# I felt like I was going crazy!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 22, 2008, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170 "2008-12-22T14:09:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sunbubbles](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@Sunbubbles](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sunbubbles)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2008, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170/1 "2008-12-22T14:09:58Z")
Okay! So I was able to finally able to go out to a party with my pheros. I cant say I was toooo thrilled. I felt like I was being ignored! lol I will say that I do notice the self effects of Honesty and Shine. I love that shine stuff Except IM the one who ends up spillin her guts to EVERYBODY everytime I use Honesty! 😕 Ex: Yesterday I went to this party that a friend was having. It was packed, and I knew I was gonna feel nervous because my TG ( or used to be TG lol ) was gonna be there. So I decided to put on Honesty, [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A, and Shine because I was in a really crappy mood. 3 sprays honesty - 1 on top of my head 1 on each wrist. 3 sprays IS/A 1 on top of my head, 1 on each wrist and 1 spray Shine 2x strength on my sweater. One of my friends who I have been having some drama with ended up coming to the party, and long story short I end up in the CORNER telling all of the drama to another friend of mine ( who was very empathetic btw) My TG gave me a funny look when he saw me and kindof paused, but ended up all smiles and we ended up exchanging hugs none the less. I wanted to stand there and make convo but i was so nervous and on EDGE that I immediately left and made my way through the crowd trying to mingle to take my mind off things. Man I probably looked like a J.E.R.K.! but any ways… My TG ended up sitting on the other side of the room! He did keep glancing in my direction but the whole encounter was just weird, but then again it always is weird with him. Then he got up all of a sudden and walked out the room. I didnt see him again for the rest of the night! lol ANYWAYS basically I was so Anxious ( thats the word Im looking for! lol) that I had to LEAVE before the party even ended ( It was a party/ poetry slam) I felt sooo wierd! Like the walls where caving in or something I just had to get away from all those ppl! Plus i guess I was upset about my friend drama. I was so upset, and shed a few tears, I really felt like BALLING my eyes out but for some reason I couldn’t CRY! Maybe that was the shine working?I know that your mood can have a large effect of how the pheros work. Is this normal? The IS/A obviously didnt work for me. Im 22 AND i am on my period right now ( sorry! I dont mean to sound gross) 😛 Do the pheros effect us as women differently when we’re on our period? hhhhhmmmm… ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2008, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170/2 "2008-12-22T15:26:25Z")
> [@Sunbubbles](#): > > 3 sprays honesty - 1 on top of my head 1 on each wrist. > 3 sprays IS/A 1 on top of my head, 1 on each wrist > > and 1 spray Shine 2x strength on my sweater. Wow! That was quite a phero-baptism for a first trial run! It is always best to start with _ **1** _ product at a time, and use each separately before you begin layering. Otherwise you don’t know what dosage is _ **your personal sweet spot** _ for each product, you can easily _ **miss what would work** _, but hey! you don’t know; and you can end up _ **ghosting yourself** _ because your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) signature is too different or too mixed up for people who know you to respond to it. 😮 But no worries, most of us have done the same thing when we started out. 🙂 Diane ---
**Author:** ![Sunbubbles](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/35a633/32.png) [@Sunbubbles](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sunbubbles)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2008, 8:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170/3 "2008-12-22T20:56:48Z")
Good point! I didnt even think of that! ok no more Phero baptism lol Does anybody know if maybe the period thing could have something to do with it also? ---
**Author:** ![diane999](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diane999/32/1110_2.png) [@diane999](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diane999)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 1:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170/4 "2008-12-23T01:32:44Z")
> [@Sunbubbles](#): > > Good point! I didnt even think of that! ok no more Phero baptism lol > > Does anybody know if maybe the period thing could have something to do with it also? We’re all a little more vulnerable to the crazies at that time. Diane ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2008, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-felt-like-i-was-going-crazy/24170/5 "2008-12-23T02:32:24Z")
LOL Welcome to the world of [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I see you got the traditional baptism out of the way. 😃 We all did it, its a right of passage. Now start again with one at a time as Diane suggested. A little tip about IH, I got the same effect which is how all my friends fround out I used mones LOL I blabbed it to everyone, I probably would have told them my pin number if they asked LOL Spray to the back of your head and neck. Hold your breath for a little till the mist settles. This way your less exposed then others 😉 Tisha