# I made a pinky promise...now I'm worried. **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 22, 2008, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341 "2008-02-22T18:19:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Elleshopper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/elleshopper/32/242_2.png) [@Elleshopper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Elleshopper)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/1 "2008-02-22T18:19:30Z")
I made a pinky promise to Tisha that I would report on my first-ever pheros: [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) For Women XTAH [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) For Men [MX135](https://pheromonelabs.com/) And I will…I just don’t have time at the moment because I have to get ready for work in a bit, and can’t type up my last two weeks’ experiment. Thing is, my experience seems to contradict much advice given here. I’m so new that I’ve experimented in ways that I’m now reading are not necessarily recommended…with results! And some of the results I’ve gotten seem atypical compared to what most of you would apparently expect. Will my experiences change over time? Or will I settle on the pheros that work for me regardless of the apparent lack of logic to how they work for me? For example, I’m _ **NOT** _ liking IS/A. I know! It’s like practically a “staple” around here, right? I think it makes a particular woman I work with over-the-top aggressive. Hate that. And ISHINE doesn’t seem to tame her a bit. XTAH alone …yeah I know, you DON’T recommend _that_…LOVE it! **That** and a little bit of ISHINE last night made for a great night waitressing! t didn’t make me all hopeless and helpless. I’m really curious about that. I’m normally a _ **very** _ girly girl…(I think 4" spike heels are feminine. I love pink.) I’m just really girly, and strangely, the XTAH didn’t make me the slightest bit ditzy. I was VERY comfortable with it last night. 😕 Tisha, you really want a report with results that may be confusing? Especially to newbies? If yes, I will report on the last two weeks…the hows, the wheres, the how muches. I’ve kept a log of the days with all this and the combinations. Oh! And m135? **LOVE IT**! 😛 My husband thinks “my new perfume” smells like mens soap if I don’t cover it well. Interesting… Pink sugar covers great! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 7:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/2 "2008-02-22T19:10:33Z")
LOL The little information you have given so far makes perfect sense to me. There are TAH girls (MX135 IS/B TAH ) and there are TAL girls (IS/A TAL MX134) Since your loving TAH alone and mX135 which is TAH based I can safely say your a TAH girl. It seems depending on the women we all lean more towards one or the other and those products work best for us. This however dosnt mean you cant use TAL based products just that you may need to tweak them a bit. Once you do a full report on the amounts and results I will be able to help you will that. > [@](#): > > Tisha, you really want a report with results that may be confusing? Especially to newbies? Yep I want the good the bad and the ugly 😉 snort The recommendations we give are general because each person is different. Some application methods work better for some then they do with others so even if your method is different thats ok because it may help someone else when they are starting out. There is no rule that says you cant wear TAH on its own or that you have to use IS/A . You use what works for you and when you post wepick up on certain personality traits and when you look at the whole picture it makes sense. > [@](#): > > Will my experiences change over time? Or will I settle on the pheros that work for me regardless of the apparent lack of logic to how they work for me? Yes it will, after you get used to the products of course your going to have the ones that suit you and you like the best but the ones like IS/A that dont fit you are still useful. They just take a bit more work to get the results your looking for. By the way The bitchy aggressive work chick is picking up on the strong alpha vibe of TAL. She is “challenging” you for the alpha spot which mean she is defiantly seeing you as a threat and the IS/A is working in a way. Be congruent with the [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and tell her to back the hell off and she will wither. I can help more with that after I have more info to LOL Looking forward to hearing about your experiences 😉 Your doing great !! Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Karmiel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/karmiel/32/2234_2.png) [@Karmiel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karmiel)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/3 "2008-02-22T19:13:51Z")
You’re definately a Tah girl, so am I, I can put on tons of it (as much as 100mcg) and not feel the slightest bit ditzey, just very upbeat and comfortable. I tend to stay away from too much Tal, I have a strong personality as it is, so I like the softer pheros like tah and est. And it seems you have discovered the magic that is mx135 😛 I can’t wait for androtics to make it a consumer product (b/c we all _know_ it’s gonna happen 🙄 ). You could also try adding tah to your is/a to soften it up so you can still get use out of it. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/4 "2008-02-22T20:57:47Z")
You’re not alone Elleshopper, there are quite a few tah girls here on the board. Instant sexiness A wasn’t for me either. I’m mean enough. 🙄 Tah and mx135 on the other hand I love. There is another version of instant sexiness, [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) which is more tah heavy and might let you fly under radar of your coworker. To me IS/B is still a strong confident signature but the tah in it lightens it up enough for me to avoid the cranky demanding self affect of IS/A. You can test this yourself wearing IS/A and tah together to see if you should go for IS/B. Personally I have been favoring mx135 and rarely wear IS/B. MX134 might be a good choice for you too, it doesn’t make me cranky and gives off a strong confident vibe when you need it. Using it might be more fun than flying under the radar with your coworker. 😉 Waitressing has to be an excellent environment for testing. So which product brings in the better tips? ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2008, 11:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/5 "2008-02-22T23:37:45Z")
