# I expect nothing, but I hope this is the real deal

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [May 21, 2010, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780 "2010-05-21T22:36:39Z")\
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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 10:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/1 "2010-05-21T22:36:39Z")

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Hows it going fellas?

My name is Andrew. I’m a 24 year old asian dude from california. I actually stumbled upon this website today. I’m at work and was just bored so I was googling and I stumbled upon this site…

Well… my birthday is in two days.. I’ll be turning 25 on Sunday.. In the past few months.. Ive been going through a hard time with myself. Trying to give up life.. etc because of a lost love. She really took a piece of my heart when she broke up with me. I was needy, clingy, and all that chump stuff. At the end, I learned my lesson.. but she still pretty much dicked me at the end. I learned never to put expectation onto someone..

Anyways, I’m hoping this will change my life.. God knows I need it! Ever since the break up, I’ve been the complete opposite of confident. Blaming myself every night and day… crying when I’m sleeping.. being obviously afraid and having anxiety attacks when near females. Even my work output has been slacking off..

Deep inside, Im a great person. I have a big heart and would love to retire by volunteering or doing charity work. But as days go by, I’m becoming more bitter at the world, bitter at myself and just being a b\*\*\*h.

Im not expecting this to turn my life around. I hope this will help me get back on the right direction. I need to.. sooner or later.. 🙂

Thanks for reading this long post! I really could use that $25 GC. Times are tough for everyone! lol

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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 10:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/2 "2010-05-21T22:47:57Z")

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WOW, I opened up a lot… I forgot to add a few things..

WHat are my goals?  
I am naturally a shy guy. Growing up as the only child with a single parent.. I’ve been spoiled on (emotionally) all my life. Growing up, I never really had a big social group.. even until now. I see people with a lot of friends.. the only connection I see is that they are always friendly, always outgoing and smiling. I want to be that kind of person.

People say I am negative in life.. Well my father left when I was a kid.. and my ex crushed my heart. Maybe thats why? I want to be happy.. I want to have a lot of girlfriends and a lot of friends in general. Im not looking for a girlfriend or a relationship.. I want to expand my social circle and live life without having any doubts are worries. I want to be confident in everything that I do so when I do mess up , I can laugh it off…

I want to be the guy in the Dos Equis Commercial! hahahha.

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/3 "2010-05-21T23:13:50Z")

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Hi Andrew, welcome to the forum!

And thanks for the fabulous introduction!

First of all, you need to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and keep on going. You’re young, intelligent, have a good heart, and there are lots of fish in the sea. I know its hard to see that when you’re in the midst of feeling the way you do, but that too shall pass, as everything does.

For general attraction purposes, try Ammo. Ammo will give your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment.

Another product you would really benefit from is Instant Shine. Instant Shine is a positive, uplifting phero blend that will boost your mood and the moods of those around you, a great pick-me-up when you’re feeling a bit down.

A really great confidence product is A314, though its a bit serious, and really intended more for work settings. A314 is the ultimate confidence/trust/respect mix, and if you want to use it socially, you need to soften it with Instant Shine or [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/).

I hope this helps! 🙂

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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/4 "2010-05-21T23:19:19Z")

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Are Ammo or [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) available in oil form?  
Also, whats the word on A314? Seems like they are out of stock on the site

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/5 "2010-05-21T23:24:39Z")

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No, A314 is the only oil based product at this time, that I know of. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) has similar effects as A314 but gentler and more friendly, if its in stock. I believe there might be an experimental spray version of A314 in Experimental Test Mixes, though I’m not sure how it would work for you in that form (which is why its an experimental test mix 🙂)

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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/6 "2010-05-21T23:36:18Z")

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Aw… A314 became availble but I keep getting an error id 30?

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/7 "2010-05-21T23:42:03Z")

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> [@jandrew96](#):
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> Aw… A314 became availble but I keep getting an error id 30?

You can also call the 800 number and order that wayif the shopping cart is giving you trouble, tell them you’ve already introduced yourself, they should take care of you. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/8 "2010-05-21T23:44:15Z")

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Yikes, I just tried it too, and got the same message!

**Access denied !**

You are not allowed to access that resource!

**Error ID:** 30

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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/9 "2010-05-21T23:46:38Z")

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haha, i called and everything lol

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 21, 2010, 11:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/10 "2010-05-21T23:49:12Z")

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Great! Did they take care of you?

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**Author:** ![jandrew96](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/54ee81/32.png) [@jandrew96](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jandrew96)\
**Post date:** [May 24, 2010, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/11 "2010-05-24T15:12:09Z")

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bought one late friday night 😉

so how do I get my $25 gift certificate? haha

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**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\
**Post date:** [May 24, 2010, 4:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/12 "2010-05-24T16:42:59Z")

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Mickaelia should be along in the next day or so to give it to you. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [May 24, 2010, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-expect-nothing-but-i-hope-this-is-the-real-deal/38780/13 "2010-05-24T23:55:15Z")

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.
