# I have a new target.. the girl is gone...a nd I mean gone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 15, 2010, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329 "2010-11-15T22:01:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 10:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/1 "2010-11-15T22:01:47Z")
Yeah, the girl flipped out on me one last time threatened to leave me, yet again. So I said bounce and I’m onto my next target. My girl was younger, this one is 29 and sweet as hell. She has shown signs of interest, and we have spent some time in a friend setting where we all sat down and watched movies. She’s hesitant to get into a serious relationship because her boyfriend did a huge number on her head. She’s dated white guys, Mexican guys and black men, but right now big beefy black guys seem to be her poison, but because her last guy hurt her so bad, she’s looking for someone stable, and can provide for her and her two kids so she’s not going for “types.” Yep she has kids, but they love me and I do adore them. Anyway, I’m thinking I need to go with something a bit more none heavy than my usual mix. I’m not bulked up, and I’m Caucasian with really light hair. I’m considering amping up the ammo in my mix for starters and less A314. I think going with something like MX395 might be a bit too potent to start with, that thing has a kick. But maybe 1/2 a spray of IJ in there as well. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/2 "2010-11-15T22:11:15Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > Yeah, the girl flipped out on me one last time threatened to leave me, yet again. So I said bounce and I’m onto my next target. > > My girl was younger, this one is 29 and sweet as hell. > She has shown signs of interest, and we have spent some time in a friend setting where we all sat down and watched movies. > > She’s hesitant to get into a serious relationship because her boyfriend did a huge number on her head. She’s dated white guys, Mexican guys and black men, but right now big beefy black guys seem to be her poison, but because her last guy hurt her so bad, she’s looking for someone stable, and can provide for her and her two kids so she’s not going for “types.” Yep she has kids, but they love me and I do adore them. > > Anyway, I’m thinking I need to go with something a bit more none heavy than my usual mix. I’m not bulked up, and I’m Caucasian with really light hair. > > I’m considering amping up the ammo in my mix for starters and less A314. I think going with something like MX395 might be a bit too potent to start with, that thing has a kick. But maybe 1/2 a spray of IJ in there as well. As a side note man, I’m glad the girl is gone. I held my tongue out of respect but when you posted about not doing certain activities (yoga I think?) because of her I felt that you might be compromising too much of yourself for it to be a healthy relationship. So congrats…I hope that’s ok to say. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2010, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/3 "2010-11-16T01:26:57Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > As a side note man, I’m glad the girl is gone. I held my tongue out of respect but when you posted about not doing certain activities (yoga I think?) because of her I felt that you might be compromising too much of yourself for it to be a healthy relationship. So congrats…I hope that’s ok to say. I was thinking the same thing:o. Glad you’ve moved on I would say get yourself some IJ if you don’t have it already. It gives that none edge and guess what? You can still be a gentleman and wear it well. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2010, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/4 "2010-11-16T02:58:28Z")
haha…no need to hold your tongue guys. Yeah, I did compromise a bit too much in the last there, but not anymore. She was hooked, but wanted to play games. I guess trying to get back some of that control she lost. But yeah Steve, I do have some IJ, will be tossing that into the mix and see how this works out. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TheBoogieMan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/theboogieman/32/1136_2.png) [@TheBoogieMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TheBoogieMan)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2010, 5:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/5 "2010-11-16T05:24:42Z")
Good for you. Hopefully you’re not in for too much drama…the way you described her behavior while you were together I doubt it will be a clean break. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2010, 2:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/6 "2010-11-16T14:58:22Z")
Good luck Gent. It will be every bit as interesting to follow your exploits with this woman. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 16, 2010, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/7 "2010-11-16T20:29:50Z")
> [@thegentleman](#): > > haha…no need to hold your tongue guys. Yeah, I did compromise a bit too much in the last there, but not anymore. She was hooked, but wanted to play games. I guess trying to get back some of that control she lost. > > But yeah Steve, I do have some IJ, will be tossing that into the mix and see how this works out. 🙂 I’m really glad you can agree that being open and honest about a situation is beneficial. Unfortunately its not always the way it is and many friendships have been ruined over the years because of honesty. I’ve posted this some time ago but I had a friend who I hooked up with this girl I had been messing around with for some time. She was lots of fun and while great to enjoy each others company she was not a keeper. She was all about status and money and was very much a “sluty” girl. Now don’t get me wrong, there’s a place for everyone and to this day I have a lot of respect and love for that girl. We still talk once in a while and while I never would call her that, the point I’m making is that is how others saw her. She basically was a good time girl and not the kind of girl I would recommend dating or marrying. She is super cool, but she likes to have her fun and that fun involves going from one guy to the next. Maybe that’s why we got along so well since I do the same only with women 😉. Anyway my friend was in a bad place and I knew she would cheer him up. I emphasized to him that she was a good time girl and not to get hooked on. This guy had a habit of falling in love with any girl that gave him a little pussy. Well as it turned out before long she and him were living together and then came baby:o. Well he fell for this girl in a BIG way and they lasted for a whole year while he was working for a telecommunications company in Newark NJ bringing home big bucks. His job folded after 9/11 and she got to wandering to have a “good time” with anyone she could. She basically got “bored” and wanted excitement again. Now I realize this is completely different from your situation. I mentioned and did what I could to inform him what he could do. They did have a daughter together after all. He didn’t take it well at all and even though all of his friends were trying to help him he became angry at us and that ended his friendship with us. It took us a long time to get back talking. Point of this is I learned a lesson to stay out of it.😛. I’m glad you got through it and it didn’t take that long for you to see the light 😃 ---
**Author:** ![thegentleman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/thegentleman/32/1770_2.png) [@thegentleman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/thegentleman)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2010, 5:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/8 "2010-11-17T05:26:26Z")
LOL… Oh Steve I know that story all too well. Friend comes to me and says, “I’m so tired of Sarah and the games she played.” And I would agree and not say much anymore. Then a few nights later I go visit my buddy and he and Sarah are sitting on the couch and that girl is fuming… “Oh I heard the way you talked about me!” Then my buddy… “Yeah dude, that wasn’t cool, she’s my girl and we’re in love.” So yeah, I know about staying out of it until its for sure done and over and the friend is ready to hear some honesty. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [November 17, 2010, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-have-a-new-target-the-girl-is-gone-a-nd-i-mean-gone/43329/9 "2010-11-17T18:38:55Z")
Sarah? I was with her last weekend. LOL, she’s a HO and she owes me money