# I dont' wanna be in the "alpha" group **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 17, 2012, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887 "2012-06-17T02:24:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 17, 2012, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887/1 "2012-06-17T02:24:54Z")
In the few days of testing mones, I gotta say that it isn’t hype, they’re definitely working. I haven’t had lot of “hits”, but I’ve certainly gotten a lot more attention from more “alpha” guys and have been somehow more accepted by them. This has come from wearing both A314 and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), on separate occasions with other mones combined in small amounts. I gotta say, it’s not what I’d hoped it to be, being in that group of people. They’re so superficial it pisses me off. Does anybody know a mix that would let alpha people respect me without trying to treat me like I’m one of them? ---
**Author:** ![21wq](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/2/ccd318/32.png) [@21wq](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/21wq)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887/2 "2012-06-18T15:06:24Z")
I don’t understand your problem. Did someone criticize you based on the crowd they thought you were with? Remember that they trust and respect you. Take that opportunity to lead. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887/3 "2012-06-18T15:21:23Z")
Sweety just because you have been excepted by them doesn’t mean you have to hang around with them. That choice is still yours to make. You don’t need to change your mones you just need to make a choice. You dont need to be superficial to be alpha in fact its a beta quality. You could try IG. The high anone products will make them more competative. [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) is a good choice but that may make them want to be buds. Its easier to target a group with mones then it is to exclude a group. Men often complain older womens hit on them when they use high anone. Younger women do as well. The mones wont pick and choose for you. You still have control of that. Just say no 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bemsha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/df705f/32.png) [@bemsha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bemsha)\ **Post date:** [June 18, 2012, 7:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887/4 "2012-06-18T19:29:01Z")
I guess I’m not used to excluding people. I’m pretty accepting of everybody, and pretty much everybody is accepting of me. Usually, type A personalities are nice and respectful of me, but don’t try to pull me into their conversations. However, alpha guys have been testing me and putting me on the spot lately. I guess that’s just something I’ll have to get used to. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2012, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-dont-wanna-be-in-the-alpha-group/55887/5 "2012-06-19T00:06:41Z")
Then don’t be - Feeling able to choose exactly where, when and whom you want to be with is an alpha trait all in itself. 🙂