> [@inkling](#): > > You’re not alone Elleshopper, there are quite a few tah girls here on the board. _ **Instant sexiness A wasn’t for me either. I’m mean enough. 🙄** _ > > _ **Tah and mx135 on the other hand I love.** _ _ **There is another version of instant sexiness, instant sexiness B which is more tah heavy** _ and might let you fly under radar of your coworker. To me IS/B is still a strong confident signature but the tah in it lightens it up enough for me to avoid the cranky demanding self affect of IS/A. You can test this yourself wearing IS/A and tah together to see if you should go for IS/B. Personally I have been favoring mx135 and rarely wear IS/B. > > _ **MX134 might be a good choice for you too, it doesn’t make me cranky and gives off a strong confident vibe when you need it.** _ Using it might be more fun than flying under the radar with your coworker. 😉 > > Waitressing has to be an excellent environment for testing. So which product brings in the better tips? That’s why [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/)/B is on _my_ next order! I don’t know about _mean._…let’s just say…I’m naturally _assertive_ enough. A lot of girls who use Instant Sexiness/A can either _use/need_ the boost of confidence…or _like_ that extra assertive feeling. _Me?_ Notsomuch. I find the same thing about MX134, too, Ink. From reading your posts for so long now …I keep finding we have the same _taste_ for pheromones. In fact I think we may be “pheromone sisters”! 😛 LOL ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 8:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/6 "2008-02-23T08:51:40Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > That’s why Instant Sexiness/B is on _my_ next order! I don’t know about _mean._…let’s just say…I’m naturally _assertive_ enough. A lot of girls who use Instant Sexiness/A can either _use/need_ the boost of confidence…or _like_ that extra assertive feeling. _Me?_ Notsomuch. > I find the same thing about MX134, too, Ink. From reading your posts for so long now …I keep finding we have the same _taste_ for pheromones. > In fact I think we may be “pheromone sisters”! 😛 LOL Woohoo! Does that mean I get to borrow your 25mcg Tah in Cookie? 😃 I seriously need to order a bottle like that, I have [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) envy. My current bottle should go quickly enough it is only 10mcg. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/7 "2008-02-23T10:06:37Z")
> [@inkling](#): > > _ **Woohoo! Does that mean I get to borrow your 25mcg Tah in Cookie? 😃** _ > I seriously need to order a bottle like that, I have pheromone envy. My current bottle should go quickly enough it is only 10mcg. Absolutely, I _know it will be a perfect fit! Only problem is…I’ll still_ have to _ **smell** _ _it on you! 🙄_ …but ay least I’ll be _nice_ about it! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/8 "2008-02-23T10:12:33Z")
LOL. I wore est & cookie instant honesty to pick up my sisters 6 year old twins a few days ago. Boy twin asks me what is that smell? I said my perfume what does it smell like to you? He wouldn’t tell me. My guess is the combo was good enough to curb him from telling me I stink. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 11:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/9 "2008-02-23T11:19:06Z")
> [@inkling](#): > > LOL. _ **I wore est & cookie instant honesty** _ to pick up my sisters 6 year old twins a few days ago. _ **Boy twin asks me what is that smell?** _ I said my perfume what does it smell like to you? He wouldn’t tell me. _ **My guess is the combo was good enough to curb him from telling me I stink.** _ 🙂 How _sweet_ that darling, diplomatic child just loooves Auntie Inkling too much…to tell her she stinks! 😛 The ‘protective’ instinct of EST seems to be apparent _even in a six year old male_…otherwise the [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) may have forced it out of him! LOL. Great kid, great combo! ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/10 "2008-02-23T15:23:44Z")
Count me as another TAH girl. When I first tried IS/A I really didn’t like the way it made me feel and I didn’t notice results either. IS/A on me was “Instant Bitch.” 😮 Lor sent me a bit of IS/B and that was much better, softer, playful but still sexy and sassy. When I use IS/A now I always add a bunch of TAH. MX135 is great too, party in a bottle! and I’d wear it a **lot** more often if it wasn’t chocolatini scented … it’s just not often that I want to smell like that, though some people seem to like smelling it on me. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [February 23, 2008, 3:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-made-a-pinky-promise-now-im-worried/9341/11 "2008-02-23T15:30:48Z")
> [@Elleshopper](#): > > Thing is, my experience seems to contradict much advice given here. I’m so new that I’ve experimented in ways that I’m now reading are not necessarily recommended…with results! And some of the results I’ve gotten seem atypical compared to what most of you would apparently expect. > > Will my experiences change over time? Or will I settle on the pheros that work for me regardless of the apparent lack of logic to how they work for me? > > Tisha, you really want a report with results that may be confusing? Especially to newbies? Sounds like you are DEFINITELY a TAH girl…😃 Everyone has different experiences with pheromones, and that is the great thing about them. No two people will have the same experiences or need the same dosage… Just keep working it…