on the GC and advice. I think IS/B, Ishine and CTTM are good choices. You will find that the mones here are easier to use and are harder hitting then most others because they are alcohol based and easier to work dosage wise. You will have to test them for your dosage but we can help you with that. Be sure to read all the tips up in the sticky section of the womens forum to help you out as well. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 10:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/12 "2010-01-16T10:30:42Z")
I must agree, that was a little messed up on what the boy posters mentioned. Definitely not cool. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 10:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/13 "2010-01-16T10:41:51Z")
> [@mikotorocks714](#): > > I must agree, that was a little messed up on what the boy posters mentioned. Definitely not cool. LOL I know, I dont think coolkat meant what he said offensively although it did come off rude. I think maybe he could have worded it better though. I am glad Steve was here to take care of the other reply though. That was just disturbing. Dont let that scare you off June, Most of the people here are friendly and willing to help. 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 10:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/14 "2010-01-16T10:58:07Z")
Yes, as Tish mentioned we’re all here to help even the guys! So even though you may find some bad members on here you will most definitely find plenty that don’t mind helping you so just hang in there. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![nobrain](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/90ced4/32.png) [@nobrain](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nobrain)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 1:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/15 "2010-01-16T13:31:24Z")
> [@juneroses](#): > > Okay so I own the following… > > -Alto Ego Perfume for Women > -Primal Instinct for Women > -Liquid Trust Pheromones > -Scent of Eros Pheromone Perfume for Women > -Mistress Pheromones for Women > > And I can’t get ANY reaction from anyone, I’ve been trying different products all week and getting no results. I’m so upset ☹ If anyone can help me figure out what I’m doing wrong, I’d appreciate it so much… You might just be trying too hard. Give yourself a break, I am confident that there are plenty of interested males. However, if your trying too hard to get a ‘reaction’ you may be unknowingly sending the wrong signal. Have confidence (not saying you don’t) in yourself and don’t overvalue the value of the male attention. If you’re trying to reconnect with your ex, pheromones might help but more importantly you need to think about what caused the breakup in the first place and start there. If he thought you were too clingy, pheromones might help him take a second look but if you are still clingy… Whatever the reason for him now being an ex there lies what might help you reconnect. For now, try taking the pressure off. The male attention will come, pheromones or not. Be patient and be yourself. You certainly do not need to cheapen yourself (showing panties, etc)! Besides, to many a sophisticated, educated, self confident woman is very sexy. Good luck, I am sure you will have plenty of success with the opposite sex. ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/16 "2010-01-16T15:26:56Z")
> [@juneroses](#): > > To CoolKatDC: I found your reply really offensive. I’m 20 years old but it doesn’t make me a skank. > > To everyone else: Thank you so much for your thoughts/ideas/suggestions/support. I would really like to make pheromones work for me. If you have any other suggestions I would so appreciate it! 🙂 Hey, sorry for being rude and too forward… I wasn’t trying to offend you by saying that you should be slutty or anything like that. I will try to watch what I say from now… Well, you can still dress classy and attract many boys. I personally go and talk to girls regardless how they dress, as long as I find them nice, clean and attractive. As for getting the best out of your mones, I would act confident, open-minded and friendly. For example, when you wear Instant Sexiness or other sexy feminine products, I would act sexy, feminine and yet nice. you should see more obvious reactions. Somehow, when you act like what the [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) description says, it seems to amplify reactions in others; I get better results acting really sexy and open when I am wearing AMMO. In fact, sometimes, it even amazes me. Well, good luck with your endeavor! ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2010, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-think-pheromones-work-for-me-so-frustrated/35463/17 "2010-01-16T16:42:10Z")
Well I would suggest EOW if you wanted blatant results (stares, playful grabbing, general attention) but it’s out of stock… maybe even for good. And EST would also be a good one, but it too is out of stock… Sooo… [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is your best bet. Honestly I don’t even bother with love scent unless it’s EOW. Tisha gave you a pretty good run down of what each can do for you tho. And honestly, I’m not surprised. Stick to Androtics. You’re gonna love what you find here. I mean, gosh, I already have a drawer full. And I know everyone’s saying this, but it’s true… Smile, look people in the eyes, walk straight and with confidence, and definitely find a reason to talk to the guy. It’s like they say, pheros only do some of the work. They enhance who you are and what you do. It’s up to you to make those boys and your ex come to you. Good luck!